What I'm looking for isn't about our possible sexual relationship. (Which will be after marriage) I want a girl with similar interests. Someone fun and interesting. Someone who can be a great friend all the time in addition to the rest of our relationship aspects. Sex can wait. I need to love her inside and out, in that order.
If this woman wanted to wait until marriage , let's say she's 20 and wants to get married at 25 , would you wait? Is there any given time frame of how long you'd wait?
Sounds like Dr. Ruth. This is bullshit. No guy evaluates a woman with that degree of intellectual and academic perfection. It is all up to the woman if she wants him going get it. Dr. Ruth – well forget it I think Dr. is in bed with the first guy she sees
Close, there are two labels what most men use to stigmatize women.
The whore and the Madonna, there's pros and cons with both.
Whore: Blunt, unreliable, experienced, adventurous, funny, disloyal, sexually attractive and aggressive, your mother will hate her, independent, promiscuous Madonna: Prude, wife-material, loyal, high maintenance, plain, loyal, your parents will love her, but your dick will be disappointed, devoted once impressed
Sadly, for some reason many men complain about getting the wrong girl. Players complain about getting Madona's who then gets too clingy for their taste. While "nice guys" are often hurt by the whore indifference.
I dont pursue a relationship unless i think it will last and i believe its good for me and him. I dont even think i fall under a label, either i feel him and i want to build something good with him or the vibes aren't there for a long term relationship and we aren't going anywhere.
Promiscuous or not. If I wait for a month to get laid (for example) with a girl and I find out that she slept with her ex or something on the first date, that's a deal breaker for me. Clearly I am not as hot as said ex and am one of those "safety" men. Would grate my balls every morning knowing that.
@KENKONG I assume every girl has been fucked loads of times before meeting me (tinder included) she just musnt expect me to be content if I found out that she made me wait and not the others. Deal breaker.
No what man want is a loyal girlfriend who sticks by them no matter what. I find in today's what women n some man are always looking for something better instend of forcing on how to make their relationship better.
Where does all this, hunk, superguy greatness come from? I'm pretty sure it's all hyped up on the internet and/or in movies cause where I'm from, not much guys are congratulated on fucking any girl..
I'm shocked this is happening anywhere at all, such a stupid thing to get high fived over.. it's not even an accomplishment, Graduating from school is an accomplishment, getting a promotion to your career is an accomplishment, fucking people, damn people really have those type of standards? haha so shocking :o
If I can sleep around why is it different for a woman. Own your escapades don't lie about them. If a single woman asks to have another guy in the mix because she likes it means she had it. She's not a great lover because she read it in a book or daw it in a movie. If she's wild she's experienced the same as me. And I'll take wild anytime
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I think that the type of women men want is this: faithful to him but doesn't get jealous and has no problem with him sleeping with other women. In fact being a bisexual is pretty much a necessity to men these days that way they can hook up with as many women as possible. Looks don't seem to matter much to men anymore, as long as you are bisexual and don't mind sharing him with other women. Being skinny with a huge rack and super model looks in a plus.
importantly tho it depends if i just want to have sex i would prefer the slutty women if i wanna be in a sexless relationship then the prudes lol so it mostly depends on what the man is looking for and who that man is
A balanced approach is the best in almost all the aspects of life- diet, work, job and yes- sex. I am a happy virgin but the moment I get married to a guy I feel happy with- I will try to become a slut for him only LOL
although, with all the sick, twisted fetishes out there, i suppose it would be more appropriate to say ''mild''. y'know: oral, anal, assjobs, and titjobs.
@love2run13 that's the problem. sex has become overly prioritized. but let me ask you something: what are you gonna do if at any point, you find yourself stuck in a loveless relationship just because just because the sex was good? is your sexual compatibility gonna be enough?
I wouldn't have sex with a guy unless I love his personality and who he is as a person, at the same time tho i refuse to wait until marriage for sex-is this so terrible?
@love2run13 it is. that's the kinda thinking that makes you a hook up, or a girl to come home to. think about it, if you're willing to have sex without being married... then what's the point of marrying you? you're leavin the door wide ass open.
Not just that, no I think the main reason the divorce rate is so high is because people don't understand that when the honeymoon phase of a relationship ends, that does not mean you leave because you're bored-you stick with the person through thick and thin if you love them cuz thats what marriage is. People just get married too quickly and they think of it like a game-"There's always divorce if this doesn't work out the way I want it to or if I get bored". It really has nothing to do with having sex too early, cuz in the end if you love someone when you have sex does not matter.
