Scared to call my boyfriend but miss him like crazy!

[TabiBerry1740]

know it sounds ridiculous and kinda pathetic , but I am seriously scared to call him . but I have reasons: 1.| he has a big family , and the majority of his family doesn't speak English . he also broke his cell so now he uses his home phone (bringing me to number2.) so whenever someone besides him answers the phone , I know I'm going to freak Because its gonna be so awkward - the barely understand English

also , I think his family knows the general idea of me but they Haven't met me before , which will add to the awkwardness

hes also a really busy person-school has just resumed again just the past week and he's also doing a lot of work with soccer so he's never really home .

I'm just so tired of staying around waiting for him to call . its pretty much like a long distance relationship . but I feel like this is the worse its been . were going on one year btw..

i just feel so pathetic but I miss him so bad . we've been measaging on fb for a while but he stopped replying...when I get on fb it says he's online but after about 5 minutes he gets off . makes me feel like he doesn't even want to talk to me . I don't know what to do honestly . ugh .

[Anonymous]

Thats so sweet! :)

Aww yes, :) Call him.There's nothing to be scared about, it will cost you nothing to call him and bring you happiness and the family will look up to you being touched cause you know how to get in touch with your boyfriend and initiate the act. But it wall cost you to miss him more if you don't.

:)

Then you'll also know what is happening. Even if he rejects you or not, you can say that you did your best to make things work. :)

[Anonymous]

I would just leave him a message or IM on Facebook like, "Call me when you find time, I really miss you." That's kind of win/win because you don't have to talk to his family aaand you won't feel like you're forcing him to talk to you. If he doesn't call you even you ask him to, I'm out of advice :(

[toouglytobeloved]

guys always like the girl to call even if the guy doesn't call ... so go with your feelings not your fear

[patoot10]

just call him and tell him what you just said in your question