It is proven by Science : MEN REALLY DO FIND HIGH HEELS SEXIER
But, according to a question I made months ago, at least according to our male G@Gers, it's almost 50/50 ...
So basically, i had a total of 67 MEN voting and the majority voted for high heels ... but the difference is NOT that huge so this is telling me that not MOST men find High Heels sexy and because some of them want us actually to feel comfortable.
Or some of them said it depends on the occasion, some of them said YES but not all the TIME therefore they voted Sneakers.
So Why do some Men (I hate to say the word MOST or ALL) find high heels actually sexy on Women? And why others don't ?
I observed a lot of behaviors and comments when it comes to High Heels and why our Men turn their heads whenever they just hear the "Toc Toc Toc" sound ...
According to me, Men tend to use physical attributes as a way to gauge women’s attractiveness and to find potential mates.
THEY LIKE THEM: Because High Heels increase the pelvis tilt and the hip rotation.
THEY DON'T LIKE THEM: high heels tend to artificially increase the femininity, and they feel that artificiality and don't like it.
THEY LIKE THEM : Because Their woman looks fierce and sexy, and love being seen with that sexy beast ...
THEY DON'T LIKE THEM: Because Women tend to complain way too much afterwards and from a sexy beast they downgrade to a whining baby ...
THEY LIKE THEM: Because it adds spice to the relationship especially under the sheets, adds some FIRE ... (sexy lingerie surprises and stuff)
THEY DON'T LIKE THEM: Because .... there is no valid reason not to like high heels in this case ... Duh...
Well, according to you, WHEN and HOW should High Heels be used and is Science WRONG and are G@G males right ??
I accept every comment in this case, from MEN and WOMEN
WOMEN, if you start to complain about how High Heels are uncomfortable ... check out my other MyTake How To Walk In High Heels and learn how to walk in them and how to use them correctly and how to prevent pain, obviously if you LIKE high heels, Decorative flats can make just as much of a statement as high heels! Remember
(I'm a High Heel Mistress so Trust me, Obey and you will be fine)
I hope you enjoyed and I can't wait to see what your opinion about this is !!
[On topic] [Caution] : I'm unique ("weird" according to your dictionary) so, get ready for my unorthodox opinion.
"THEY LIKE THEM: Because High Heels increase the pelvis tilt and the hip rotation." -Actually, I never noticed this thing until a G@Ger mentioned this two years ago. As soon as I read that, I was like "Holy shit! High heels are God's creation". I have always liked high heels just because.. they're supposed to be liked? Any girl wearing high heels is telling us "boy, look at me. I'm the one you think before sleeping and dream after sleeping".
"THEY DON'T LIKE THEM: high heels tend to artificially increase the femininity, and they feel that artificiality and don't like it" -So do clothes, makeup, perfume, utensils, washing machine and what not? It doesn't apply to me. Artificially or naturally, the only thing I care about is the final product. Just do it. By hook or by crook.
"THEY LIKE THEM : Because Their woman looks fierce and sexy, and love being seen with that sexy beast" -Personally, this is a turn off for me. Maybe because I'm not a sexy beast or whatever the reason is. I find the overly bold girls to be unavailable. When I walk outside, the girls wearing heels are either on date or waiting for rich guys to hit on them. Girls in sneakers are the ones who just don't give a fuck. And that's what make them more vulnerable (to get approached) as they were not ready. They were never expecting attention and they were not in their ultimate looks either. They are just one among the hundreds others but still someone found her one in the millions.
"THEY DON'T LIKE THEM: Because Women tend to complain way too much afterwards and from a sexy beast they downgrade to a whining baby" -Yes and that's why I never force or expect anyone to wear them. I understand them.
"THEY LIKE THEM: Because it adds spice to the relationship especially under the sheets, adds some FIRE... (sexy lingerie surprises and stuff)" - *jealous* __________
High heels, sneakers, flats, flipflops whatever... we guys don't care. The only thing we care about is YOU. If there's is a smile on your face after wearing that specific article, that's enough.
The gif was linked to the sexy surprised, basically lingerie and nice high heels that will be taken off anyways after the show is over... and I do agree with everything that you said, not because you are my putta but because you are realistic and I love it, and honestly, YES smiling it is... but babe ... why are you so harsh on me today media.giphy.com/media/wcekIGAqEr3LG/giphy.gif
Love my heels and I can't say that I've gotten any complaints from anyone when I wear them! I actually like the sight of another attractive woman in heels, myself.
I have a love/hate relationship with heels. I definitely find women tend to look sexier in my eyes with them on.
Apparently that enhanced tilt around the pelvis and spine which causes the tummy to protrude and the butt to stick out simulate a posture which typically accompanies a woman with an arch to the lower spine. Such an arch was apparently found to be useful for foraging and moving about during pregnancy from what I've gathered, and while that's not exactly useful these days, it was probably quite useful throughout a great period of human history.
Yet I hate them mainly because my wife has a mild case of bunions. She ends up with a lot of pain and sores around the inner sides of her feet as a result whenever she wears high heels, and yet she's required to wear them for work (an office job as a publisher).
