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Reading some of the comments, it feels like ww3 in here, lol. Numbers 1 and 3 are probably my problems. Number 3 only applies to the dating life though, not any other area of life. Anyway, thanks for sharing.
Interesting opinion, but a quality guy isn't always he who doesn't catcall or post and/or say what he'd like to do to Jane Doe. And the weakness portion is fear of what your reaction would be if they said anything or how they would feel in the aftermath.
Yes but sje seems to beleive that fear is weakness. Apparently wanting a man with no fear, aka one who doesn't care about her or the relationship, and therefore doesn't fear it failing.
And there are sometimes good reasons for a guy to be afraid of interacting with women.
I definitely have to agree with 1 but you might be overselling the lie detector bid. Humans can only really detect lies about 50% of the time. Not that I'm encouraging it, it just seems like women constantly peg themselves as mind readers. I am a very kind person and I am still looking for a girl that puts in as much effort as I do because I feel like I'm the one always doing most of the work. I know I would appreciate if someone went the extra mile for me.
A lot of the stuff here could be applied to women, but whatever this take doesn't really bother me cause its targetted at the douchebags for the most part.
Yeah this isn't targeted at all meN. I can't afford to generalize.
Good take, but I'm trying to find out why I'm able to attract many women in the short term, but not in the long term. I mean I'm not a virgin but I've never had a serious relationship. It also goes to show that the number of women you get, means absolutely nothing, especially when none of them had any substance. I mean there have been girls that were really into me, but I didn't find them physically attractive and won't just settle for someone just for the sake of having someone.
Great take. I honestly believe you covered all that is important when meeting a girl. I tend to overthink things which paralyze me, but this made me realize that everything that is important is already within reach. Thank you!
So if I do this I'll attract women? Thank God. I thought it was just my looks that I've never had a girlfriend. Alright well cya guys. I'm off to get a girlfriend now with my kindness, my honesty, and my effort! Peace out!
Women are not magical creatures - women are emotionally unstable which is why more women than men suffer from mental illnesses such as bipolar disorders - horrible take. Women don't like nice guys they like cocky guys.
Do you guys just make up statistics when it suits your argument or something? Because several times on this site people link and talk about the mental instability of men more than women due to the damage and pressures of modern feminism. So make up your mind, are men suffering more from mental disorders or is it women? Got proof of what you're saying?--then post a link from a credible site that shows the stats.
More women seek treatment for mental disorders than men. Men are discouraged from seeking help for our problems. This means that there are all sorts of ways to justify the higher number of women with have a verified mental issue. As a result I have no doubt that people could post links to sites with very conflicting statistics, and for very different reasons.
Women are 40% more likely to suffer mental illness than men (www.theguardian.com/.../women-men-mental-illness-study) @Ozanne
This article is interesting and well worth the reason. It outlines how gendered mental illness is.
www.bustle.com/.../83245-do-women-suffer-mental-illness-more-than-men-8-factors-behind-the-gender-imbalance-in-treatment
To the Opinion Owner, listen, TWAT (since name calling seems to be how you choose to communicate) you spout off a comment stating a claim, don't expect others to do your homework for you. You tell me and others how you've come up with that conclusion, and if asked, it shouldn't be a chore for you to simply come up with that since its YOUR statistic, and what it looks like is out of thin air unless you prove it. You so far just have one guy willing to link one site, and yet this is your comment. LOL
@Johnbhoy95 Your first link doesn't work - page not found, and the second one is blog-like, I don't know what source the bustle is. If there is a study done by a credible source I'll take a look.
@JohnBhoy94 I mean, sorry.
It is a credible source and it's funny how easily offended women get by the truth.
Fluctuating hormones means higher chance of mental illness it's a fact.
@Ozanne... click the links within the blog, they'll all take you to reliable sources.
I don't really give a damn who is crazier, men or women. I think it's interesting when you and other guys make one claim or the other to suit your argument at the time, depending on what the topic is. You came back at me calling me a twat, telling me to go research what you're making a claim to, leaving me to do your work when that's not my job. You make a comment, back it up. Why should I go running around the Internet to find whatever it is you think you read? Sounds like I just shoved you in a place where you had to suddenly explain yourself, and what's funny, is you still can't. Let the record show for all to see that you've started this, couldn't back your shit up, and could only resort to "Waaaa, women get so offended." LOL I'll come back when there's a grownup responding to this. Credible links, please guys. Blogs are blogs.
