5 Reasons Nice Guys Aren't All Actually That Nice (Page 3)

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Phoenix98 Follow
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*rolls eyes* so tired of seeing these things pop up.

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- nfigure
  
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  Yeah dude, wth! xD It's like there's a new MyTake every day here about how "Nice Guys Aren't Actually Nice", LOL.
  
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- Phoenix98
  
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  @nfigure Lol yeah it's kind of annoying
  
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evenlift Follow
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I've already given the definitive account of the 'nice guy':
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22747-women-need-to-stop-whining-about-nice-guys

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Nuala Follow
Yoda Age: 24

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It seems like most of the people responding didn't read the my take...

Loved the take by the way, it was well written and had some good points.

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- EllieLexis513
  
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  They didn't lol, that's why I'm not responding to their comments anymore.
  
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- underageGUY
  
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  Nuala I am a good guy
  
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- Nuala
  
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  Probably a good idea.
  
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Baumber Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30

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This is spot on. If anyone wants a good example between a "nice guy" and an "asshole" then take a look at my comment and the replies on this myTake.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28804-5-insanely-stupid-things-women-say-about-nice-guys

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Giacomanzo Follow
Xper 7 Age: 35

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I honestly this all "Nice guys" thing is quite dumb to begin with. Being "nice" as nothing to do with dating, it is just about personality. If someone is kind, he or she will act kind with everybody, males and women, and won't even give a fuck about impressing the wannabe partner, because for him it is not an "act" at all, it is just have he/she is used to behave.

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DWornock Follow
Yoda Age: 33

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Lament of a Beta Male

I think that I shall never be;
With a lady lovely as thee.
And unless I find a goofball;
I’ll never have a gal at all.

It’s sad but true I must confess;
Any princess I’ll not possess.
All ugly girls I do detest;
And Alpha males have all the rest.

Oh yes it’s true there are so few;
And you ladies don’t have a clue.
With twenty gals for every one;
The Alpha males have all the fun.

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harabi Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

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'If I ask you to put the seat down, PUT THE DAMN SEAT DOWN. It’s not that freaking hard. If you don’t do it, then don’t be mad when she comes in the room at 3am with a butt full of toilet juice screaming at you because she fell in.'

If that can happen to you, then I'm afraid you are the piece of shit you mention earlier in the rant. lol

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Rahdle Follow
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This might be true for some, but there are nice guys who believe it or not, are nice. They put others first and are always there for you. So sorry but I don't like your take very much

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Unit1 Follow
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Years from now on we will see the "Where are all the good/real men?" and "I want a nice guy but where are they?" because of ongoing takes like these, makes every possible nice guy to some women extinct.

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- EllieLexis513
  
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  If that's true, then society really is going down a shithole lol
  
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- Unit1
  
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  Society is already degenerated.
  I'm not surprised.
  Stuff like that entertains me and so I can predict what will happen next (it already does happen).
  
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GingerGuy Follow
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I consider myself a nice guy and I don't fit any of these at all. My suggestion is if a "nice guy" falls under these then he's not and never was a "nice guy". Why you thought he was I don't know?

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- EllieLexis513
  
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  Eh, a lot of guys don't really realize they do the things on this list. Neither do women for that matter. It's easier to see faults in others than ourselves.
  
  I already know that most people who comment angrily on this are people who are guilty of doing things on this list. Truth hurts.
  
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- GingerGuy
  
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  Could be. Might also be angry if none of it's true. More generalizations being tossed around.
  
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- EllieLexis513
  
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  Well, I didn't generalize anything. I never said all nice guys aren't nice, I said not all nice guys are nice, there's a giant difference between the two phrases.
  
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whyisitso Follow
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Haha yeah, totally agreed. This applies to the saying "nice guys finish last" too... 😂👏👏

https://youtu.be/xfeys7Jfnx8

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snakebite Follow
Xper 4 Age: 35

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If a woman wants to date a muscular guy, she's constantly told that that's what she deserves. Men are constantly told that woman have a right to say no to a first date. If a man doesn't want to go out with a girl because she's fat, he's labeled as a pig. Shame on you for promoting this double standard against men.

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Hjominbonrun Follow
Xper 5 Age: 48

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If you understand that everyone is in it for themselves, nothing will surprise you. Nice guys are in that style of game for poon, not to be nice for no good reason.
They just haven't realised that it is a poor tactic to pretend to be nice.

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Nathaniel1316 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 27

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I'm genuinely a nice guy to girls and it's not to get in their pants it's to be their friend. I'm an asshole to my guy friends though.

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Soulsky Follow
Xper 5 Age: 45

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Number 1 and 5 very true in my recent experience with a guy who claimed to be a nice guy. Nice but naughty as he called himself.

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Jessiebe Follow
Xper 4 Age: 31

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Can you shut up with all this nice guy shit? Thanks, and remove my comment idgaf 😊

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TheNewJanie Follow
Xper 6 Age: 28

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Thanks for the take it was nice. Guys do this shit a lot. Actually number 4 applied to myself but I realize I have to work on that.

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MusicLover8098 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 27

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This is why I neglect to inform people that I am nonreligious, apolitical, obsessed with the 1980s and an ardent believer in the power of true love.

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Scarecrow13 Follow
Explorer Age: 40

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In terms of the idea of dating being a game, it is really women I see treating it that way most often. Even on this site I have seen them readily admit that. "Why doesn't a guy like me, I keep blowing him off butt he won't come back"?

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Drake Follow
Explorer Age: 29

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i dont see how this all sums up a "nice" guy, seem like an overstatement

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