BEFORE I EVEN START THIS, FEEL ABSOLUTELY FREE to write your own list in another take because we all know both sexes talk about the other one. I'm not trying to pretend we don't and you shouldn't pretend either. It's tongue and cheek here (surprise! neither sex is actually going to get over it), so if you're taking it super personal, feel some sort of compulsory need to mention the word "feminism," or you just hate all women...that's on you. Get over it!
1. Get over who pays for the first date
If you ask someone out, expect to pay. That has nothing to do with you being a guy, it has to do with you asking someone out. If I invite you over to my house for dinner, I don't expect you to cook the meal. In fact, what kind of a-hole says, come over to my house for dinner, but you know, by the way, bring pots, pans, the food, etc. and cook for the thing I invited you to. First dates...same concept. Guys 99% of the time tend to initiate the ask for the first date. NOW, screeeeeetch on the breaks: if you cut to it's 6 dates later and she hasn't offered to pay a single dime, YES, go nuts, complain on your blog, refuse to see her again, ask if she would foot the bill at some point in the near future unless of course she has warned you up front that she's some sort of relic from the 18th century.
2. Get over not being asked out by girls
Yes, this blows chunks. I said it. You have to do all the work. You have to risk the rejection, etc, etc. but most girls just aren't doing the asking. I sincerely apologize, but some things in life are what they are. You're welcome to join various organizations which protest such things or pay prostitutes for dates or something I've heard some men do, but for the rest of you, if you want to go out with a girl, it's probably going to (READ: definitely) going to come down to you asking her out.
3. Get over the dress code thing
There are some times in life where your ratty tank, jorts, and flip flops are just not appropriate. I am so sorry the world is so tough, but might I remind the, that just a century ago, the average person had to make from 4-6 changes of clothing A DAY. You only have to give AF at weddings, dinner dates, funerals, if you work in a business atmosphere, or the occasional gala or prom. I don't know that many people who have to go to formal functions 7 days a week. Put on a suit, knot the tie, shave the face, put on the uncomfortable shoes. It will all be over with soon.
4. Get over the idea that all girls are dressing up for you
If I had a dollar for all the times some guy said, well girls just dress "that way" to get attention. Not knocking that some do or on the scene they do, but a lot of times, a girl dresses up for herself. I don't wake up and automatically think, what would my boyfriend or some randoms on the street approve of me wearing. I dress because it's what I like, makes me feel good, and low and behold if you have eyes in your head, you may notice me. Emphasis, on the "you" and "may" notice me. Girls are not responsible for your personal actions because you have eyes in your head.
5. Get over how much time it takes us to get ready (or shop)
We've got a lot of hair on our heads and otherwise that needs attendance, we've got make-up, we have about a million different choices between clothes, jewelry, and shoes. It is easier for guys---life and society has severely limited your choices as to what a guy can wear and do with his face, and wear on his body. We have been instructed since birth to make Herculean efforts even when it comes to just going out and looking basic. You say when we're ready that we are beautiful, and lovely, and you like the end result. So we keep going through the efforts to get to that. We are sorry, not sorry, but at some point in life, hopefully sooner rather then later, we hope that you resign yourself that we will never ever ever (did I mention ever?) be ready in under 10 minutes flat. I wish that were a magic power we had, but for 90% of us, it's not. Make yourself a sandwich, catch up on the game, meditate...I don't know, just don't bother with the constant reminder that we're taking "too long," because it's only going to lead to an argument that's going to lead to wasted time we could have used getting ready. Truth.
6. Get over the hormone/period hating
Have a period for 40 years of your life. Have the mind numbing cramps you don't get to decide when they happen even if you're at work, school, it's your birthday, your one and only day off, your exhausted from your day, a Thursday. Have your hormones bitch slap you in the face barely two months deep into your pregnancy causing you to upchuck things you didn't even know you ate. Deal with pads and tampons and having to take more hormones in a birth control pill to calm the hormones you do have, down. How the f--k does that work, I don't know!!! Now have some guy tell you, if he had a period, it wouldn't bother him at all. (Is it possible for women everywhere to roll their eyes so hard they leave the sockets?!?) We're not saying it's your fault you weren't born as a girl who had to deal with this, but YOU LITERALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE. ALL CAPS. So either say nothing, offer up whatever shred of comfort you can manage to give us, or just pretend like you get it. Any one of those will suffice.
