1. I don’t catch girls looking at me and looking away/not looking away. But for some reason this lady that lives across the street from me seems to always be sitting there at her window peeking out and I can feel her staring at me (that’s not in a way that girls stare at guys either) 2. I see that I’m not 3. I don’t get compliments at all really 4. No 5. No 6. No
Well I get a several people saying I should be a model, due to my height, I also had girls call me fine, handsome, and sexy. But again some people find me attractive, and some unattractive. So I would say I'm OKAY, others will say I'm handsome lol, especially my ex co-worker.
Would handsome guys get catcalled? If so I'm pretty sure I'm handsome, however, I don't think it really gets me anywhere with girls cause I get rejected all the time. 😰
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Catcall or hearing comments from girls, almost the same
I'd add to that smiles and her face otherwise indicating that she likes that you're in her presence. Some girls are very poker-faced, but this is usually the best indicator in my experience.
Yeah its very easy. Girls will stare at you and be nice to you (or mean if she's playing hard to get but will still stare at you). Guys will probably treat you like shit or be extremely polite. People will let you know
There are good-looking guys and then there are VGL guys. VGL guys are beyond what you say above - women will openly approach them, give them their number unsolicited, even catcall them.
Very good looking guys are such a small percent though. That's like movie star/model good looking guys. So there aren't too many around to take away attention from, non model, non 10s good looking guys.
@DonCachondo it's better than average though. When you consider, I won't say most, but probably the greater portion of population is "average" or basically a little below or slightly above average in looks.
If anyone has to put thought into whether or not they're handsome, they're not. It doesn't mean ugly either. Most of us are between 4s and 7s... average.
@azzntittiz It's not bitterness. The vast majority of the public are from 4s to 7s, which is average. If you want to say 4s to 6s, that's fine also. We're splitting hairs at that point...
sevens are not common and that's not average, I think you just want attractive people to think they are average and that's bitterness on your part. if vast majority was sevens I would so love that to be true, we would all love that.
@azzntittiz I didn't say the vast majority was JUST 7s, I said 4s to 7s. You're saying 5s to 6s, which I think is a bit of a narrow window. Again it's splitting hairs. I just think there are more "average" than "ugly" and "hot" combined...
I still don't get your "bitterness" assessment. I'm an overall 6, the beard is a fantastic hard 9, and clean-shaven I'm a solid 7... but I'm really not trying since my divorce. I'm busy raising my son. Anyway, it's all subjective at the end of the day...
You’ll know how girls treat me. A lot of them act shy and intimidated by me because I’m 6”5 and athletic. At first I was like I must look like shriek then I’d hear them talking about to me to their friends and complimenting my looks. Saying he’s so sexy” and especially I had a columbian woman with a big ol ass approach me so that made me feel I’m much better looking than I think.
it's easy to know if you're handsome, cause people tell you. being ugly is a thing you usually find out yourself, cause most people aren't so explicit about that.
With the gay thing, if you get tired of it just come up with a comeback, that can be as stupid as telling them to go fuck themselves, or something more cunning like saying, “Im straighter than the pole your mom dances on”.
The way I look at it, if a guy is too anal about his face and looks pretty sure he's 100 % gay. Guys get dirty the work, get cuts and sun damaged. Homosexuals don't do the stuff that normal strait men do.
if you catchem looking and the fast as the ray try to look somewhere else, and after a check up, you have no open zip, no stain, and nothing weird... and you have receive some complement lately... be sure you are in a handsome stage...
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So many perks including:
You can treat a woman like crap and other women in the room will blame her.
Women will put a positive spin on bad personality traits and not look for reasons to reject you.
There will always be another woman aching to date you, no matter what you might have done in past relationships
i get told that by friends and family, but very rarely by women.
but being skinny and lanky, my overall physical attractiveness goes down quite a bit.
How many points out of /10 does it take to be considered handsome?
I think at least 7/10
cool
You get laid easily.
you get tinder matches easily.
you get dates easily.
if you chat up random women they don’t turn you down.
its that simple.
