Why won't a girl make any effort?

Couter
I thought of this question when reading some responses to another one.

If a guy asks you out, and gives you his number, why don't girls call him? I read that its because if a guy isn't interested enough to call you, then why should you call him. But he already showed his interest by breaking the ice and asking you out, shouldn't the girl then have to show her interest by actually calling him?

I could say that if a girl isn't interested in me enough to reach in her pocket and hit a few keys, when I've already shown that I'm interested, why should I make even more effort?

It seems that girls just want to either say yes or no, without ever actually making any sort of effort. Shouldn't it be a two way street?
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There seems to be a lot of misconception about the reasons behind why I am asking this, so I'll try to clear it up.


I don't think that because I give a girl my number, she has to call me. I understand that she just may not be interested.

I'm just wondering about why girls who ARE interested in a guy, refuse to call him first.


It's just curiosity, not a jaded, passive aggressive rant that I can't get a date, as so many people seem to believe.
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I've had my share of dates, but I have never once had a girl be the first one to call, even when she was interested.
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