7. Get over the fact that women want in
Yep, some of us want to be in the military, be president, play the same sports, be on the board, make choices about our own bodies, be 'the first' in our field etc, etc, etc. We're going to continue to fight to have a place in this world, wherever that place may be. You telling us, "we shouldn't," or "we can't" is not going to stop us from trying. Those two phrases shouldn't stop anyone from fighting for what they want or the goals they set for themselves no matter your gender. No on in life got where they are now by sitting idly by. Many of you will or do have daughters, sisters, mothers, aunts, grandmas, and nieces out there in the world so when you dismiss 'some lady' as some crazy for fighting for rights, you're also dismissing all those ladies you know by name too. Stand with, not against us and demand that we do the same when it's you fighting for your own rights because it goes both ways!
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1. No. That's an arbitrary rule that makes no fucking sense. If I ask 10 of my friends to go have drinks with me I sure as hell won't be paying for all of them. Sure, you'll say "but it's a date". So what? The point is just because you ask someone to join you doesn't imply that you pay for them. Two different words and they are there for a reason. And yes, he should make a good impression, but so should you.
"what kind of a-hole says, come over to my house for dinner, but you know, by the way, bring pots, pans, the food, etc. and cook for the thing I invited you to"
That's a straw man and you know it. Asking someone to bring pots, pans and food is not only completely pointless but also far more difficult and cumbersome than pulling out 20 dollars to pay for what you ate. You'd do the same if it was any other scenario than a date.
Oh, and by the way, my parents taught me that if someone invites me over to their house, I should always bring a small present. I'll leave it to you to figure out how that translates to a date (and no, YOU are not the present).
2. Again no. I assume you have a fairly traditional upbringing. I don't, I ask guys out all the time and so do 80% of my girl friends. Looking at couples I know I'd say with about 60%-70% of them the girl made the first move. 50 years ago that was probably 0%. My point is, traditions change and that is a good thing, especially if the change is making it more fair for everyone. Your sentence that "things in life are what they are." is a defeatist attitude. I wonder what girls of your ilk would say if women were still not allowed to vote or work and men would just shrug and say "things in life are what they are, you need to get over it."
Now, you can go with that change, or pout and tell guys that it sucks. You choose the latter, as do some other girls. Almost everyday there are questions here on GAG asking "why doesn't he ask me out" or "why doesn't he make a move?"
You don't need to ask out guys. But don't come on GAG complaining when the guy you have a crush on doesn't ask you out because I asked him out first.
7) So now you're telling us that traditions DO change and that women ARE in fact doing things they haven't done before and that's a good thing? So the change is only good if you benefit from it? But if you don't then NO WAY, the status quo will always be the same and never change and guys should just get over it? lol
You're a poor excuse of a woman and make the rest of us look bad.
This shit post is hilarious. It's essentially a "give us special treatment and no responsibilities because vagina", post. You want equality then buy your own shit. You want guys to approach then stop being c*nts when we do. The dress code thing is a female bitching point. You want to walk around exposing your genitals even in professional environments but think men should have to follow standards. You hate that when you are exposing your sexual parts you get sexual attention but don't want to take responsibility for it. Then cover your shit up. The only reason we hate your period is because you use it as an excuse to be a flaming bitch. But like all female things if we assume your being a bitch because of your period we are the assholes. If you don't want it being used against you then don't use it as an excuse. No one has an issue with women wanting equality... Literally NO ONE. We have an issue with the fact that western women are the most privileged group to ever exist yet claim they are victims and oppressed. NOTHING feminist fight for today in western culture is valid. It's a hate group and that is provable by it's actions.
