What comes as next after narcissistic thinking that I'm am the prize? Fake eyelashes, makeup and lipstick? This isn't masculinity in my opinion. With self-glorification you will attract some specific type of women, but I assure you the right one will run away.
That is correct. However my positive self-view, self-worth, and self-understanding stands on its own. It does not require, depend on, or have anything to do with the approval, acceptance or association of women.
Surely the real prize in a relationship is a win-win for emotional security, personal growth and shared understanding? Everything else slots into place around those. Hierarchy of needs is a useful model, basic needs or otherwise
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In the past, men and women were both "the prize", but for different reasons; men for their utility, being a provider, protector and a father, and women for being a mother, nurturing, homemaking, cooking, and of course their sexuality.
Today, most women have given up the majority of their value to men. Most cannot cook, they hire out the job of raising and nurturing their children to daycare workers, etc. Sex has become the primary value women offer men.
So now, much to the frustration of both sexes, women are only the prize in a sexual sense.
Alright! Finallly someone gets it. I am da PRIZE. I am da MAN. So Ladies c'mon and step over here and claim your prize! 😁 ... Anyone else not buying this crap?
Yeah @jaybee281 just started attacking me unprovoked with what at first made no sense and eventually progressed into calling me gay. Thats how you know they can't argue something logically and intellectually... i pity him^^^
I think relationships are a give and take, and that both parties should feel loved and cared for.
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I have a high paying job and I invest and save wisely. So I don’t need a machismo, narcissist man. If anything, he’d be wanting my wealth if there were divorce.
I manage my own finances and buy my own car. I can pay for a landscaper. If I want to b**** to someone, I go to a counselor.
I have a boyfriend, but I’d still be a full, self-sustaining human being without him. He isn’t a trophy on a pedestal, he’s an equal human being.
Bro. You took something valuable from around Red Pillers and MGTOWers and fucked it up. Yah, men often are the prize. But then, why should we have to ask anyone out? Or even bother with women at all? Shouldn't they be after us then? This seems to have romanticized the living shit out of a quote meant to be about independence. I think maybe lay off the Disney films and rom coms mmk? I know quarantine can be boring, but there are alternatives, ya know. :)
Rule #1: Make yourself the catch Rule #2: respect your body Rule #3: know your limits then exceed them. If you're a 4 shoot for a six. Rule #5: There is no number 4
No one is the 'prize'. That kind of thinking is how love turns to obsession. Either you love each other or you don't. You get on well or you don't. Period.
Of course, men shouldn't let themselves be taken for granted or mistreated and if you are dealing with that leave her ass, but god I'd hate to be in a relationship with someone who thought like you.
Your post is pretty good. I always had to make the "first move" with a guy I used to like. But when I finally got over him he still wanted the attention. That's what made me forget about him.
Yes. I'm never providing for any women. I'm on my own grind with my investments. I laugh when a woman realizes that I'm not those simps that will be chivalrous, pick up their tab, bill, buy them their drinks, or waste gas driving them everywhere. I don't have time for that bs lol
Only to someone who adds a lower value than I do and that sort of relationship doesn't really make sense for me. But it's probably alright to have have different standards or expectations, i guess.
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What comes as next after narcissistic thinking that I'm am the prize? Fake eyelashes, makeup and lipstick?
This isn't masculinity in my opinion. With self-glorification you will attract some specific type of women, but I assure you the right one will run away.
That is correct. However my positive self-view, self-worth, and self-understanding stands on its own. It does not require, depend on, or have anything to do with the approval, acceptance or association of women.
Surely the real prize in a relationship is a win-win for emotional security, personal growth and shared understanding? Everything else slots into place around those. Hierarchy of needs is a useful model, basic needs or otherwise
In the past, men and women were both "the prize", but for different reasons; men for their utility, being a provider, protector and a father, and women for being a mother, nurturing, homemaking, cooking, and of course their sexuality.
Today, most women have given up the majority of their value to men. Most cannot cook, they hire out the job of raising and nurturing their children to daycare workers, etc. Sex has become the primary value women offer men.
So now, much to the frustration of both sexes, women are only the prize in a sexual sense.
Then you are looking for wrong women. Go date traditional women. I want my partner to cook and nurture the kids
@hi_it_is_me123 I do only date traditional women. Problem is there are just very few of them available.
