We weren't meant to get along with eachother, we were meant to fight each other. We'll never be one, it's naive to think otherwise, the first one to lay down their weapons loses, and it won't be me.
You are entitled to your opinions and choices in life. And you want to fight, fight. But you ever heard the term, fight fair? If someone go na come at me, insult me, do it for something I said or did, not some "other" female. And fight with FACTS, real facts. Not bs misguided assumptions. Just love when say "all" . All men this or all women that. Unless been with or know "all" how the hell can anyone say that. I ain'tl "all" women. I'm uniquely me.
I'll grant that we'll never be one (whatever that means) but to move from that statement to "we'll always be fighting amongst each other" is simply not true, no matter how many times you say it. And then to state that the first one to lay down their weapons etc., suggests a relationship between men and women that simply doesn't exist.
We'll never successfully work together because we have two opposing goals. It is true, we've been at war since the beginning of time, and we'll be at war until the end of time, you know it.
Let me reiterate: just because you say it's true, doesn't make it true. Your truth about the divide between yourself and women may be true for yourself-but it's self imposed-and has no basis in fact except in your little war-like brain.
ah geez-We have the most important things in common. Like the desire to be loved and the desire to have someone you can trust in and the desire to have a good laugh and the desire to have lifetime goals and the desire to be intimate... I could go on and on and on... We're not at all polar opposites, just the different sides of the same coin...
Everything you just said is wrong. I'm not bitter, just in tune with reality, the fact that you're so out of touch with it and have a utopian fantasy view of the world explains why you're liberal.
Every man i've ever been with has agreed with me, which makes me think that you are the one who is out of touch with reality. And how did you ever pull politics into this? Geez some people are ignorant.
But I do have your number now-you're trolling. And no one, left or right, wants to waste her time on a troll. I muting you so i won't have to listen to any more of your whining about women.
@Rangers after talking with you, I get that you have issues going on in your life. Be angry at the unfairness of that, fine. But all women are not the reason for that. I'm a woman that took time out of her day tiki listen to you, sympathize and offer support and advice. Yet here you still are, insulting and bashing women? Maybe it's not your health then why you can't find someone to date. What woman wants to date someone with that attitude? Till you see that, get that, you're not going to have much success in that department
That's not true... all depends who you interact with and how "you" act... I've only spoke too few idiots... most people have treated me with respect even when disagreeing, because "I" treat them with respect... Think about the way "you" talk to/ treat people.
No I think it's the other way around.. don't forget you sent a rude post to a post that was meant to wish someone well... without someone from that post doing so to you first... did you not?
Yeah but you're still missing the point, but🤷♀️I don't really got time for this this morning... and anyways because you just want to stay angry. Fine, but find another outlet for your anger and please stop directing it at people who don't deserve it... thanks.. have a good day young man😊see kind words...
Umm I'm not the one playing victim here, that would be you. And I've treated you with nothing but respect, both here and in PM listening to your problems, and offering advice. But I'm done with this convo. Be well
I told you that what I said was wrong and insensitive of me, but I said it because I felt a double standard in that if anything like that had happened to me, as history has shown, I would've simply been told to man up and stop whining
It can be minus the idiot cowards do can only feel brave and empowered hiding behind a screen. And I stay away from those and don't engage in their bs behavior. And I've talked/ shared opinions, laughs with some great people so I respectfully disagree with that statement
Look there's agreeing/ disagreeing discussing or even arguing differences but in a respectable manner. That does not excuse or justify people being verbally attacked. And "iit's the internet" is a bs excuse. Do you want your kids or wife/, SO/Mother treated like that IRL? Cuz iit's still "real" people with "real " feelings. Yeah, the way people act here, if they did that shit without hiding behind a screen, someone would knock em on their ass.
Hehe... the latter is up to you. As to the former, you can raise your expectations all you want here on G@G, but it won't help an ignorant or rude person, unfortunately.
I won't dispute the value of leading by example, but unless someone actually changes their behavior via changing their attitudes, an apology can be just words. I agree that setting a higher bar isn't a bad thing, I just don't hold out hope for it on here, for the other side of the bell curve :) Or the world, for that matter ! :)
Some people do care not to be bashed or sent inappropriate pics by people with little to no manners. Maybe if more people cared, less people would act like that. Is that the same thing you'd tell your child if they were bullyied at school? Noone cares? Bad enough when kids do it to kids, but adults?
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Excellent reminder... thank you.
Thank you
Spot on! Couldn't agree more 👏
Thank you hon🤗
We weren't meant to get along with eachother, we were meant to fight each other. We'll never be one, it's naive to think otherwise, the first one to lay down their weapons loses, and it won't be me.
You are entitled to your opinions and choices in life. And you want to fight, fight. But you ever heard the term, fight fair? If someone go na come at me, insult me, do it for something I said or did, not some "other" female. And fight with FACTS, real facts. Not bs misguided assumptions. Just love when say "all" . All men this or all women that.
Unless been with or know "all" how the hell can anyone say that.
I ain'tl "all" women. I'm uniquely me.
Really?
Yes, really
im thinking that its naive to think the way you think.
It's naive not to think the way that I'm thinking
@juliaanita the way I think? Or @Rangers?
sorry... im responding to rangers.
maybe uncivilized is a a better word than naive.
@juliaanita ok then I agree lol
i know i know! we agree :)
It's the truth, we'll never be one. We'll always be fighting amongst eachother, if you stop, they'll take advantage and continue
I'll grant that we'll never be one (whatever that means) but to move from that statement to "we'll always be fighting amongst each other" is simply not true, no matter how many times you say it.
And then to state that the first one to lay down their weapons etc., suggests a relationship between men and women that simply doesn't exist.