I'm quite young but I'm going to be quite honest: you are generalizing the SHIT out of the male population. To be entirely honest you're insinuating that men are bitching about social roles and standards that women have, and saying that despite the fact that men have it harder they should just suck it up because that's the way things are. That, in my opinion, is highly unfair, and highly hypocritical when it comes to the last thing on your list. Now hear me out, I'm not trying to bash you here, but I simply have problems with what you said: Basically men keep bitching about feminism and stuff like that in terms of equal rights, opportunity and stuff. <--- That's the point you made, even if you weren't attempting for it to come off that way. Now what I have to say to that is: If men are to shut up about their social roles and the fact that they have to do all the work and stuff, women should shut up about feminism too. Now I'm all for feminism, and I personally think that it has definitive points that the general public should take into consideration, but it seems like feminists these days want to be BETTER than men instead of being EQUAL. Another thing, not all men think that periods aren't bad (Personally one of the only problems I see with being a girl is the fact that you'd have to deal with them). And about your second point, quite frankly, that's bullshit. I apologize if I seem crass but it really is: because once more you are telling men that they should be comfortable doing all the work and making women feel like they are princesses and things of that nature. I know this by personal experience: THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS (ALL CAPS). You know how much SHIT most guys have to put up with to try and GET the girl in the FIRST PLACE? Let alone treat her like she's the best thing ever when they've barely even said THREE WORDS to each other. Hell, I've been a person who used to make the first move on EVERYTHING. You know what that leads to? Over investing. You know what THAT leads to? The dreaded one-liner: "I just see you as a good friend." Sorry, but that's NOT what guys want to hear. So no, we will not approach if we know if we will get turned down, unless we are confident in our chances in the first place: Society has taught the general male population that women are bitches that only want to see you suffer, and while that isn't truly the case, it's posts like THIS that make it seem that way.
"If you ask someone out, expect to pay. That has nothing to do with you being a guy, it has to do with you asking someone out."
But you take advantage of the dating system itself so you dont pay for shit until you actually like someone. Men are literally paying for your time AND making time for you. You should value that. Time can't be taken back or charged from someone else. When you dont pay you're essentially saying 'spend money and time on me AND amuse me, and I may give you the privilege of my affection'. I think that's absurd. If you accepted the date you're theoretically invested at some level... So unless you have a very reasonable "it's about being nice" justification, it's still a double standard.
"Yep, some of us want to be in the military, be president, play the same sports, be on the board, make choices about our own bodies, be 'the first' in our field etc, etc, etc. We're going to continue to fight to have a place in this world, wherever that place may be. You telling us, "we shouldn't," or "we can't" is not going to stop us from trying."
Nobody had a problem with that. Problem is, fighting for equality is one thing, having a movement back you up no matter what is another. Wanna fight? Study, get a good job, work your ass off like any ambitious man would, and dont blame your problems on everyone else. You said that "Stand with, not against us and demand that we do the same when it's you fighting for your own rights because it goes both ways!". Beautifully said. Except nobody is against you. That's what you dont get about feminism. When a movement needs to lie about wage gaps and 'rape culture' to keep itself from falling apart because of genuine statistics, and demonizes men as the problem while sanctifying even the most disgusting human beings, it doesn't deserve any respect. When a movement praises a radical anti-family eugenist because she "supported choice for women", it doesn't deserve any respect. When a movement intentionally corrupts the concept of justice to mean absolute equality, trying to secure a 50% quota on all workplaces, it doesn't deserve any respect. I could go on, but you get the point.
