All of the above are indeed things guys say to get in a woman’s pants. That said, a guy who is genuinely interested and very excited about the prospect of a relationship with her will also say those very things much of the time. And even guys interested in a long term relationship want sex.
It’s also often the case that the guy just looking for sex won’t even go to the trouble of making much of an effort to even flatter or woo her.
1. "You are Soo hot/cute." 2. "I'm not like the other girls + you are not like the other guys." 3. Literal "sweet nothings" like "I fell in love you the first time I saw you!", "We are made for each other." And more cringy cheesy stuff. 4. I get your 4th, compliment on qualities you don't have, for me it's "you are so masculine!" "You have such a great fashion taste." 5. Yeah, same sweet nothings I told on three. But I'd add quickly dismissive of any incompatibility.
Two and three are legit BS lines, the others can be genuine. Points 1 and 5 especially stick out as what gets you turned onto someone else in the first place. I don't know about other guys, but you generally pick up on whether a woman is beautiful and feels good to be around pretty swiftly.
As far as intelligence, there are a lot of circumstances where you could notice that swiftly. Granted none of them are from Tinder or a bar/club though.
Men of honest intentions say these same things. I say endeavor not to bed anyone until you know you like them, this goes for everyone. there are always going to be fuckwits.
my favorite thing i hear guys say. “i’ll get blue balls” biggest bullshit line ever. he can always wank it , to prevent it, if it was a real thing, and it’s not... If he says this, getting inside your pants is his only goal.
Second, you are just eliminating many of the convenient ways to start conversation. How would you expect a guy to speak to you if he wasn't trying to get into your pants? I genuinely want to hear your response.
@Diaforos22 In other words, there are many guys in your friendzone. Is there even a way someone that wanted to be your potential partner could approach you? And is it wrong for them to attempt this?
Nice Mytake and i totally agree with all the points you have mentioned, guys who manipulate girls for sex have poor upbringing according to me and some take it seriously the above points and it sometimes affect their mental health which is worse
The craziest one I ever heard, was when a guy said to this really good looking girl, something along the lines of... your so smart, good looking and intelligent and you have a great personality and body. Your body is too beautiful to be covered by clothing, you should share it with the world. Mankind would thank you for this, you should be on display in a museum or something like that.
I'm sure I got some phrasing wrong but I personally thought he was crazy.
Wow its like you went inside all of our minds and penises. Yep you speak from experience. Guys have to say that to get her into bed. It's like a horny survival tactic lol.
If we were to be more upfront would there be woman who would still want a hook up? In my experience that has only happened to me once. I think that's a rare thing and that's why men feel the need to lie just so we can get her in bed.
Sadly it sounds like normal things any guy would say to a girl... It's sad it has to come down to not bringing up any form of compliments while on a date😞
Thanks for sharing this. I dont say what I dont mean. I dont say things to get laid either. Im no loser I am who I am. Say whats on my heart. I love to flirt and compliment women. Yes Women are Beautiful but not all of them are good human beings. I believe everyone has something to offer in this world. But not everyone uses their potential. Not everyone has a kind heart or soul.
Wowgirl does rock... Yes I did read the whole thing and for the most part agree with you. But just a not all girls fit into any one category neither do all men. I do give girls compliments but not to get into their pants but when they deserve them. Maybe because I would rather a long term relationship than a one night stand.
Butter her up and watch her melt... you got it. But all these things are both genuine and fake. A man who actually thinks these things about you would say them as well as a faker. Thats why the faker copies it. I've literally heard girls say if he says this stuff to run because he just wants sex... smh at that stupidity.
Right!! Im not kidding. When i was growing up i heard guys i was associated with use that so damn often.. Its why i refused to say those words unless i meant it.
Men are only reacting to reward and punishment. If women really wanted men to be truthful, they would reward them for telling the truth. Instead, women do the opposite. That is if a man lies and says, "You are beautiful" and other nice things, she may reward him with sex. However, if he tells the truth by saying, "You are okay for sex when I'm horny, but you are too fat for a relationship," the woman will punish him by denying sex.
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All of the above are indeed things guys say to get in a woman’s pants. That said, a guy who is genuinely interested and very excited about the prospect of a relationship with her will also say those very things much of the time. And even guys interested in a long term relationship want sex.
It’s also often the case that the guy just looking for sex won’t even go to the trouble of making much of an effort to even flatter or woo her.
I've heard variations of all by chicks.
1. "You are Soo hot/cute."
2. "I'm not like the other girls + you are not like the other guys."
3. Literal "sweet nothings" like "I fell in love you the first time I saw you!", "We are made for each other." And more cringy cheesy stuff.
4. I get your 4th, compliment on qualities you don't have, for me it's "you are so masculine!" "You have such a great fashion taste."
