Am I old fashioned for hanging on to the notion that a "nice guy" is simply a guy who expects to earn the love of a woman through servile, fawning behavior? Because that guy thinks he's "working" for it and "earning" it.
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It's amazing how childish and spoiled young women are from unearned, automatic acceptance by the opposite sex! They dump on men for any reason or no reason! Their sick, entitled attitudes demand that men be so interesting, exciting, funny, confident, charming, mysterious, engaging, witty, generous and god knows whatever else! But what do young women have to bring to the table besides a vagina? YOUNG WOMEN GET TO SIT ON THEIR BUTTS AND JUDGE!
I think g@g had skewed your perception of nice guys. 😛 This has never occurred in real life to me, only online.
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If you don't want to date those nice guys, then don't. If you're pretty enough to attract a real man, then by all means, go for it. Nobodies forcing you to date nice guys.
I got the point of the take. To hate on men with Asperger's and hate on men who look a certain way. Basically run these GUys down. The face of feminism..
@bobbyxx She gets it. She knows how women think, and knows that some women are tempted to use their ability to abuse pathetic weak men, then they project their own behavior onto those men after they get burned by the resulting bitterness.
Isn't it ironic the number of women who say 'nice guys are bitter and angry'! Well if their defining characteristic is being 'NICE', and if the only thing that guarantees their bitterness and anger is NICEness (which stands juxtaposed to bitterness and anger), then maybe you're the bitter and angry one!
Like I said, you should be wary of your own hypocrisy when you're whining about whiny guys. Everyone complains, guys and girls alike. You spent about 1000 words complaining in this article alone.
I agree with you, women whine about guys all the time and women don't think they are bitches but when it a guy does it he is an asshole. Double standard
yes thats the feeling I got also, those guys who you are speaking of are not "gentlemen" who is a nice guy by default. I was raised to be a gentlemen 100% and I have always heard second hand "oh he is such a nice guy", I am not sure if its ladies not being use to a guy who treats women with respect and not play immature games with their heads, the guys you are outlining are ones who have no backbone and nice in their world is being a womens door matte. personally I have never taken a girl out to dinner and ever "Expected" to get laid as an outcome of the evening, and I think there are a lot of girls who feel obligated to put out in some situations and those are the times the real nice guy or "Gentlemen" won't take advantage of her and say good night.
I think it's gone too far now and a "nice guy" is actually just a little bitch, not a normal nice guy. Whatever the case may be, one thing's for certain: WOMEN LOVE ASSHOLES AND CAN'T HELP THEMSELVES!!! lel
Damn I love it this is life finally a girl who isn't being fake and motivating guys who are "nice" they will finish last when we all know it's bs and they're not nice and are really just insecure
Shouldn't we differentiate the two then because both are still called nice guys. I'm not very creative so I'll leave that to someone suited for the task.
Welp guess I am doomed. I guess a lot of this is true, because I am a nice guy, and always get friendzoned and hated on. Oh well I just do me I don't even care anymore.
The summary of this article is that nice guys are guys who lack confidence and aren't really that nice. What about the ones that are. Why do women complain about the bastards they go out with instead of taking a look at a wider diversity of men?
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Are all the moderators on here man shaming, misandric feminazis. What a bitter and disgusting MyTake.
No you are just hating on men who don't tolerate bitch behaviour in women. Your one of those people that live in the dark ages, you think men should suffer in silence and not complain.
Yes I noticed you stereotype on looks as well, which is really what this Take is about shaming men who don't look like models. You go on about women not having to like you just because you are nice, well men don't have to be nice to you just because you are a woman. Women expect to be treated like princesses all the time. If you are unkind to someone don't expect them to be nice back. What you are suggesting is that men should be nice to you even if you treat them bad. Well guess what it does not work like that.
Your just basing this on a few nice Guys that you have met in your life.
Its true you Girls only deal with those self proclaimed Nice Guys, The true Nice Guys are the Guys you usually put in your Friendzone or the Guys that you simply don't want to even talk to let alone date.
Because you Girls are ignoring at least 80% of Men so the only Guys you end up meeting are the Confident Guys and the self proclaimed Nice Guys and the rest you ignore so your basing this on 20% of Men.
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Loved the my take but not as much as the Scott Pilgrim and Pokemon references thise were awesome
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Am I old fashioned for hanging on to the notion that a "nice guy" is simply a guy who expects to earn the love of a woman through servile, fawning behavior? Because that guy thinks he's "working" for it and "earning" it.
It's amazing how childish and spoiled young women are from unearned, automatic acceptance by the opposite sex! They dump on men for any reason or no reason! Their sick, entitled attitudes demand that men be so interesting, exciting, funny, confident, charming, mysterious, engaging, witty, generous and god knows whatever else! But what do young women have to bring to the table besides a vagina? YOUNG WOMEN GET TO SIT ON THEIR BUTTS AND JUDGE!
I think g@g had skewed your perception of nice guys. 😛 This has never occurred in real life to me, only online.