@love2run13 true enough. but what do you say to the teen aged mothers? or those with std's? in fact, i know a girl who got pregnant... she had a miscarriage... kicked her ass to the curve.
Realistically , love takes a while to happen. Whether we like it or not judgment is something that is as natural as the air one breathes. It's just best people try to steer clear of those who don't associate them with stigmas if they want to feel free to sleep with whomever they can. If they want to hold off for a while they can. It's just be people find those they are most compatible with then they will not have to pretend.
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What I'm looking for isn't about our possible sexual relationship. (Which will be after marriage)
I want a girl with similar interests. Someone fun and interesting. Someone who can be a great friend all the time in addition to the rest of our relationship aspects.
Sex can wait. I need to love her inside and out, in that order.
i want a women not brainwashed by feminist rhetoric. that means i have to go to asia or south america.
It's infamous @dudeman !!!
what do you mean?
... you and your bold comments as always :P
i just speak the truth.
of all those women id rather have the prudeish women
If this woman wanted to wait until marriage , let's say she's 20 and wants to get married at 25 , would you wait? Is there any given time frame of how long you'd wait?
thats a long time. i was thinking more of a year or so.
Well, that's reasonable then.
So, you don't mind the "prudish woman" there just as to be a fair amount of boundary.
That's respectable.
if she makes me wait 5 years that means she doesn't like me.
Yea , I agree there too long unless both are virgins I can see that being ok.
*that is too long
Applause to you for patiently considering to wait a year !
I've done it before, relatively recently.
Lol you will not find what you're looking for anywhere. They are all like this
@ArtDent not everywhere. there are still good women out there.
@ArtDent you just can't bring them back to the states.
Well, you might be right. The reports I've heard are mixed. But the ones that go south seem to be the bring backs.
Sounds like Dr. Ruth. This is bullshit. No guy evaluates a woman with that degree of intellectual and academic perfection. It is all up to the woman if she wants him going get it. Dr. Ruth – well forget it I think Dr. is in bed with the first guy she sees
Look, you're a stripper and a prostitute im familiar with your posts
You are biased to. this whole thing ,. no. surprise here
"No guy evaluates a woman with that degree of intellectual and academic perfection."
Wrong. If that were true, I wouldn't exist.
Close, there are two labels what most men use to stigmatize women.
The whore and the Madonna, there's pros and cons with both.
Whore: Blunt, unreliable, experienced, adventurous, funny, disloyal, sexually attractive and aggressive, your mother will hate her, independent, promiscuous
Madonna: Prude, wife-material, loyal, high maintenance, plain, loyal, your parents will love her, but your dick will be disappointed, devoted once impressed
Sadly, for some reason many men complain about getting the wrong girl. Players complain about getting Madona's who then gets too clingy for their taste. While "nice guys" are often hurt by the whore indifference.
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Filler
Madonna's aren't necessarily "high maintenance".
I guess I'm not like "most men", I prefer sporty women ;)
But the well balanced woman is ok too.
Nice Take by the way :)
Thanks!
But there are 3 types of women according to this. What you are describing is a physical type which I haven't mentioned, but nice to know anyway.
You're welcome :D
I dont pursue a relationship unless i think it will last and i believe its good for me and him. I dont even think i fall under a label, either i feel him and i want to build something good with him or the vibes aren't there for a long term relationship and we aren't going anywhere.
I am tired of this shit. When you stop caring about what you think someone wants you to be, thats when you get the most respect.
Most women want a gentleman on the streets but a caveman in bed the same way most men want a lady on the streets but a freak under the sheets.
Promiscuous or not. If I wait for a month to get laid (for example) with a girl and I find out that she slept with her ex or something on the first date, that's a deal breaker for me. Clearly I am not as hot as said ex and am one of those "safety" men. Would grate my balls every morning knowing that.
That is why you will never know about her tinder exploits.
@KENKONG I assume every girl has been fucked loads of times before meeting me (tinder included) she just musnt expect me to be content if I found out that she made me wait and not the others. Deal breaker.
No what man want is a loyal girlfriend who sticks by them no matter what. I find in today's what women n some man are always looking for something better instend of forcing on how to make their relationship better.
Where does all this, hunk, superguy greatness come from? I'm pretty sure it's all hyped up on the internet and/or in movies cause where I'm from, not much guys are congratulated on fucking any girl..
