Since the beginning of time, BOTH genders, ignore their love interest to make them want you even more. 'Cause you know, absence makes the heart grow fonder. So you think: " Oh I don't want to seem clingy or desparate, so I'm just gonna stop talking to her and see if she misses me. Well, I'm telling you this out of experience. DON'T. Lucky for you I'm here to tell you why.
Here's a little story. Me and this guy had been talking and flirting for a very long time. We both seemed to have equal interest in eachother. But then I started to notice after a while, it was me who had to initiate contact almost every single time. I started replaying our conversations in my head, thinking I did something terrible that scared him off. It was literally constantly on my mind. Little did I know, that was his plan. At first I made every effort to get us to talk like we used to but after a while I was done beating a dead horse. What I'm saying is: at first it might work. But if you go on for too long, it starts to get annoying.
The thing is that, I knew in the back of my head that I haven't done anything wrong but being ignored all of the sudden had me going crazy. I started doubting myself and I was really sad. He did it cause he wanted me to be even more attracted to him. Never ever ever will I let a guy drive me crazy like that. No games. Just be straight forward. there's was NO reason for him to do this and I till wonder to this day why it crossed his mind.
When you ignore a girl (just speaking on behalf of girls) , she starts wondering what went wrong. It makes us insecure and drives us nuts. After a while we're done with the games. Just doing that out of the blue and having no real reason to do so. After about 2 to 3 weeks I'd had enough. The person i enjoyed talking to the most, I lost all interest in talking to. The last thing we want to do is come across as annoying so as the weeks went on, I just stopped talking and initiating conversations.
I hope to prevent some of you guys of making this mistake and some girls do know that you dont have to nor deserve to put up with this.
Please comment and let me know what you thought :)