Actually he did care. He is not a troll. He’s had a hard life and it’s affected him a lot. The conversation was awkward and difficult but eventually we came out on the other side and things are much better now.
I sincerely tried to get as much information as I could but after 2 or 3 pages, I lost interest and started speed scrolling to get to the end. Not your fault, mine. Sorry
We are not a pool of sperm, security and money donors for you to avail of liberally - each and every one of us is a PERSON, an individual, that gets jealous, offended, doubts, etc. If men started viewing women as ovens for children to freely avail themselves of, you'd go up in arms threatening full annihilation of the species.
It simply comes across that you view the world as full of these 'men' you demand are made interchangeable for you - and with no anger about it. If you wanted that, we'd all have to be monks - so the good guys then end up geeks, and the bad guys get to rape you - and you can go hate yourself over that. That's why liberalism is abusive - that whole demand for free access to everyone essentially requests men be abusive if they want a woman - because otherwise she'll be forever busy plucking flower after flower (on the cock carousel). There isn't a state in between - as a man you can either go in by force or be a monk, when you generalise it. The one way out is to make it PERSONAL and treat every connection as what it is, and give it some priority - and stick to fidelity if respect is what you hope for/expect.
I don't understand anything you're saying. Maybe it's a bad language translator app you're using because you're from Guatemala. This writing really makes no sense.
I don't think I can make it any clearer that I am looking at every single interaction with people (and let's face it, the men are the ones who are more angry) as a separate instance. If I wasn't doing that, I wouldn't spend this amount of time trying to resolve these conflicts. I would just block and move on, like so many do. I'm not going to fight with you. Too much of a language barrier, for one. Secondly, you're not being moderate at all, so I see no point.
@AmandaYVR - oh thank you because that was my question too? wtf are they talking about cuz i cannot for the life of me figure out how they came up with that!
@soleil2666 - did you read her post or just skim it? some of your points have slight bearing but the rest makes no sense at all and is not in any way related to what she is talking about! go back and re-read and you will see what i mean. i am not trying to be disrespectful but i just don't think you got it properly.
@kymberz I'll re-read it the moment you do my work for me so I have that much time. Men are not economical with words because they like it. It's because we're running out of breath.
It's very true... You write some post... So long that us men's can't... Help but get distracted before getting through... Half of it... You have unrealistic expectations... Of us
I think people are really changing. So much of it is not for the best. People can't have but one opinion otherwise they are awful and the problem of everything. Just remember you both can't be right but you both can be wrong so there is definitely more than one opinion. I'm not disagreeing with you at all. I'm just trying to say things that won't get me attacked. I was just telling my son how it started off looking like the 60's before the election and even more so now. I lived through it and people tend to remember the people trying to change the world. I'm seeing the same thing happening now that what people were trying to change coming back
I don't really understand your paragraph so I'll just leave that one. But come on, is there really any point commenting on something you haven't read? Might as well just pass it on by then. I understand. I am not offended.
Regarding the length:
I do quite often apologize for the length of my writing. Expressing oneself concisely can be important (depends on context.) The longer something is, the less people will read it. I am aware of all these things.
However: Literacy rates are declining. High school graduation rates are declining. Tiny keyboards and character limitations are degrading language skills. Emoji 'pictures' now sub in for words. That's recessing back to cave man days, if you look at it. Writing extremely short answers leaves the door wide open for misinterpretations. Complex subjects cannot always be summarized in sound bytes. Groupthink and tribalism are arguably at all time highs. The gender war is very real, and in many feels I feel I am representing 55% of the population, and I do not want to be misconstrued and expand the already existing divide. Nuance, detail, examples supporting an idea are all, at times, vital in explaining one's thought process.
So am I really sorry for writing sometimes long, detailed comments? Not really. In my opinion, the benefits far outweigh the detriments.
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You called him rude. He doesn't care. ... Find someone worth talking to. Problem solved.
Actually he did care. He is not a troll. He’s had a hard life and it’s affected him a lot. The conversation was awkward and difficult but eventually we came out on the other side and things are much better now.
Ahhhh okay. People are complicated. Good to hear things are better now
I sincerely tried to get as much information as I could but after 2 or 3 pages, I lost interest and started speed scrolling to get to the end. Not your fault, mine. Sorry
Just A Hint from the Male Perspective. I don't Necessarily Disagree With You. JUST that YOUR OPINIONS are SKEWED. DO NOT EVER LIE TO ME.
