Why Ignoring That Girl You Like To Make Her Want You, Might Just Backfire On You (Page 3)

[ChromAzonyx108]

Yep, there has to be a middle ground. Being overly interested (i. e. clingy) can also backfire. Tone it down, don't turn it off.

[Azara]

there's no overly interested standard. it makes more sense to be yourself and let things play out. if your normal is too cold or too hot for the other then you're not compatible.

[DakotaNorth]

He's doing it. Ignoring me when I desperately needed to see him. I know someone else who might give me love and affection that I crave. I'm very lonely.

[shephardjhon]

It isn't mind games, it is us trying to spare ourselves heartache and possibly embarrassment. It is high time women step into this fire-pit and risk their hearts and dignity like men had to.

[Anonymous]

Hmm... interesting. However, I do think women tend to exhibit this behavior more than men.

[Blabster]

Could be, but as a girl, I'm just telling the story from my point of view ;)

[Daynada]

Hmm... could you be a guy

[Opinion Owner]

@Daynada No. I just no when to admit the faults of my gender unlike a lot of other people.

[devilman666]

@Daynada wow. You seem like you'd be great at parties. Whenever a woman talks negatively about other women, ask her if she is a guy, because clearly a woman wouldn't ask such a thing? I find that mentality so obnoxious, like... if I ever meet a male feminist, I'll make sure to ask if he is actually a woman pretending to be a man, because why else would he be a feminist unless he is secretly a woman or wants to be a woman?

[doesitmatter1]

What's wrong with just liking each other... Once you reach a certain age you realize someone isn't clingy they're just really into you and if that's a bad thing to you then keep being immature and go play with your friends kiddo.

[es20490446e]

Bertrand Russell once said:

"If you want to know if something is right, imagine everyone doing that"

[Poppykate]

If you like someone... Just get up the courage to tell them!

[RexCatholicissimus]

What if I'm genuinely not interested in her and she just thinks I am?

[Funkyfaith]

Did you two ever go back to normal?

[Blabster]

Well he tried to be all talkative again but as i mentioned before, I was so hurt and confused that i wasn't interested anymore. We talk occasionally (small talk) but not the deep conversations till early in the morning. So i guess no😅

[kitty71]

wow wow reading your sentence it is reminding me my situation with a guy I like it is practically literally the same up to this date, it is the same the same. Wow and you are 17 and Im 45

[MannMitAntworten]

I never knew ignoring someone to make them desire you more was a thing... Learned something new. Odd, but new.

[jgrymes2121]

In the same sentence how do you think that makes guys fill when girls do it the same way and me I will just cut communication after three days I will back completely off I do not play games I'm am to old for this

[jxlmae]

It backfired with me I know that. Turns me me off so fast.

[WhoDatGuy]

If you need to play games, then somehow I'm too mature for you

[tearout]

don't waste my time anymore women are garbage its all over the internet

[rosesnblue]

LMAO who hurt you? must be fun living with this mindset about the opposite gender!

[Anonymous]

i dont play mindgames with women. i dont play anything with women. and thus peace=ensured... .

[Anonymous]

Yeah that doesn’t work with me. It’s equal effort or nothing.

[Elizabeth00]

I agree Marylin Monroe sad it best A Girl Doesn’t Need Anyone who Doesn’t Need Her.

[Liam_Hayden]

Great take. I don't ignore, but I also do not continue to expend energy on someone who ignores me.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Women need this advice way more than men.

[WhatTheHellAmy2]

Very good MyTake!

It’s definitely true