If you don't want to date those nice guys, then don't. If you're pretty enough to attract a real man, then by all means, go for it. Nobodies forcing you to date nice guys.
You clearly didn't get the point of this take.
I got the point of the take. To hate on men with Asperger's and hate on men who look a certain way. Basically run these GUys down. The face of feminism..
@bobbyxx She gets it. She knows how women think, and knows that some women are tempted to use their ability to abuse pathetic weak men, then they project their own behavior onto those men after they get burned by the resulting bitterness.
Isn't it ironic the number of women who say 'nice guys are bitter and angry'! Well if their defining characteristic is being 'NICE', and if the only thing that guarantees their bitterness and anger is NICEness (which stands juxtaposed to bitterness and anger), then maybe you're the bitter and angry one!
Nice take! (Oh the pun)
I mean it's a good take :)
This is funny and true. Only the title is misleading. This should be labeled as "weirdos finish last".
This is my take on relationships... Nice women deserve nice men and bad women deserve bad men; vise versa.
just be hot. Straight from the horses mouth guys
JUST. BE. HOT. Easy.
Just grow to 6'3
Just grow your cheekbones
Just grow a chiseled jaw
Just grow a great hairline
Just do it. What's the problem?
Wow, that's a pretty big axe you're grinding there. If you got out and met some real guys you might not be so bitter about them.
Lol most girls wouldn't date self victimized whiny guys, go ahead there are plenty of them for you
Like I said, you should be wary of your own hypocrisy when you're whining about whiny guys. Everyone complains, guys and girls alike. You spent about 1000 words complaining in this article alone.
I agree with you, women whine about guys all the time and women don't think they are bitches but when it a guy does it he is an asshole. Double standard
yes thats the feeling I got also, those guys who you are speaking of are not "gentlemen" who is a nice guy by default. I was raised to be a gentlemen 100% and I have always heard second hand "oh he is such a nice guy", I am not sure if its ladies not being use to a guy who treats women with respect and not play immature games with their heads, the guys you are outlining are ones who have no backbone and nice in their world is being a womens door matte. personally I have never taken a girl out to dinner and ever "Expected" to get laid as an outcome of the evening, and I think there are a lot of girls who feel obligated to put out in some situations and those are the times the real nice guy or "Gentlemen" won't take advantage of her and say good night.
You sound like an extremely vile, hateful person, Elissa.
I think it's gone too far now and a "nice guy" is actually just a little bitch, not a normal nice guy. Whatever the case may be, one thing's for certain: WOMEN LOVE ASSHOLES AND CAN'T HELP THEMSELVES!!! lel
I feel like this whole " nice guy" thing only exists online. IRL guys could be nicer but then again so could a lot of girls.
BINGO!! People only talk about the fake nice guys and not the fake nice women
Damn I love it this is life finally a girl who isn't being fake and motivating guys who are "nice" they will finish last when we all know it's bs and they're not nice and are really just insecure
Ehm reasons 2-7 doesn't sound like a nice guys to me. So basically this isn't a list about nice guys.
It's all in the intro though :)
Shouldn't we differentiate the two then because both are still called nice guys. I'm not very creative so I'll leave that to someone suited for the task.
Oh yeah?
Let me give you one reason why nice guys always finish lasts.
Cos he makes sure she finishes first.
*mic drop*
Welp guess I am doomed. I guess a lot of this is true, because I am a nice guy, and always get friendzoned and hated on. Oh well I just do me I don't even care anymore.
The summary of this article is that nice guys are guys who lack confidence and aren't really that nice. What about the ones that are. Why do women complain about the bastards they go out with instead of taking a look at a wider diversity of men?
Are all the moderators on here man shaming, misandric feminazis. What a bitter and disgusting MyTake.
You would only feel offended if you can relate to these points.
No you are just hating on men who don't tolerate bitch behaviour in women. Your one of those people that live in the dark ages, you think men should suffer in silence and not complain.
Nice guy spotted.
You should reread the first sentence.
Yes I noticed you stereotype on looks as well, which is really what this Take is about shaming men who don't look like models. You go on about women not having to like you just because you are nice, well men don't have to be nice to you just because you are a woman. Women expect to be treated like princesses all the time. If you are unkind to someone don't expect them to be nice back. What you are suggesting is that men should be nice to you even if you treat them bad. Well guess what it does not work like that.
Your just basing this on a few nice Guys that you have met in your life.
Its true you Girls only deal with those self proclaimed Nice Guys, The true Nice Guys are the Guys you usually put in your Friendzone or the Guys that you simply don't want to even talk to let alone date.
Because you Girls are ignoring at least 80% of Men so the only Guys you end up meeting are the Confident Guys and the self proclaimed Nice Guys and the rest you ignore so your basing this on 20% of Men.
Loved the my take but not as much as the Scott Pilgrim and Pokemon references thise were awesome
Nice guys are so whiny and pathetic and seem to think that by being "friends" they somehow have dibs on a girls vagina.