@Ozanne
www.theguardian.com/.../women-men-mental-illness-study
www.mentalhealth.org.uk/.../
ideas.time.com/.../
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...es-according-study.html
www.washingtonpost.com/.../
That's just some of the many you would've been able to find if you were to put aside your pride and look it up yourself, since your obviously incompetent "opponent" didn't feel like it was his task to complete.
This dude makes a comment and you get all offended. If you could open up your mind and actually embrace the idea that others statements are true, whether you like/believe them or not, you would find out that he was actually right.
He should've never called you a "twat", but you are no better than him when you're calling him a "twat" back. It's like being shot and then shooting whoever shot you and justifying it by saying "he started first." Be the bigger person and don't let stuff get to you (important life lesson btw)
I'm neutral in this discussion, but I couldn't not join in, as I saw unfair behaviour (imo) from both sides.
If only they could just be honest about it. Just say they want a total asshole narcissist who only cares about himself, but he has the magical pnaty dropping confidence, or at least apathy which they mistake for confidence.
The only triggers for my mental disorders were men.
I agree with every point you made.
How thouroughly did you read it?
@genuinlysensitive Very. If you think she's wrong, please explain.
i'm bitter, i had one too many bad experiences... which is a bit too hard of a scar. Yeah sure i feel lonely at times but hey, at least i dont have to deal with jealousy and all that petty stuff that comes with a girlfriend/wife xD
Wonderful take, but doesn't address the issue where the man is average or below average looking, so women are never physically attracted to him.
Well maybe some women actually dont care about looks. LIke me.
I find it really hard to believe when women say they don't care about looks. From my personal experience at least, women are much more visual than men. If you are one of those rare gems who don't car about looks, then power to you!
Hoenstly... you should see the last guy I had a crush on. HE was literally a 2 according to a lot of people.
I'm literally in fits right now... @Starfishlover.
You obviously do care about looks to a certain degree, otherwise you wouldn't turn anyone down which I've already assumed you have.
Don't be ashamed, I have turned down many a woman who I deemed rather ugly.
Maybe said people thought your ex crush was a 2 out of bitterness, who knows?
@JohnBhoy94 actually no. I turned down men not because they are ugly, but because I am looking for something more. I am looking for a man with substance. I cannot explain it, but I certainly know when I feel it. The rating is not from my own judgement, rather from other people and I do feel horrible using that. I had a crush on the guy who is a two because he was kind and gentle. I think that is what gets to me. Kindness and gentleness.
Take my boss for example. Don't judge me but I have a huge crush on him. Why? Because i love his mind, his kindness, his wicked sense of humor. He gets rejected by women all the time and he says himself that 99.9% of women reject him. All I can think about is getting intimate with him.
I am selective, but honest to god I only see with my heart. Not my eyes.
"I turned down men not because they are ugly, but because I am looking for something more. I am looking for a man with substance. I cannot explain it, " bahahahahahahha!
You turned him down because 1) he might not fit the bill personality wise but 2) because he didn't fit the bill in terms of looks and attraction. It's hilarious how people tr and deny how important attraction is.
So basically:
"You suck,
Stop sucking so much."
If a man can be honest to me about everything, then that's an attractive quality. It takes a strong person to be honest about their views/feelings/opinions. I can also build a much better/stronger relationship on such honesty.
The thing I have the biggest problem with is confidence and knowing what I want and also figuring out what is best for me. Doing things I'm scared of is hard. I know I will learn from it but it's even harder to keep myself motivated.
Q: Why girls don't respect you and see you as boyfriend material!
A: You don't have much bank balance or property.
I actually second this. For today it's money.
Stop believing in bullshit stereotypes.
Trust me man, I've been doing all of this for a long time and I've gotten nowhere.
You're eighteen. How long are you talking here a year?
Anyway being a teenager also means you're stuck in the same environment, you can't expect a princess in a red neck town for example.
I've already found the princess but she's not my princess. And I've been trying to get better with girls and get a girlfriend since I was about 13.
These things are getting out of hand, if you want to give advice please make sure its good.
Lol I did all of this and she still dumped me. What is this double standard? I guess she wasn't worth my time then.
I was the best girlfriend I could be to my ex, he still left for his own selfish reasons. Some people are just knobs that you can't keep and sometimes, it's better than you don't keep them in the end.
Thanks for the feedback! You're absolutely right about that.
LOL look at all the butthurt butts.
This is a good article, OP. Straightforward, blunt and truthful.
Aw, I missed them all. I think a mod's already come through and cleared them all out!
You have a good point I agree with you For the most time I'd say I am always the kind of dude that my kind of girls or women would want me to be