I know it was just an example, but for sex, I'd like him to be my boyfriend first before trying to do anything with me lol.
Anyway, back to the real point. I like it more when a guy is straightforward. I don't have time for hints and mind games. I've tried to read so many guys who were too subtle or too vague with their statements, and honestly I'm sick of it. It would be a breath of fresh air to actually meet someone who says what he means.
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Straightforward, I am to! It's also a cultural thing, my country is known for it's people being very direct, some say even up to the point of rudeness lol.
Next to that I don't like playing games. That's why dating is a nightmare because the men I've dated are so used to dating women who do enjoy the game play. It... friggin... annoys... me! Just stay real, honest and open!
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Straightforward, but not in the sense you're referring to. Straightforward as in you can go ahead and ask her out, but not ask her to have sex (unless she's a huge slut, then that would be acceptable to her presume). No self-respecting woman is going to have sex with someone they're not in some sort of a commitment.
I think that at first is very important for the guy to be clear about his intentions, be straightforward, we like that when we are getting to know you. Specially because we don't catch subtle when we are just starting to date. Now, if you start seeing each other more frequently, it'd be fun to be subtle once in a while
straightforward but with tact. I mean not as in you know the girl for a couple of weeks and suddenly your like BAM hey honey wanna fuck?
But in general I think it would be cool if a guy was straight-forward in a kind way (not cocky or asshole-like I guess that's what I'm trying to say :p)I wanna guy to be honest, but ready to hear what i have to say and not be hurt or offended (yes i realize it can be a lot to ask). I wanna get to know a guy before i date him, but i want the honesty.
I like for men to be straightforward. Guys who are subtle just become annoying and aggravating to deal with. I don't have time for all of that game playing.
Not too straightforward because and not too subtle. Be mysterious, don't reveal everything about yourself but also don't ALWAYS play games.
I personally like a guy who hints at things like that. I think it's cute to make me wonder like that.
I don't like sex. So how about a guy who never wants it.
Straightforward all the way. The hinting thing (whatever it's about) just is annoying to me. Just (for the lack of a better phrase) man up and ask for it dammit!
We just started to do that for fun and upload it on YouTube:-p we don't often ask for sex in it tho ha. Want link?:-p
Personally, I prefer a guy to be straightforward. Otherwise, I second guess myself and his interest in me.
Straightforward! Yea... I don't want to guess or just assumed things. It's better to say what he wants.
No way never! Of course a guy wants to have sex she knows that, let her initiate it. At best a subtle hint after a long while b
I like both, but personally I like guys that are more straight forward, go ahead and say what's on your mind to me.
No, if he respects me he will respect my decision too. He should love me for me, not just for using me.
I don't like it when people beat around the bush
Straightforward. I don't want to guess
I like my men straightforward but subtle about
Straightforward is better. It saves a lot of time.
Straightforward. I like to be told the truth.
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