For those who seem to have forgotten what G@G stands for, It's" Girls ask Guys" and meant to be a relationship advice/ experience sharing site for men and women. But some people are misusing this site for things it's not meant to be. So this is My Take on the most repetitive misuses I've seen and experienced on #G@G and what G@G does not mean/stand for:
1.Girls against guys/Guys against girls.
I have seen a lot of gender bashing on here. It is okay to have differences of opinions,agree to disagree. What is not okay is to insult people, bully, or gang up on someone because their views/ beliefs /opinions differ from yours. Isn't that part of the point? To get other people's take on things?
And while this is a mostly adult forum, there is younger users on here people, so lets keep it respectful please!
2.Girls assume about guys/Guys assume about girls.
While having/stating/sharing an opinion on the behaviors of the opposite sex, please remember the difference between assumption and fact.(for those who need a refresher see above definitions) If you are sharing your personal "real" life experiences with someone of the opposite sex-fact. But when you say All-"All women are gold diggers" or "All men are sexist pigs" those are assumptions and unfair ones at that to the great men and women on G@G and everywhere that aren't those things. Bias and bitterness against those that may have hurt you is no reason to lash out at all people.
3.Girls arouse guys/Guys arouse girls.
I think it is great for G@G to have a sexuality topic. Like minded people can freely discuss their sexuality in a way they might not feel comfortable discussing with people in their real lives. Also it's a great thing for younger legal 18+users to be able to get sexual advice from older, more experienced users. But in no way does it mean/justify/ excuse those who are trying to engage people in dirty trash talk, or requesting or trying to send nudes to those who don't want or deserve that unwanted behavior just because they answered a sexuality question. Not only is it in bad taste and very annoying, it is breaking G@G rules, which brings me to my closing.
For those of you that forgot what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior you need to go back and read the rules/terms of posting on G@G. They can be found under G@G frequently asked questions. I hate to see a great site being misused by a few bad apples🍎that can't follow the rules and creating bad experiences for those that don't need or deserve that.
Thanks for reading my MyTake and
Please when posting on G@G,please remember to use your "brains"