1. I don’t catch girls looking at me and looking away/not looking away. But for some reason this lady that lives across the street from me seems to always be sitting there at her window peeking out and I can feel her staring at me (that’s not in a way that girls stare at guys either)
2. I see that I’m not
3. I don’t get compliments at all really
4. No
5. No
6. No
Well I get a several people saying I should be a model, due to my height, I also had girls call me fine, handsome, and sexy. But again some people find me attractive, and some unattractive. So I would say I'm OKAY, others will say I'm handsome lol, especially my ex co-worker.
Would handsome guys get catcalled? If so I'm pretty sure I'm handsome, however, I don't think it really gets me anywhere with girls cause I get rejected all the time. 😰
Catcall or hearing comments from girls, almost the same
How to know if you're handsome:
Have you ever gotten pussy for free without even trying? If yes, then you're handsome.
If not, when then you are part of the 80% of men who aren't handsome enough to matter.
I'd add to that smiles and her face otherwise indicating that she likes that you're in her presence. Some girls are very poker-faced, but this is usually the best indicator in my experience.
I have an excellent poker face 😊
Yeah its very easy. Girls will stare at you and be nice to you (or mean if she's playing hard to get but will still stare at you). Guys will probably treat you like shit or be extremely polite. People will let you know
There are good-looking guys and then there are VGL guys. VGL guys are beyond what you say above - women will openly approach them, give them their number unsolicited, even catcall them.
Very good looking guys are such a small percent though. That's like movie star/model good looking guys. So there aren't too many around to take away attention from, non model, non 10s good looking guys.
I'm a GL but not a VGL and it feels like such a ripoff LOL sort of like getting a silver medal
@DonCachondo it's better than average though. When you consider, I won't say most, but probably the greater portion of population is "average" or basically a little below or slightly above average in looks.
If anyone has to put thought into whether or not they're handsome, they're not. It doesn't mean ugly either. Most of us are between 4s and 7s... average.
Sevens aren't average, don't be bitter. You're good looking once you get to six, below five is meh. , eights nines and tens are hotties.
@azzntittiz It's not bitterness. The vast majority of the public are from 4s to 7s, which is average. If you want to say 4s to 6s, that's fine also. We're splitting hairs at that point...
sevens are not common and that's not average, I think you just want attractive people to think they are average and that's bitterness on your part. if vast majority was sevens I would so love that to be true, we would all love that.
@azzntittiz I didn't say the vast majority was JUST 7s, I said 4s to 7s. You're saying 5s to 6s, which I think is a bit of a narrow window. Again it's splitting hairs. I just think there are more "average" than "ugly" and "hot" combined...
I still don't get your "bitterness" assessment. I'm an overall 6, the beard is a fantastic hard 9, and clean-shaven I'm a solid 7... but I'm really not trying since my divorce. I'm busy raising my son. Anyway, it's all subjective at the end of the day...
Sounds pretty similar to the female experience, except girls don’t fight, they are malicious with gossip instead.
Girls do fight & fight dirty
You’ll know how girls treat me. A lot of them act shy and intimidated by me because I’m 6”5 and athletic. At first I was like I must look like shriek then I’d hear them talking about to me to their friends and complimenting my looks. Saying he’s so sexy” and especially I had a columbian woman with a big ol ass approach me so that made me feel I’m much better looking than I think.
it's easy to know if you're handsome, cause people tell you. being ugly is a thing you usually find out yourself, cause most people aren't so explicit about that.
l am very nice looking for my age nice skin and lots more lol
With the gay thing, if you get tired of it just come up with a comeback, that can be as stupid as telling them to go fuck themselves, or something more cunning like saying, “Im straighter than the pole your mom dances on”.
The way I look at it, if a guy is too anal about his face and looks pretty sure he's 100 % gay. Guys get dirty the work, get cuts and sun damaged. Homosexuals don't do the stuff that normal strait men do.
if you catchem looking and the fast as the ray try to look somewhere else, and after a check up, you have no open zip, no stain, and nothing weird... and you have receive some complement lately... be sure you are in a handsome stage...
Meh... I'm pretty average looking. I sometimes notice some of these points, but definitely not often.