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Most men who complain about not being able to express emotions are not actually men who feel emotions fast, but they are men that have decades of frustrations built up inside of them and if they want to speak about it they are sneered at by angry women. A bad guy would never want a bad woman, they are to belligerent and sassy for him. Women often mistakenly assume a bad guy will 'handle' them, no they won't. They only want feminine women.
As it says in "Are Women the Stronger Sex", free from obooko, bad guys are very good at covering up who they really are. By the time we realize they're not good for us, we've already fallen in love with them. And guys know this - that's why they go out of their way to pretend to be a great guy, saying and doing all the right things. If they showed their true colors straight away, we wouldn't have anything to do with them.
That's why it is so important for women to take things slowly in relationships. Even if we've fallen in love with the guy, hold off on kissing him, having sex with him, etc. Take the time to get to know him first - who he really is. It's like putting him on probation. Many women didn't and wish they had.
I always assumed it was a combination of the thrill, the unpredictability and the stereotype of "I can change him". It's never bothered me, I have never been to care about that stuff, but I still assumed there had to be a reason.
Actually I think it’s mostly just physical attraction.
Good take overall, I agree, I just gotta say that out of those bad boy traits you listed in the beginning, by far the most important ones are confidence and dominance. I have all the other traits except those two, yet no woman in the world is attracted to me. While I know plenty of junkies and losers who have nothing except those two, and women are crazy about them.
These aren’t “bad” guys. These are just guys who do what they want to. Bad guys are people who do bad things like cheating, stealing, harming (possibly raping) people etc.
Also if you want to see more of these guys maybe you should speak out against feminism. They are primarily responsible for the rise of passive pleasing “nice” guys because they teach boys at a young age that masculinity is evil.
You can’t have your cake and eat it too.
That's why I put it in between ''. They aren't. They're given an immature label because they share traits with those who are actually bad as in evil. Intelligence and environment is what separates the two.
You're right. I don't support feminism at all if you thought I do.
Well lots of delusional women scream about “women’s rights” but at the same time want a “bad boy”.
Also let’s get away from the “bad” quote. Really just don’t use it fucking period. Most guys start out on the fence in their youth. There is so much confusion and mixed messages.
I’ll give you a good example. UFC legend George’s st Pierre. He’s a stereotypical nice guy. Nicest guy in the world if you met him person (I have). He doesn’t break the rules but he fights hard within the rules. He doesn’t trash talk and put people down. But he was a complete badass in the cage. He was who I looked up to when I used to fight. I wanted to be just like him.
But if girls didn’t know he was a fighter they would likely dismiss him for being a “nice guy”. Most of you are too shallow, stupid and impressionable to not see the deeper qualities of lots of these guys.
You started amazing, but ended up with nonsense.
There's nothing wrong with feminism. It's the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of the equality of the sexes. That's a positive thing. Feminists don't teach boys that masculinity is evil. Nice men are comfortable with their masculinity and don't need to prove anything to anyone - they don't need to go around acting "macho" and bullying others to try to prove they're "strong" and tough. Real Men are masculine and strong and nice. (It is possible to have the best of both worlds.) 😊 The problem is, there are too many judgmental d*cks in the world and not enough Real Men.
@ConnieS there is nothing wrong with a movement that tells you are equal but still “special” huh? I could go down the rabbit hole on this. But feminism by definition is supposed to be about equality. But in reality it’s about hate, victimhood and superiority over men.
Everything comes down to this. Guys look around to see who is getting laid and who isn’t. We see who is getting good relationships and who isn’t. We see who girls chase after and who they don’t.
Talk is cheap. The successful guys usually do NOT act in a way women “say” they want.
I didn't think it was possible to lose any more respect for women than this my take. Any excuse to not take responsibility for your own actions. When the "bad guy" leaves a single mom or with multiple broken bones the good guys are supposed to set all kinds of laws in place to keep you protected. Fuck women. I hope they lose more rights than just abortion.
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They break rules, live on the edge and are different and not the same like every other guy which makes them seem appealing to girls, because some wanna try something new
Because they keep falling to sleep before the end so they never make it to the climax and crisis, they don't get to see the bad shit the guy does in the third act.
Bad guys are sterotypical tough and manly... who wouldn't want big arm to be protected from?
Because, too often, those "big arms" are used in abusing the woman in a moment of anger. They're called "bad guys" for a reason. Often, men who are confident are referred to as bad boys but bad guys often end up treating the people around them in a bad way. Personally, I don't think they're worth the grief.
@ConnieS It sad that you just assume abused. i am way too old to not know the difference.
I don't worry about what some other guy is doing, whether he is good or bad. I worry about me.
out of everything you wrote you forgot to add one thing and that is...
"they are desired because being with one will always give lots of things to brag about and make all my other girlfriends and my exes jealous"
Sure but they complain and go do the nice guys afterwards because he's being a jerk. I'm talking about real nice guys like gentlemen. I would say they would attract them but not for long. I mean they only attract bad girls tho and I'm not a fan of them.
When I hear bad guy I think about Darth Vader, Jigsaw or the Terminator
Its too much shit to read honestly
I can say the same about girls that dont give a fuck , they have the same mindset
Most guys like girls like that
I would tend to equate "bad" with the result of what he does, not with his being as a human.
I am a sucker for gentlemen
More intelligent men (among all the men who actually married) are more likely to value monogamy and sexual exclusivity than less intelligent men.
Because they are exciting to most girls and lots of girls think they can change them.
Well that’s easy... it keeps women guessing and always having to kinda work at something
Feels of higher purpose... it’s all in the head really