1 women can make their own money now this isn't the 50's expecting a man to pay your way is sexist. 2. Thankfully being married I don't have to ask girls out anymore as of how dangerous it is for men to do so these days. If she likes you great, if she's not sexually attracted to you it a potential sexual harassment/sexual assault/rape accusation and conviction. 3. Every man should suit up I agree with that. 4. We appreciate girls wanting to look their best and it's only thirsty teenage boys that get unwanted boners due to the raging hormones. 5. Waiting for a woman to get ready is a nightmare especially if you have to be on time somewhere, I just tell my woman we have to be somewhere an hour before we do. I get bored shopping with my wife so I just sneak away and pretend I got lost usually in a bookstore. Last time I got ice cream. 6. To all women your periods are your own, while at work or in public please have manners and respect for others. 7. Nobody is preventing women, most guys are for equality. Many women already serve in the military, there are female leaders all over the world and would be in America too if we could produce at least on creditable candidate (Hillary and Palin are unelectable). Even most conservatives like myself are trying to stop you from controlling your own bodies we just want you and not us the average taxpayer to pay for your own contraception and abortions. No one stopping you from having a place in the world in fact there are plenty of construction, sewage worker, manufacturing, welding, garbage collector, miner, mechanical, agricultural jobs were women are under represented and more needs to be done to encourage women into these roles while men need to be encouraged into jobs that ate dominated by women such as nursing, teaching and childcare not to mention the inequality men face at college with college places going to 52%of women these days. Fortunately most women are the mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins and wives and are willing to stand with their men and speak up for them and defend them when they are attacked by those that brand them sexist misogynists simply for being born male.
Get over telling guys to get over it. 1. We aren't asking you to pick the tab. Split the bill, I don't see ANY legit reason not to do so. 2. Why? Why shouldn't we expect chicks ask us out. Is there some sort of rule or law that says only men should ask women out and not the other way around? 3. So when was the last time you saw a guy turning up in shorts and flip flops to a business meeting or a wedding? 4. Yeah, girls do that. Just see how teenage girls dress these days. Particularly 13-16 year olds. They aren't doing that out of a sense of dignity or self confidence. 5. Lol, you know nothing about male grooming. We dress like we discipline ourselves. The key difference being, we take what we need, you girls take what you want. We actually like spending time with you, you like fantasizing about spending time with us than actually spend time with. 6. I've legit never heard a guy bitch about that time of the month. Unless she's PMSing. 7. Ok, so you basically have this delusion that we tell women that they can't do stuff. That's just not true. Men tell other guys they can't do things as well, but you know what? Men don't care. Its in our nature to challenge and be challenged. We accept obstacles as something that we could use to grow. Feminists think there's some deliberate ugenda to put women down. No, cut the shit. If you're strong enough, nobody's gonna tell you what you can or can't do. If you aren't, become stronger. Its that simple.
1. I thinks going Dutch is the best solution or that the man and the woman pay every second dates. In one date the man pay, in another date the woman pay, so then it's the man's turn, and then the woman's etc.
2. It should go both ways. Both men and women should be able to ask a potential partner out. 1 and 2 is just old fashioned. Especially for a so called "feminist".
3. I'm agree men should dress properly in dates. Same applies to women. But the man doesn't need to wear suit in every dates. Wearing casual, but nice clothes is also fine. In fashion magazines you can see that casual is nice too.
4. It's true many women are dressing nicely for themselves and not for men. Same applies to men.
5. The woman/the man can use long time preparing themselves as long they aren't too late and are ready to agreed time. When it comes to shopping, you can't expect your partner being with you every times. Same way he can't expect you being with him in everything that interests him. He can't expect you watching football every times his favorite team are playing for instance.
6. That's true. [Cis ] men can't understand how having periods is and it's mostly women who understands how it's.
7. Gender equality is important and it goes both ways. Women have to fight for political rights, right for education and career etc. But men have things they've to fight for as well. Example being allowed to be feminine or cry in public without being looked down at.