I also want a non traditional man
@hi_it_is_me123 Good for you, since what you are describing is indeed a non-traditional man.
Alright! Finallly someone gets it. I am da PRIZE. I am da MAN. So Ladies c'mon and step over here and claim your prize! 😁 ... Anyone else not buying this crap?
It’s crap
@GISELLEFLOWER 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!
When you're told men are the prize but the only prize you get is unsolicited pics of their dong 🙃
Lmfao. Or you get millennial men who for some reason try to advocate men's rights because they've never been im a meaningful relationship
I agree with some men's right stuff but the community as a whole is cringe.
Yeah. I was just attacked without personally calling anyone out. This fucking way of acting out like a child needs to stop
Yeah @jaybee281 just started attacking me unprovoked with what at first made no sense and eventually progressed into calling me gay. Thats how you know they can't argue something logically and intellectually... i pity him^^^
Lol, first time?
No. It happens way too often to me. I just wanted to put his punk ass on blast
You just get used to it overtime and don't give a fuck anymore.
Yea i can't see anything he types but i think its funny that he's still trying. Saw the notification. Lmfao
Wow how does that happen
well duh because you didn't EARN the prize yet silly!
What
the prize
Dude you're aware this is only a little joke right? I don't see my s. o. as a 'prize', I'm not into that concept of seeing anybody that way.
dude you realize I was also joking in response right LOL
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@Ratmuffin men's rights isn't really about men's rights, it's more about rolling back women's rights so that they are equal to men's rights.
I think relationships are a give and take, and that both parties should feel loved and cared for.
I have a high paying job and I invest and save wisely. So I don’t need a machismo, narcissist man. If anything, he’d be wanting my wealth if there were divorce.
I manage my own finances and buy my own car. I can pay for a landscaper. If I want to b**** to someone, I go to a counselor.
I have a boyfriend, but I’d still be a full, self-sustaining human being without him. He isn’t a trophy on a pedestal, he’s an equal human being.
I love all these anecdotal accounts as if they are the norm.. Lol..
How is a man the prize if he can't get a woman to be with him?
That’s men nowadays trying to be women. Why don’t they just date men then. Ffs
@GISELLEFLOWER Or more like the left and Feminists trying to make men into women and women are becoming more like men...
So you don't want a relationship, you want a fan, lmao!
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Bro. You took something valuable from around Red Pillers and MGTOWers and fucked it up. Yah, men often are the prize. But then, why should we have to ask anyone out? Or even bother with women at all? Shouldn't they be after us then? This seems to have romanticized the living shit out of a quote meant to be about independence. I think maybe lay off the Disney films and rom coms mmk? I know quarantine can be boring, but there are alternatives, ya know. :)
Rule #1: Make yourself the catch
Rule #2: respect your body
Rule #3: know your limits then exceed them. If you're a 4 shoot for a six.
Rule #5: There is no number 4
You are watching too much YouTube videos about the man is the prize foolishness.
Look, women are the prize not men and especially not for the silly reasons you gave.
A good woman is the prize and the man that finds a wife (good wife) gains favor from the lord according to the Bible not the other way around.
And no you don't put any women on a pedestal. Only God is worthy of worship and great honor.
No one is the 'prize'. That kind of thinking is how love turns to obsession. Either you love each other or you don't. You get on well or you don't. Period.
Of course, men shouldn't let themselves be taken for granted or mistreated and if you are dealing with that leave her ass, but god I'd hate to be in a relationship with someone who thought like you.
That's bullshit. People aren't prizes to be won. I don't look at other men as prizes I need to earn.
Women put themselves in a position where they're desired sexually, but not in any other way. So as soon as they're not sexy they lose their value.
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Your post is pretty good. I always had to make the "first move" with a guy I used to like. But when I finally got over him he still wanted the attention. That's what made me forget about him.
Yes. I'm never providing for any women. I'm on my own grind with my investments. I laugh when a woman realizes that I'm not those simps that will be chivalrous, pick up their tab, bill, buy them their drinks, or waste gas driving them everywhere. I don't have time for that bs lol
Only to someone who adds a lower value than I do and that sort of relationship doesn't really make sense for me. But it's probably alright to have have different standards or expectations, i guess.