So even though I find them sexy and all, I dislike that their popularity and demand is causing frequent pain to my wife. In her case, I think she knows how to walk in them properly with the correct posture but the bunions cause inevitable friction there.
Also for her, it's now like she wears high heels into the bedroom. I know how she looks like without them on, and so the effect is largely lost on me at this point. I'm attracted to her just fine without them.
Personally i enjoy high heels. They are sexy. Decorative. Give shape and attractiveness. They are style and fashion. They could hurt as well and i would want ladies to be comfortable but that doesn't mean i should dislike high heels. Because i am not demanding it. I am not commanding it. And i am not forcing it on anybody. It is just my own personal view of high heels itself and all the elements i have mentioned above won't be absent without high heels either.
In my perspective high heels can be appropriate for most of the occasions. Except sports and similar environments which is beyond obvious. But during any formal or even normal events high heels can be appropriate and very usable. It is all depends on person's decisions.
If i love high heels. That doesn't mean i would dislike other type of shoes. Sneakers and high heels as well as other shoe productions all have beauties and cons and pros on their own. But if i could vote, i would definitely vote for high heels. I find no reason to dislike them.
There is this debate if high heels are bad for body's function? majority of people today are missing out that if you choose right, do right and wear right and be moderate. Everything will be fine. Everything that get used in an excessive way, it will end up bad. But if you study yourself and the product that you choose and when you balance your usage. Nothing bad going to happen.
Females have this particular bone function. Joints and hips. Because of the reproductive purposes. High heels been creative and designed to reshape for with that bone structure. That is why it gives the usual appearance that we can observe when a woman wears high heels. And all other purposes that high heels are there for. The point is nothing is wrong with high heels. It's just the user must know how and when to use it to take the best out of it according to her preference.
I think many men find high heels sexy for several reasons:
*They make a woman's legs look longer. That is associated with youth and female child bearing ability. When an adolescent girl is reaching her child bearing years, her legs are often disproportionately long with respect to the rest of her body (or at least appear so because of her other body proportions). High heals mimic this condition.
*They cause her posture to play interesting and sexy games... with her pelvis and other body parts... especially as she walks. And they cause her backside to tilt upward. I'll leave the explanation of why that's sexually attractive to your imagination.
*They make her seem that she is in a kind of distress because when she has to wear those implements of torture she probably is! This one may not sound very nice, but men are by nature kind of sexual hunters (I use the word hunter instead of "predator" because that word has the wrong connotation.). As with other animals, when their prey is in distress, that attracts their attention. Subconsciously, its an invitation to see if he can capitalize on that distress to get what he wants. I don't mean this literally, it's all psychological.
*She knows they are sexy to men and that's why she is wearing them. Nothing sexier than a girl who is advertising she want's sexual attention from men.
Science is not wrong. They used the exact same woman with the same dress on the same street and the same ruse. The only difference are the heels. Men stop to help her more with heels than with flats. People just aren't as honest with themselves as they think.
It's like when you keep telling yourself not eat that cake but you eat it anyway and forget about it.
Heels make a woman much much more noticeable to a man. Trust me. A woman with heels pops into my radar WAY more than a cute girl. I might or might not like the look but the impression is irresistible.
However, the decision ultimately belongs to the woman. Now that she knows men like the look a lot, what is she going to do?
Hahaha, That's totally correct. There no point in wearing heels unless you want the attraction.
That's the whole point of it and a lot of women don't get the point. If they want to attract the men then dress up for it. If they don't want to then wear whatever they feel comfortable. Men are simple creatures, they don't really care after that initial flash of attention. They pop their heads up a bit more in front of a sexiness sign but that's all.
Just don't complaint why the guys aren't noticing though. if you ask the guys, most of them won't have a clue.
Love them, my wife wears them when possible and she looks great in them. But she can't walk more than a few blocks or stand for very long. I'm happy with that because her feet are healthy and I want them to stay that way. I love heels but hate to see a woman who has wrecked her feet by wearing them too much.
Eh, heels seem unnatural. I honestly prefer the shape of the leg when standing in flat bottomed shoes over heels. It might be a cute vs sexy thing for me. Like the sneakers, and the correspondingly relaxed, gently curving calf muscle is more "cute" where the heels and the correspondingly tight and chiseled look to the calk is more "sexy" and I do not like "sexy" because I am not a very sexual person. Also socially, I think heels put off a vibe of smugness.
Sneakers also give a more natural indication of height. When a woman can stand in flat bottomed shoes and still be taller than me, that is attractive af.
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i feel like girls use high heels to impress other girls or only because they feel better with them My opinion is that men are really indiferent on the matter, or even just directly don't like it (since men like to feel taller than woman, in general). BUT if wearing high heels will make you feel better about yourself and you think the pain it brings is worth, wear it! (since they don't make you taller than me ofc :D) haha
Sure sweety you are right, that's why this is mostly dedicated to women who actually like wearing high heels like me, and who feel nice in them, and by using the right technique there won't be any pain ;)
For me high heels dont really mean much so long as they are not stilettos. As I dont trust a single woman with those shoes. As Stilettos look very uncomfortable and potentially a dangerous weapon.