We'll never successfully work together because we have two opposing goals. It is true, we've been at war since the beginning of time, and we'll be at war until the end of time, you know it.
Let me reiterate: just because you say it's true, doesn't make it true. Your truth about the divide between yourself and women may be true for yourself-but it's self imposed-and has no basis in fact except in your little war-like brain.
Men and women are polar opposites in everything, name one thing men and women have in common, go.
go where? I don't understand the question, "go"
It means go ahead and name one thing men and women have in common
ah, of course-i misread.
ah geez-We have the most important things in common. Like the desire to be loved and the desire to have someone you can trust in and the desire to have a good laugh and the desire to have lifetime goals and the desire to be intimate...
I could go on and on and on...
We're not at all polar opposites, just the different sides of the same coin...
you sound bitter, so I wish you well...
Everything you just said is wrong. I'm not bitter, just in tune with reality, the fact that you're so out of touch with it and have a utopian fantasy view of the world explains why you're liberal.
Every man i've ever been with has agreed with me, which makes me think that you are the one who is out of touch with reality.
And how did you ever pull politics into this? Geez some people are ignorant.
But I do have your number now-you're trolling. And no one, left or right, wants to waste her time on a troll.
I muting you so i won't have to listen to any more of your whining about women.
Failed to counter me, not surprised
@Rangers after talking with you, I get that you have issues going on in your life. Be angry at the unfairness of that, fine. But all women are not the reason for that. I'm a woman that took time out of her day tiki listen to you, sympathize and offer support and advice. Yet here you still are, insulting and bashing women? Maybe it's not your health then why you can't find someone to date. What woman wants to date someone with that attitude?
Till you see that, get that, you're not going to have much success in that department
Saying we're not the same isn't bashing
No but you were getting rude and assuming. You can't keep taking for anger out on others. Just saying🤷♀️
But it's okay when a woman does it, eh?
No it's not. And don't use that as excuse... ever heard two wrongs don't make a right?
Yes, but it's used exclusively by people who commit the most wrongs and fear retaliation😒
That's not true... all depends who you interact with and how "you" act... I've only spoke too few idiots... most people have treated me with respect even when disagreeing, because "I" treat them with respect...
Think about the way "you" talk to/ treat people.
I talk to a treat people according to how they do so to me
No I think it's the other way around.. don't forget you sent a rude post to a post that was meant to wish someone well... without someone from that post doing so to you first... did you not?
We've been through this already🙄
Yeah but you're still missing the point, but🤷♀️I don't really got time for this this morning... and anyways because you just want to stay angry.
Fine, but find another outlet for your anger and please stop directing it at people who don't deserve it... thanks.. have a good day young man😊see kind words...
Stop playing the victim, you treat me poorly, I treat you poorly. It's fair
Umm I'm not the one playing victim here, that would be you. And I've treated you with nothing but respect, both here and in PM listening to your problems, and offering advice. But I'm done with this convo. Be well
I told you that what I said was wrong and insensitive of me, but I said it because I felt a double standard in that if anything like that had happened to me, as history has shown, I would've simply been told to man up and stop whining
But again why should you if you don't treat people with the same respect she does/ did. Again you have to give respect to get it
I actknowledge that what I did that time was wrong, but you don't know the full story with me and Juliana, she's disrespected me many times
Agreed, but I just mostly use this site to troll and post awesome poll options on my questions.
True, real questions barely gets good answers, while kind of click baity takes get a ton.
great post and advice
Thank you❣
I agree. People misuse this site and there should be a 3 strikes, you're out policy implemented, aka banned on 3rd offense.
Calling this cesspool of humanity a great site is blatantly false
It can be minus the idiot cowards do can only feel brave and empowered hiding behind a screen. And I stay away from those and don't engage in their bs behavior. And I've talked/ shared opinions, laughs with some great people so I respectfully disagree with that statement
Great my take 😊
Thanks friend... means a lot coming from you🤗I'd even buy you a chocolate bar, but sadly all's I could afford right now is the kit Katie version😞
That's ok. I will live. 😋
No withdrawals?😂
Let's stone them to death!
Filthy infidels!
Good take
Thank you very much
Nice post !!
Thank you
Excellent Take.
Aww thank you. That means a lot to me
Your Welcome 😊
No I think we'll just keep doing what we're doing. I like that way better.
Look there's agreeing/ disagreeing discussing or even arguing differences but in a respectable manner. That does not excuse or justify people being verbally attacked. And "iit's the internet" is a bs excuse. Do you want your kids or wife/, SO/Mother treated like that IRL? Cuz iit's still "real" people with "real " feelings. Yeah, the way people act here, if they did that shit without hiding behind a screen, someone would knock em on their ass.
Meh, I'd rather my family be safe from petty tyrants.
Whatever you say... have a nice day sir 😊thanks for reading
You are asking too much, darlin.
No maybe people don't ask enough.. or put up with too much...🤷♀️
Hehe... the latter is up to you. As to the former, you can raise your expectations all you want here on G@G, but it won't help an ignorant or rude person, unfortunately.
That's not always true... I've had people start out rude and actually apologize. Sometimes it's how we react, best way to lead is by example...
I won't dispute the value of leading by example, but unless someone actually changes their behavior via changing their attitudes, an apology can be just words. I agree that setting a higher bar isn't a bad thing, I just don't hold out hope for it on here, for the other side of the bell curve :) Or the world, for that matter ! :)
Site evolved, no one cares
Some people do care not to be bashed or sent inappropriate pics by people with little to no manners. Maybe if more people cared, less people would act like that. Is that the same thing you'd tell your child if they were bullyied at school? Noone cares? Bad enough when kids do it to kids, but adults?
Yeah you talked about way more than bullying. At least be consistent
How am I not?