He won't text first, so what should I text him?

[Anonymous]

You know how this goes.. I like him but he hasn't texted me in a week. I am usually the one to text first and I've been waiting for him to text me but he hasnt. When I do text him our convos last all day and into the night until one of us fall asleep. I see him around my school and he is just looking at me. He only says hi/smiles after I do first. When I do, he gives me the biggest smile

So what should I text him? POLL BELOW/LEAVE A COMMENT! Anything helps! Thanks

"Why haven't you talked to me in a while"

"Where have you been"

"So what... you don't want to talk to me anymore"

"Long time.. no talk"

[Smilez123]

sweety... I have 1 good friend who is like that and know a guy who is like that. Even if they do get what you WANT them to do, chances are it will not happen other than maybe once or twice. The guy friend of mine thinks "if someone wants to talk to me, they will come to me." The other guy says the same, but he also says he likes being approached because it "makes him feel special." I'm sure there are other reasons, BUT it's not likely he will change his ways (permanently) for you. It could be a force of habit or just part of their human nature. Don't let something so small bother you though, it's really not worth frustrating yourself over. :) I mean, hey, you guys end up talking for a long time, so he's obviously cool with you!

[Asker]

I think you are right because when a month or so ago when I told jokingly asked why he hasn't texted me he then started to text first for about a week, then after went back to me texting first when I wanted to talk. I don't mind too much texting first but I just don't want to look obsessed or clingy. So do you think I should text first?

[Smilez123]

Sorry haven't been around in a while, but I hope I can still help if you need it. I think you should do whatever you feel comfortable with and not think too much about it. :)

[emzy-89]

out of these, I'd go with the last one, you don't want to come off as being hostile, a simple hi, how are you? I think is a better way to go.

[Asker]

I think you are right. I'm just over thinking the entire situation. Thanks =)

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't choose any of the answers you put. Why not just saying "Heyy what's up? How you beeen?"

just something more layed back?

[Asker]

The thing is, I always text first, I want to somehow let him know he should text first too.

[smokedabuds]

over analyze much? what's wrong with the simple hows it going...