I messed up with anonymity.

[Robertcw]

I feel like I can't ask the personal questions I need to ask now because my account isn't random or anonymous.

I need a second account I guess. I don't know.

Would probably be smart to choose a fictional username and probably a graphic as your profile icon, honestly.

I never expected to be an editor when I signed up, and it seems like all posts on this site are always the first hits on google 🤷🏻. So.

[On_cloud_wine]

I discovered this site after asking a random question in the world of internet cyber space. It brought me to a young man on here who asked basically the same thing around the same time but in a reversed version way that I almost thought it was him asking about me! So I signed up and forgot the username so 😭

Why do you feel you’ve lost your animosity?

[Robertcw]

I don't know. Just seems basically obvious to me that my stuff is out there. Doesn't mean anyone will say anything to me in person but I expect it's pretty likely if anyone I ever knew happened to search a topic I wrote on out of their own curiosity that they'd find my stuff. 🤷🏻

[Lauren-green]

That's why I use a fake name and just a cartoon Rick as my picture. I at one stage also had a pic of me as my profile and I changed it after a few months. No one knows it me, you could do the same thing 🤷🏻‍♀️

[wankiam]

if you have a second account you will be in serious breech of g@g rules so please consider that fact before you make mistake number two. i dont know if becoming editor removes the option to post anon or not but if it does i would suggest you get on at admin about it and see if they are willing to change that rule

[Robertcw]

I can post anon. I can rescind all my previous posts as well and make them go anon as well.

Not sure what I'll do yet.

[wankiam]

yes you can do that so its probably the better option if you feel the need to go anon... all i would say is that unless you are a 13 year old girl that doesn't want an inbox filling up with unsolicited dick pics i dont really see the point of going anon anyway but ofcourse thats your choice.

[englisc]

What are you worried about? That people in real life might find you? Just change your picture to something else and you'll be fine.

[Robertcw]

Perhaps.

[englisc]

I don't think you need to worry about it. Maybe like I said just get rid of the picture. Can you not post anonymously as an editor?

[Herbie_Otch]

Man, now you've got me worried I should have chosen a fake name and used someone else's silhouette as my avatar. I hope I'm never paired with the stuff I post!

All jokes aside, I can totally empathize with you. We constantly struggle with how much we share, and more than once an account we started somewhere, thinking it would remain mostly anonymous, has become a vehicle for discussing things with a much bigger audience than we'd ever imagined. We're not ready for the fight for public acceptance that people like Dan Savage have fought, where our names and opinions are associated and everyone knows who we are, so we hide behind fake names and avatars all the time. We wish you the best of luck however you choose to proceed.

[jamesritchey]

Indeed. Using my real name does limit what I'm comfortable posting, but it also helps me step out of my shell. If I ever need to ask something really awkward I guess I'll get a second account no one knows about.

[k1ttybaby]

Ask me privately. I don't know you and you can read my other responses and see if maybe I could help. And you CAN post anon.

[SexyAshh]

Oh awkward. Yeah thats why i use only my middle name and won't add my photo.

Only issue is, if anyone sees the pic i even have they will know its me, but im not caring as much anymore

[Manuel2]

It is only counts if you know someone that uses the site too. As it stands, you can not fear no one ever finding out who you are, and ask your questions

[Robertcw]

No man I think a couple people have been using the site actually. Plus it pops right up on google.

[Manuel2]

Stress out! So some people know that you use this site. That makes you cool. Plus the ladies can see your inner feeling guy.

[producer]

I'm always afraid people in school would find my gag, that's why I'm glad this website isn't big

[KittyMilk]

Seems like your hiding something, what's wrong cat got your bootyhole?

[KillerOfDemise]

Make a second account for personal questions and have this one for editior?

[Avicenna]

Yeah, but your contributions are great

[zagor]

Why not post as anon?

[Barbarian8]

Are you a criminal or el Patchou?

[wulibuli]

Whats an editor

[Kayla45]

Sorry to hear that

[Adrian2306]

what is this editor?

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Good take

[tripptt9]

Who cares yo