1. Never cared about who pays, but since im generally giving, i always offer an kinda prefer to pay. 2. I have Been asked out by girls, I dont care or get it. 3. So rarely ever go anywhere where there is a "dress code", is understandable an not so weird, but dont always bother, dont think i would dress up too much just for a date naturally, nor birthday for example. 4. Why would girls dress up for me? Generally acording to most women I know anyway they just dress whatever they feel like, I do the same. Never mention anything else. 5. Although ironically you are essentially saying you dress up for others here, not yourself. An thankfully I guess?, everyone I been with are usally always ready in 10min, neither would usally wear makeup or do much about how they look before we go out doing whatever together. So far from everyone who is like that, not to mention you do have the choice obviously, nobody is forcing you beside yourself. 6. Never found it hard to understand still honestly, what a period is like. An overall from my own experience, much more women hate the period themselves than guys do. 7. People who want in anywhere they do it, nobody is stopping them either, usally the only people who complain about is the ones who dont want to "get in" but want more other people to get in. Never told anyone they can't do anything. Confused by the whole right thing though, since are so ridiculously many feminist for example who fight against equality, can't say I ever seen one fight for male rights, or even talk about them really.
In either case, 7 easy things to get over, since dosent apply to me. So not all "guys" .
1 and 2 I do agree with. I mean if guys insisted on the girl paying for the first date.. girls would likely be less willing to go on first dates and women would be even more picky. BUT I'm completely against a woman expecting a man to still pay after the first date. I'm sorry but waiting until 6 dates.. no that is stupid. The first date fair enough... but after that... shit just gets expensive and it is just a big red flag when girls don't insist on paying her half. Women aren't prostitutes... we shouldn't have to pay for your time... first date is fine. 3-6 I don't really know what to say, i mean i don't disagree with any of it. I don't feel strongly enough to say much. 7 ''Some of us want to be in the military, be president, play the same sports, be on the board.'' Women already have those chances. Being in top managerial jobs/boards... unfortunately (this is just one of those things with businesses you cannot change)... most women will end up having a child and that means 1-2 years of a company paying her wages but worst of all certain laws (at least in the UK and most western countries) prevent one from properly replacing them so work forces will go long periods of time without X department manager. I probably didn't explain that last bit fully a business friend of my Dads who i spoke to about the issue said so. And lastly a fair few of those women may choose to quit their job and get apart time one or become a full time mum. Which means hanging onto someone who you've invested training into.. for them to go off and not come back. I necessarily like or agree with this. But in today's environment that is the main reason why women are not in the high ranks of businesses.
Oh and women often have other children soon after the first. So X female manager may come back for a year and be off again. The main reason is not because of the cost... but because it is very inefficient to have female managers that have kids. ... Again disclaimer... i probably didn't explain this in the precise way the business owner i spoke to (he has been in the business for 60 years... and he does agree that women are paid less before you assume he might be an anti-feminist, he seemed very left wing).
I'm not gonna argue with women who wanna be equal to men, or with the other side which is women who are more traditional and find it more natural for men to ask out women and to pay for a date. But I will argue with women who want to be equal when it's to their benefit and switch to the traditional when it's to their benefit. If you want to not ever ask men out or pay for anything in a relationship, there is logic to that, but in that case expect the men to be the leaders and don't expect to be the main source of control in your relationship or in society
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Anonymous
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According to pink anon's logic I must be living in a parallel universe then.
My last 3 girlfriends asked me out first. And they're all GORGEOUS and bathe in male attention. So *I* sincerely apologize, but girls ask guys out and there's more and more of them every year and there's *nothing* you can do about it.
And I can't remember the last time I paid on a first date (not that I'm a cheapskate, I'm happy to pay but when she's insisting on spending that cash on me I won't say no).
And I'm not even that handsome, there are waaaay hotter men out there, so I'm fairly certain I'm not the only guy who sure as hell doesn't need to get over *anything*, hun.
Sucks to be an entitled girl in a modern world, doesn't it?
She clearly only wants things to change, if those things aren't currently in her favor. That's why guys should "get over" having to do all the work in dating, but she also wants the modern approach of being equal.
LMAO this chick hahahahah the fact a woman is telling guys to get over shit... oh my god hahahahahah 3 months ago you had women dressed like cunts (literally) whining about fake stuff lol
I appreciate the effort it took to make this Take, at least you got a pic for every point lol
You feminist women are not even doing any fighting. In the end, it's some white knight with a gun who's going to force me to give you my stuff!
