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Real Masculinity: What Makes A Man A Man, And How It's NOT Toxic (Page 4)
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What even is an alpha male?
i only know winners and losers and everything in between.
Holy fuck. This is the epitome of Too Long, Didn't Read.
All that talk about snapping bones made me queasy.
Lol it's just a phrase :)
Oh okay then. But I hope you realize that your idealized real man is an aspirational figure who doesn't exist in RL.
Actually, he does. Men like this are rare, but they do exist. I've personally been turned down by some, dated some, and actually am engaged to one.
Cool, I'm happy for ya.
Just be decent, kind and considerate.
Those are absolutely important, and for women too :)
R u a relationship coach or expert? Cuz u should be 😂
The alpha/beta bullshit is exaggerated. Just be a normal human.
I think any man that’s defensive can confidently consider himself a boy. Toxicity starts when he has had issues with his parents growing up. The same toxicity that is found in women too who have had a traumatising childhood.
It's another reminder of what that's sad for many years now or more, sounds like becoming a man is a process but not the other way around
I actually do like this
Thanks
Be yourself. Love & appreciate everyone.
Basically. But that’s too complicated for a lot of guys on here to understand apparently
@Yads_Is_Back
There are going to be disagreements. No two people agree on everything.
thats why i like to feel, that becoming a man is a process, but not the other way around.
Guess I'm not a real man...
@ShadowofRegret
What she wrote were subjective opinions. Don't let it define you. Don't let it depress you.
I was being sarcastic, truth to be told, it doesn't bother me in the least.
I appreciate the concern though!
@ShadowofRegret
I'm glad you were being sarcastic. A lot of guys get hung up on this crap and sink into a deep depression which may lead to suicide.
@joeblow123
Thanks! Yeah, I was mostly trying to make a point, it just seems ridiculous saying a man has to be this or that to be a "real man", in my eyes, what makes one a real man is having the right parts, and I feel a lot of women are kind of overdoing it with the whole "you have to fit my exact type to be a real man" thing.
But it seems I was a little too subtle with my sarcasm.
I totally agree with you.
A real man Looks after his kids
Nice mytake.
Thanks :)
Your welcome
didn't read
I know lol
lulz
ok so how would you explain the "bad boys" thing
Why fall for the bad guy? ↗
Read my comment on that. I basically explained the answer to your question
@alex Because the bad boys are just bad boys negatively in your eyes.. in a girl's eyes he's the honest dude who really doesn't give a fuck and has his shit together emotionally and in life who still is a good man to her
@jaybee281
What is a "bad boy" ? Are "bad boys" born or made? A "bad boy" is the former nice guy that got tired of being kicked in the nads on a regular basis by women to the point where he just said "fuck it, I don't give a rat's ass anymore".
I honestly don't know some are born some are made i guess a lot of us have problems being the most badass version of ourselves due to getting hurt or insulted or anything that made us feel insecure and also what media and girls say about being nice which both are wrong most of the times.. In my own experience i believe that i always was a bad boy all i needed was to get it out and understand it and true it was because i got rejected by a girl i feel i gave her too much care for nothing and as soon as i took a decision to not give a shit i became like that and it first started as in a guy that only wanted to fuck now I'm starting to have feelings for someone so things are changing hope for the better i want that balance
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One of the comedy greats. Brother Bill Burr. He has some awesome videos.
Concerning your screen name: are you a Frank Sinatra fan?
Agreed.
He’s devotion for you