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Thrashing the Idea of 'Perfect Guys Don't Exist'

To all those ignorant people who may try to tell that I should stop watching anime, it's just a random pick from the net. Don't judge. Anyways, doesn't matter.
To all those ignorant people who may try to tell that I should stop watching anime, it's just a random pick from the net. Don't judge. Anyways, doesn't matter.

This myTake isn't meant to offend anyone. Lately, I've been hearing this a lot that no one can be good in everything. My question to them is: why not?

As a small child, I always wondered what a man I would become as I grow older. I am 17 as of now and I think it's high time I take control of my things. All day long I used to bother on making myself perfect at everything possible.

People have different definitions of a person being 'perfect'. But most of them share some common parameters. What I consider to be perfect is what I am gonna state and also how I excel being so.

Lets begin.

1. Very handsome:

It is a very common belief that handsome guys aren't good at anything else besides their looks and being overconfident about it. That's a very big NO. Looks just don't determine everything. You gotta peep into the person what he/she might contain inside.

2. High IQ and good in studies:

This doesn't require any other proof if you handle your grades and practical situations in the easiest way possible.

3. Sense of humor:

With high IQ, comes the ability to make everyone laugh especially without stating anything vulgar. It's a huge thing when it comes to making the situations lighter and make everyone feel comfortable around you.

4. Being a virgin:

To all those people who doubt that being a virgin is turn off. Its not. For me, having all those qualities and still not hitting on girls, nor flirting with them AND still staying a virgin is a huge accomplishment for me. It makes me feel proud to think how much control I have in myself.

5. Waiting for the right one to come:

With all those disastrous relationships that I have seen which blow out to shit, I still believe that there is a true love for me that exists. You may say it's only about experience and what you see throughout your life. But me too, I have experienced bad things and trainwrecks and I do mean I have seen them. Still, I make myself an exception, hope you make yourselves too.

6. Being in the best shape I always wanted:

I am close to slim, have biceps and triceps and 8 abs blah blah blah. It is just that it make me feels good and don't keep showing them off. Being a hulk isn't a thing for me. Yeah I am hardworking but getting too much is just too much for me.

7. Being absolutely pure:

For the girl who may come into my life and ask me about my past experience with girls, I will openly tell it to her that I have never touched a girl on purpose and yeah I am proud of it. I am all there for you.

8. Being kind to everyone:

This is the thing I consider that everyone should have. It is due to this quality that I suffer from loneliness, no one believes me I am that good. They just judge me from my face and other attributes: an arrogant jerk possibly. But I have learned to stop giving a damn.

9. No drinking/smoking/

weeding:

With all those frustrations I had, I never relied on these things to cure them. I lived upto them and dealt with them without letting myself down for a second. This too makes me feel proud.

Having said that, I still suffer from anxiety and loneliness. I never flaunt off my accomplishments in front of everyone. But still people, they need a release. This take is just to make you all aware that guys like me DO exist. It just that we don't like to show off.

And an advice to those girls who get impressed by the lies or fake or small accomplishments of wannabes/players, please try to dig deeper. You'll know what everyone is like.

My past experience, no matter how hard I tried it to be good, still has impacts on me.

Thank you for reading it.

Thrashing the Idea of 'Perfect Guys Don't Exist'
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