By the way, the other day, I was asked out on a first date by a woman, and I agreed. I wonder what her response would have been, if, instead of paying for myself, I had demanded that she pay for me. Maybe I should have tested your claim that it's not about being a man but about being the one who did the asking out.
#2 super easy, pay for an escort and skip the drama. In fact, a lot of guys do this. It's the women who are getting upset over the whole thing and wanted to ban the men.
#3 dress to impress but not for the ladies, for me only. So I will wear what needs to be wore to get what I want.
#4 pretty dressed women get noticed. Ugly dressed one are ignored.
#5 solution: separate cars. The guy can hang around with his buddies while the gal can take all the time she needs. And NO. NO shopping. She can go do her own shopping. Waiting is not fun.
#6 didn't the pills solve this? If not... Tough luck? Emergency sex change operation inbound?
#7 sure but only if they get their facts right. A lot of these equality women didn't get their facts right and convinced themselves over something completely wrong. Also they get violent and toxic if you say the correct thing. Better be safe and stay at the side and support the ones with the correct facts.
Hey, what can I say... this is pretty well written, and I agree with 80% of it. Here's where I have some issues: please cite the source for your assertion that people used to change clothes 4-6 times per day. Holy Hell. That might make sense on the landed estates in England between the wars, but most people on earth were lucky to have one good unsullied shirt to wear to church on Sundays. Get real. I also see a slight contradiction in that you don't dress for us, but you will spend hours on make-up and hair because in some way that's just different. If you don't dress for us, don't bother with the makeup or fancy coifs either. Why one and not the other? Okay, that's all for now. Lol.
@SovereignessofVamps Well I should get a special prize for that... lol. Read stuff? What? You can't expect people to read things anymore. That's asking way too much...
I didn't know that people could upvote their own MyTakes. I wonder- would any guys like to see a reversed version of this MyTake, listing the 7 Thing Girls Need to Get Over and setting them out just like she does? Might have a hard time cutting the list down to 7 though. Which 7 things do you lot think should take the top spots in the list about girls?
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Guys like to pretend as in my intro, that you don't bitch about us. You do. Plenty are doing it in the comments. On Gag. On tv. In the media. To friends. We all do it. Yet, if someone dare talk about it, oh gawd, it's so blown out of proportion. Men try and act like you're all saints when you read a list like this. No you aren't ANDDDDDDD neither are women! Hell, that's why I'm encouraging you or anyone else to write your own list. Make it 20 single spaced pages long if GAG will allow it. We're in some kind of freakish bubble apparently where everyone has to tip toe on eggshells around everyone else, but gawd forbid we actually talk about the stupidity and frustrations and real world issues that go on between us, we each might actually learn something from one another.
We're all humans, at the end of the day. And humans, as a species, are inherently hypocritical, disparaging and supremacist by nature. You're guilty of it; we're all guilty of it. Do you believe that you're better than anyone else, that you matter more than anyone else? You may claim not to, but of course you do- everyone who isn't suicidal does. That's the bubble. And as individualist human beings, everyone has those bubbles. The thing is that even if you know the 'safe-space' bubble exists around yourself, you still need it for self-esteem and to maintain the will to live. Get over it? Sure, no problem. I'm not in a bubble- but then again, I had to cope with that by becoming a psychopath and a sociopath instead, the only way to truly 'get over it' and stop caring. So, which option would you prefer? That guys continued caring about girls enough to have strong feelings about them? Or that guys "got over it", got over you and stopped giving a fuck about girls entirely? Choose.
1= I never ask, so I never pay. 2= Been over it for decades as I've long since found other hobbies besides dating/women. They don't ask I assume they are not interested. 3= I never have paid attention to what I wear and never will. If anyone doesn't like it then they don't have to look. 4= Never cared if they are or not. It actually never crossed my mind. 5= Take all the time you want, I'm gong home to play my mmo (or watch the game, or whatever). Call me when you need picked up when the store closes. Better still, just shop by yourself. 6= Get a hysterectomy then you won't get periods or cramps. What I would do. 7= Feel free to continue to waste your time trying.