Totally agree. I don't know why the moderators don't act fast on certain serious issues.
Well put , good take.
The water cooler evaporated
You stay away from my questions, I’ll stay away from yours.
You are using plural which implies infidelity. How much more insulting can you get?
We are not a pool of sperm, security and money donors for you to avail of liberally - each and every one of us is a PERSON, an individual, that gets jealous, offended, doubts, etc.
If men started viewing women as ovens for children to freely avail themselves of, you'd go up in arms threatening full annihilation of the species.
Respectfully, wtf are you talking about? How does that in any way relate to what I wrote?
It simply comes across that you view the world as full of these 'men' you demand are made interchangeable for you - and with no anger about it. If you wanted that, we'd all have to be monks - so the good guys then end up geeks, and the bad guys get to rape you - and you can go hate yourself over that. That's why liberalism is abusive - that whole demand for free access to everyone essentially requests men be abusive if they want a woman - because otherwise she'll be forever busy plucking flower after flower (on the cock carousel). There isn't a state in between - as a man you can either go in by force or be a monk, when you generalise it. The one way out is to make it PERSONAL and treat every connection as what it is, and give it some priority - and stick to fidelity if respect is what you hope for/expect.
@soleil2666 i don't follow. 😗
I don't understand anything you're saying. Maybe it's a bad language translator app you're using because you're from Guatemala. This writing really makes no sense.
I don't think I can make it any clearer that I am looking at every single interaction with people (and let's face it, the men are the ones who are more angry) as a separate instance. If I wasn't doing that, I wouldn't spend this amount of time trying to resolve these conflicts. I would just block and move on, like so many do.
I'm not going to fight with you. Too much of a language barrier, for one. Secondly, you're not being moderate at all, so I see no point.
If you really wantbso fucked up. shit i guess
@AmandaYVR - oh thank you because that was my question too? wtf are they talking about cuz i cannot for the life of me figure out how they came up with that!
@soleil2666 - did you read her post or just skim it? some of your points have slight bearing but the rest makes no sense at all and is not in any way related to what she is talking about! go back and re-read and you will see what i mean. i am not trying to be disrespectful but i just don't think you got it properly.
@kymberz I'll re-read it the moment you do my work for me so I have that much time. Men are not economical with words because they like it. It's because we're running out of breath.
What an excuse.
If you can't do the homework then don't take the test.
Uh-oh 😶❤️
Hold dayum... You are against us
That's not true.
It's very true... You write some post... So long that us men's can't... Help but get distracted before getting through... Half of it... You have unrealistic expectations... Of us
Way too long. Just get to the main points
Wow quite a long mytake
It was long I stopped 4 or 5 paragraphs early
I think people are really changing. So much of it is not for the best. People can't have but one opinion otherwise they are awful and the problem of everything. Just remember you both can't be right but you both can be wrong so there is definitely more than one opinion. I'm not disagreeing with you at all. I'm just trying to say things that won't get me attacked.
I was just telling my son how it started off looking like the 60's before the election and even more so now. I lived through it and people tend to remember the people trying to change the world. I'm seeing the same thing happening now that what people were trying to change coming back
I don't really understand your paragraph so I'll just leave that one.
But come on, is there really any point commenting on something you haven't read? Might as well just pass it on by then. I understand. I am not offended.
Regarding the length:
I do quite often apologize for the length of my writing.
Expressing oneself concisely can be important (depends on context.)
The longer something is, the less people will read it.
I am aware of all these things.
However:
Literacy rates are declining.
High school graduation rates are declining.
Tiny keyboards and character limitations are degrading language skills.
Emoji 'pictures' now sub in for words. That's recessing back to cave man days, if you look at it.
Writing extremely short answers leaves the door wide open for misinterpretations.
Complex subjects cannot always be summarized in sound bytes.
Groupthink and tribalism are arguably at all time highs.
The gender war is very real, and in many feels I feel I am representing 55% of the population, and I do not want to be misconstrued and expand the already existing divide. Nuance, detail, examples supporting an idea are all, at times, vital in explaining one's thought process.
So am I really sorry for writing sometimes long, detailed comments? Not really. In my opinion, the benefits far outweigh the detriments.
Way to long your right
Maybe so; but 2 mistakes in 5 words? At least I made effort.
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Good take
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