Quote: "Eff this sh*t I'm out." Is pretty much what I would say. xD.
Overally though I would prefer my significant other to just wear what ever is most comfortable rather than what looks the best. As a happy significant other is the best kind you can have.
He can hate them all he wants, ever since I learned how to not look like bambi while wearing them, they have had a permanent spot in my wardrobe. I adore heels, I'm also 5'3" and for some reason I'm always surrounded by tall people, so heels are almost necessary for me haha. I do still wear sneakers from time to time, just not as often as heels lol
The only reason I don't like wearing high heels is because it gets uncomfy and my feet hurt after awhile. There's a time and place for high heels (of course) as with other types of shoes and clothing. I like wearing them because it makes my legs look longer, makes me feel sexy, and makes me taller (cos I'm very short - 5'2"). Also, it makes it easier for my guy and I to kiss whenever I'm in high heels... otherwise, I'd have to be on my tippy toes or stand on a sidewalk or something, LOL
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In my own case, I love heels but only high heels (4+ in). I think there's a common concept for some people to group all heels into one category when answering a question like the one stated. Personally, I find the 1-3 in heels give off more of a work/professional feel, and while I'm with a lady I don't really want to feel like I'm at work. Biggest reason I like high heels would be linked to that I like slim calves, and high heels can even make some that are on the bigger side look slimmer, a la more sexy in my eyes. I can understand why some people don't prefer their ladies wearing heels. The biggest reasons (among my friends at least) has to do with their own height.
Also, the sneakers bit is interesting. I, too, find them pretty hot. Now I don't speak for all when I say this, but the reason I find sneakers attractive as well is because over 90% of the time sneakers are paired with... leggings.
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I love both for different reasons 1) Heels are sexy simple. They elevate a woman's look. Heels make you look and also makes you want to touch a woman's legs no joke. I remember leaving my office building the other day and this woman in black tights, quite slim and heels she was hugging herself whilst struggling to walk with her friend. I instantly became attracted to her from the bottom up honestly lol. I just smiled for a minute lol.
2) Trainers are different. Don't know why it's called sneakers. But anyway they look very cute when a girl shows some ankle. Let me say i was once in lecture and this chick was sitting next to me cross legged. I looked at her feet and she was wearing Nike and jeans. But her ankle made the pairing look real good. Trust me Haha.
I will say flats are the least attractive out of the shoes women wear.
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Amazing take !!! I actually love how you describe this issue because a lot of women don't like high heels exactly for the reason of comfort. And on your other take you described all the steps and i think you kind of shutted up every woman who was about to complain LOL you did it in your sassy way and by now we know that's your way LOL but it's okay. I love high heels and i think people should feel themselves to wear them, and one should actually do whatever they want with their lifes anyhow, but your take makes a lot of sense in general. thank you
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They CAN look sexy.
But a lot of women do not know how to walk in them. They look super awkward. It's like they are "playing" at being an adult. Their steps look so forced and they look like they are barely holding their balance together. It makes them seem very inexperienced (you can take that pretty much any way you want inexperienced in basically any facet of life) That destroys any illusion of sexy.
Women who actually know how to wear them can pull them off. Otherwise for girls that can't they should probably just stay away. It'll hurt their image more than help.
I think girl's can look hot and sexy in either heels or sneakers. I think the rest of the outfit comes into play to and how she carries herself to when wearing it.
Aw <3 you're cute, yes you should check it out it's not that hard trust me :) obviously it depends if one WANTS to and LIKES to wear them, that's all :D
@Asker, does height affect what you can and can't wear? Im 5ft 8 . Also Can I keep going higher in terms of heels. when and if I do learn to walk in them? thanks.
No, according to me height doesn't play any role in this, i'm tall well i don't know in FT but i'm 1.70 cm, it's AVERAGE so when i wear high heels i'm usually as tall as my boyfriend LOL (my heels are crazy). But when you learn with them try Wedges first, and then start with normal medium size heels and walk around your house, then take a rest... then walk again :D
Depends on the legs, overall figure and shoes. If she doesn't need them to look sexy, it doesn't matter. I don't think they are comfortable to walk around in, so a girl who wears them is tring hard to appeal. I personally don't think that is necessary, and I don't like how most of these shoes look. Someone who also tries hard in other aspects like jewlery and makeup is rather not in my peer group. But my opinion is probably not the norm.
I don't specifically like them but I don't mind :D I like the "tok tok" statement you make... indeed it's funny that you hear the ladies arrive! For me, flats are fine too. I like girls wearing dresses or skirts more than heels. With or without hosiery, I like both :D
Well, I can find them sexy, especially making the woman confident and all that.. But, I mean I could do without them.. I've never seen the deal with high heels, could cause most of the girls I've ben around didn't know how to where them, or cause I just not into them.. But, like I said, I'm not opposed to them, it's just... Hit or miss for me..
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