5. Yeah, same sweet nothings I told on three. But I'd add quickly dismissive of any incompatibility.
Two and three are legit BS lines, the others can be genuine. Points 1 and 5 especially stick out as what gets you turned onto someone else in the first place. I don't know about other guys, but you generally pick up on whether a woman is beautiful and feels good to be around pretty swiftly.
As far as intelligence, there are a lot of circumstances where you could notice that swiftly. Granted none of them are from Tinder or a bar/club though.
What more could one add @WowwGirl you're absolutely spot on as usual! ❤
Thank you pretty
@WowwGirl You're so very welcome as always darling. xxx
Xxx.
Lol this is gold. Compliments on intelligence while obviously thinking we're stupid enough to not see what it really is. Gotta love it!
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Men of honest intentions say these same things. I say endeavor not to bed anyone until you know you like them, this goes for everyone. there are always going to be fuckwits.
my favorite thing i hear guys say. “i’ll get blue balls” biggest bullshit line ever. he can always wank it , to prevent it, if it was a real thing, and it’s not... If he says this, getting inside your pants is his only goal.
First of all, #WowgirldoesnotRock.
Second, you are just eliminating many of the convenient ways to start conversation. How would you expect a guy to speak to you if he wasn't trying to get into your pants? I genuinely want to hear your response.
In the Midwest we talk to everyone
You didn't answer my question.
How would you expect a guy to speak if he was NOT trying to have sex but had other reasons to be interested in you?
@Diaforos22 In other words, there are many guys in your friendzone. Is there even a way someone that wanted to be your potential partner could approach you? And is it wrong for them to attempt this?
Why would I reply to a guy like you. ? But thanks
#wowgirlRocks ask google 😂
Nice Mytake and i totally agree with all the points you have mentioned, guys who manipulate girls for sex have poor upbringing according to me and some take it seriously the above points and it sometimes affect their mental health which is worse
Thank you
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The craziest one I ever heard, was when a guy said to this really good looking girl, something along the lines of... your so smart, good looking and intelligent and you have a great personality and body. Your body is too beautiful to be covered by clothing, you should share it with the world. Mankind would thank you for this, you should be on display in a museum or something like that.
I'm sure I got some phrasing wrong but I personally thought he was crazy.
Wow its like you went inside all of our minds and penises. Yep you speak from experience. Guys have to say that to get her into bed. It's like a horny survival tactic lol.
Thank you for that and I do speak from experience
If we were to be more upfront would there be woman who would still want a hook up? In my experience that has only happened to me once. I think that's a rare thing and that's why men feel the need to lie just so we can get her in bed.
I think yes some would
"Didn't I just see a giant spider crawl into your pants?"
Now thats what a real man says... we dnt gat the time to lie about your beauty or make false future. plans 🤪
I hope not
You prefer someone lie to you just to get in your pants or you want someone real
Sadly it sounds like normal things any guy would say to a girl... It's sad it has to come down to not bringing up any form of compliments while on a date😞
Thanks for sharing this. I dont say what I dont mean. I dont say things to get laid either. Im no loser I am who I am. Say whats on my heart. I love to flirt and compliment women.
Yes Women are Beautiful but not all of them are good human beings. I believe everyone has something to offer in this world. But not everyone uses their potential. Not everyone has a kind heart or soul.
Wowgirl does rock... Yes I did read the whole thing and for the most part agree with you. But just a not all girls fit into any one category neither do all men. I do give girls compliments but not to get into their pants but when they deserve them. Maybe because I would rather a long term relationship than a one night stand.
Thank you dear
Butter her up and watch her melt... you got it. But all these things are both genuine and fake. A man who actually thinks these things about you would say them as well as a faker. Thats why the faker copies it. I've literally heard girls say if he says this stuff to run because he just wants sex... smh at that stupidity.
Finally we agree. Men butter up too sir. Trust me
But you dont need to butter men up for sex if you're cute.
You're right I don't 🔥
Have you ever gotten, “I’m dying... And this is the last time I’ll be able to,...”
Not yet 🙂
Well guess what? I’m dying... And,...
JK
Lol🌺
Glad you have a sense of humor. 😁
Course
You forgot one... "I love you" Some guys throw that one around too.
I have dozens I just wrote five but thank you that's a good one
Right!! Im not kidding. When i was growing up i heard guys i was associated with use that so damn often.. Its why i refused to say those words unless i meant it.
Men are only reacting to reward and punishment. If women really wanted men to be truthful, they would reward them for telling the truth. Instead, women do the opposite. That is if a man lies and says, "You are beautiful" and other nice things, she may reward him with sex. However, if he tells the truth by saying, "You are okay for sex when I'm horny, but you are too fat for a relationship," the woman will punish him by denying sex.
Very true. But I am usually more straight forward. Even if I want to just bang her. Lol. Because a lot of girls can see through complements. Lol
I see you lol
Lol.
If a guy asks anything more than "whats the time please" he's looking to bone you.
@purplepoppy to be fair, that’s my chat up line.