Guys on this are funny. They don't realize hating on this mytake, actually gives it more credibility. Because them hating on it is what made me actually read the mytake instead of just skimming it, which was great because I think your points sound awesome.
Thats why so many men lie to women just to fuck and chuck. Expecting too much out of guys = the girl who only gets one night stands. Thats all girls who believe this mytake deserve one night stands and being played.
That being said too. A woman who understands guys and will compromise with him is the best. It goes both ways girls. 50/50. The instant a girl expects me to do more than 50% of the relationship will equal a swift break up.
We all complain or have issues about the other sex, or the same sex to some degree. It's just when someone points some of it out, people get all crazy about it and start pretending they don't do the same... which is hilariously ironic.
I mean, this is one take, but what about the literally thousands of other mytakes and questions that all deal with one or multiple issues with the other sex? Gag has whole categories on the stuff, but I say, you know, sure, go off on this and pretend you didn't write at least 25 questions about ones own issues of the same last year. LOL!
@myTake Owner ofc people do the same, and they say way worse things. Your take was really good, not emotional or gossip driven like how lots of people are when they talk about sex. That's why the haters are funny to me too.
you know, there are some girls who also are telling her to get over herself. She is extremely hypocritical, but you can't see that because no matter what people like you will favor with her because you are the same gender. mytake is an idiot, there is no other way around it and no, its not as black and white as being a girl or a boy because if guy wrote a reversed take like this I would still see a problem with it.
@guysaskgirls555 who wants to control women's bodies? Most just want them to take responsibility for their reproductive rights instead of the government which means paying for their own contraception and abortion.
@Iraqveteran666 abortion is right under certain situations such as life threatening risks, rape or a genuine accident from birth control. saying that it is somehow ok to go around having unprotected sex and leaving the responsibility up to tax payers dollars is extremely idiotic and there are countless women who do this and then talk about ''their right'' well that right goes out the window when you act irresponsible and get other parties involved such as the father. this is why in new york, a father has to consent to wanting a baby or leaving all rights to the mother.. A women has no right to force a baby on someone or kill someone who wants a baby due to their irresponsible actions. Thats not ''controlling'' them, its just called an equal playing field of cause and effect. you have unprotected sex you better be prepared for the risk and no, its no one elses fault unless you are raped. if you agree to this same extent then its reasonable and makes perfect sense.
How's it credible when 100% of guys , and the majority of the girls opinions here are disagreeing with the QA, and calling her out for being sexist and hypocritical?
1) Here if you get invited for dinner at someone's place, it is traditional to bring something (like wine, or stop by the bakery to get some dessert for example) unless of course it is agreed upon not to... Of course this doesn't apply in a restaurant date! 2) Doesn't apply to online dating ;) 3) Me wearing a suit would be false advertisement. Suits are inconvenient. Leather shoes are crap. There are other ways to look decent. 4) Riiiiight. 5) Doesn't matter how much time you need to get ready as long as you're on time. If you're late I'm gone. 6) Never experienced bad cases of PMS... When she has her monthly cramps I give her a break, ain't that difficult 7) Feminists are cancer ;)
"Yep, some of us want to be in the military, be president, play the same sports, be on the board, make choices about our own bodies, be 'the first' in our field etc, etc, etc. "
It is hilarious how women want to get in anything men are a strong majority in. It's literally like how the cat will be fascinated and want to come in the restroom with me, sticking her paw under the door, meowing, wondering what awesome fun I'm having.
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What we will not get over is the double standards and hypocrisy of women like you. Some women are just tremendous hypocrites, and you are a bright, shining example for all to see.
The first pink anon who posted here is spot on. You should read what she wrote, take it to heart, pull your head out of your ass and get over yourself.
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