Polls: Girl's Behavior

A guy I really like use to try & touch me all the time- finding any excuse to touch me & always hold intense eye contact. He's also a big flirt & I could have misread his interest. We had an awkward kiss moment leaving me wondering if he is interested & maybe making him wonder if I'm interested. Afterwards he'd try not to touch me and apologized if he did. But he still held intense stares… So here's my question:

I know this is going to start WW3 but...

What I notice is that when women post questions about their boyfriends it kind of comes off like the guy is to blame for everything. The girl has no idea how it has gotten to this point in the relationship except through the guys selfishness.

I've noticed that in friends too. That women complain about their men like they are just one step away from leaving him at all times.

I have had 6 boyfriends and never felt like they were to blame in all the fights. I know I did my part too. If something was wrong it was at least 50% my fault most of the time.

So my question is, do you think women put too much blame on men in relationships and not take their fair share of the blame when there is a problem?

Example:

A guy likes a girl for 5 months straight. He pursues her and is around her all the time and the two become good friends. He wants to be in a serious relationship with her. But she doesn't feel the same way.

Well, one day he decides to stop liking her. But that's the thing, how can he DECIDE that? She has done a few things to make him angry and discouraged, but they have gotten over it and he was always seriously attracted to her..up until that 5 month point.

But since when can you "just stop" liking someone? Don't the feelings remain, maybe buried, maybe denied to the point where he's convinced himself he really doesn't want her, but STILL there. Maybe it takes a certain event to resurface the feelings. Or maybe one night he does a lot of thinking and realizes he hasn't completely stopped liking her.

Is it possible to re-ignite the flames of the first 5 months?

I know I've never been able to JUST STOP liking someone. All the men of my past, still have a little, tiny flame in my heart! Can't be just me, right?

One morning, I came into school dressed up for an event and when I went to my locker the guy I like was there. We started talking about the event and our outfits etc, and then he asked me if he looked festive enough. I said yeah, but I have accessories in my bag if you want to amp it up. He was excited and I gave him some beads and a fresh flower for his hair like the one I had in mine (seriously, I didn't think he'd be willing to put the flower in his hair...). I really wanted to be less nervous around him so when he asked me if it was in straight, I said no (Ha, I lied) so I could "fix" it and break into his personal space. He just stood there and let me fix and then showed another friend of ours what I did and complimented me on all the things I brought in etc.

Anyway, later after I got close to him. He wanted to see if this bag I always carry was really heavy. I said not really, but when he grabbed it, instead of just taking the part of the handle my hand wasn't on or waiting for me to pass him the bag, he wrapped his hand right on top of mine to take it so I had to slip my hand from underneath his when he pulled it from the other side of me.

To me, this is a REALLY awkward way to grab something. It seemed like an excuse to hold my hand because I've totally done this move before when you pass something to someone awkwardly so you can touch their hand.

What do you all thing about this "move"? Is it a sign of affection toward the other person? Would you ever do this to get closer to someone?

99,9% of all guys are jerks and perverts.

when they like you --they will do what it takes to be nice and to get your attention, once their feelings of affection have died out for you- they poses all the jerk like qualities and expose their pervertness.

Now agree or disagree? I know this question or this comment could stir up some men saying that girls are like that.

that's could be true. But my topic of curiosity is focused on males now.

guys and girls can answer.

do you guys agree or disagree?

and is it that hard to find an Non-jerk guy ?

I'm always afraid to talk about some personal things with my boyfriend because I'm afraid if I cry, he'll think I'm weird or he'll get really awkward or something. I really want to be more open with him, but I don't know what to do. I don't usually cry in front of people so I was wondering how guys feel when their girlfriends cry