I have seen guys get high fived over this. I'm shocked this doesn't happen where you live.
I'm shocked this is happening anywhere at all, such a stupid thing to get high fived over.. it's not even an accomplishment, Graduating from school is an accomplishment, getting a promotion to your career is an accomplishment, fucking people, damn people really have those type of standards? haha so shocking :o
You're very mature in your thinking.
Thank you. Likewise hehe :D
Lol this would have been the perfect take to get my input you dork
Hey there , I have a million ideas !! Just message me
Still waiting for your response , you kept me hanging for a while bro !
If I can sleep around why is it different for a woman. Own your escapades don't lie about them. If a single woman asks to have another guy in the mix because she likes it means she had it. She's not a great lover because she read it in a book or daw it in a movie. If she's wild she's experienced the same as me. And I'll take wild anytime
I think that the type of women men want is this: faithful to him but doesn't get jealous and has no problem with him sleeping with other women. In fact being a bisexual is pretty much a necessity to men these days that way they can hook up with as many women as possible. Looks don't seem to matter much to men anymore, as long as you are bisexual and don't mind sharing him with other women. Being skinny with a huge rack and super model looks in a plus.
I'm sick of men anymore.
not true, you have a very negative view of men, not all men are liked that, you need to stop dating bad boys and you will see that
Yes and I am sick of women.
importantly tho it depends if i just want to have sex i would prefer the slutty women if i wanna be in a sexless relationship then the prudes lol so it mostly depends on what the man is looking for and who that man is
A balanced approach is the best in almost all the aspects of life- diet, work, job and yes- sex.
I am a happy virgin but the moment I get married to a guy I feel happy with- I will try to become a slut for him only LOL
i just want an old fashioned woman, who, after marriage is a freak in the sheets.
Yes, that type of woman is ideal for a great majority of men.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24575-it-s-okay-to-be-a-whore
although, with all the sick, twisted fetishes out there, i suppose it would be more appropriate to say ''mild''. y'know: oral, anal, assjobs, and titjobs.
Lol, Yes! I feel you! I'm not into the overly kinky shit either.
oh, yeah, strong, too... family's a bit screwy...
I'd prefer to know what a guy is like in bed before I marry him loll
um what majority waits till marriage, after a few weeks or months, most men i know dont wait till marriage. depends on where ur from
@love2run13 that's the problem. sex has become overly prioritized. but let me ask you something: what are you gonna do if at any point, you find yourself stuck in a loveless relationship just because just because the sex was good? is your sexual compatibility gonna be enough?
@hazoplmeught and your moral compass
u must be really soft sex + good relationship
@hazoplmeught?
i ment to put a comma after soft, then i ment to say sex + good personality= good relationship
@hazoplmeught i see it as reversed.
I wouldn't have sex with a guy unless I love his personality and who he is as a person, at the same time tho i refuse to wait until marriage for sex-is this so terrible?
@love2run13 it is. that's the kinda thinking that makes you a hook up, or a girl to come home to. think about it, if you're willing to have sex without being married... then what's the point of marrying you? you're leavin the door wide ass open.
LOL even tho 99.99% of people today have sex before marriage and end up marrying. Waiting until marriage is just not for everyone
@love2run13 that explains why the divorce rate is so high, now doesn't it?
Not just that, no I think the main reason the divorce rate is so high is because people don't understand that when the honeymoon phase of a relationship ends, that does not mean you leave because you're bored-you stick with the person through thick and thin if you love them cuz thats what marriage is. People just get married too quickly and they think of it like a game-"There's always divorce if this doesn't work out the way I want it to or if I get bored". It really has nothing to do with having sex too early, cuz in the end if you love someone when you have sex does not matter.
@love2run13 true enough. but what do you say to the teen aged mothers? or those with std's? in fact, i know a girl who got pregnant... she had a miscarriage... kicked her ass to the curve.
@love2run13 they boy did, not me.
how about: don´t care what he thinks and do whatever you like?
Lol that's what I believe in
I'll take a nice, healthy, smart woman who has a good heart. Do they exist anymore?
If someone loves you, they will love you. It doesn't matter if you sleep with then too quick or you made them wait too long.
Realistically , love takes a while to happen.
Whether we like it or not judgment is something that is as natural as the air one breathes.
It's just best people try to steer clear of those who don't associate them with stigmas if they want to feel free to sleep with whomever they can. If they want to hold off for a while they can. It's just be people find those they are most compatible with then they will not have to pretend.