Guys: Can very wide hips make a girl look fat and become a turn off rather than a turn on?

[Willow4]

I know men like big boobs, small waist and wide hips but can hips look too wide and just end up making you look big?

I hate how my hips are in proportion to my size and I end up feeling chunky and big because of it. It doesn't help with my short stature considering I stand at 5'1. I can't seem to lose any weight around that area so I'm stuck with it. The only help is that I have a C cup otherwise I really would just look completely out of shape.

Can having hips that are pretty wide end up being a turn off? :/

[Barnesy]

That's you in the picture is it?

You know, I am always amazed at how women view their own bodies. When you described your body I was picturing massively broad hips, but you are simply a normal woman. You do not look "out of shape".

Your body is beautiful.

But what's more important is what's in your mind and your heart...

[Willow4]

Yes it's me and thank you so much for your kind words :)

I'm very insecure and I know I need to try to work on that, it's always holding me back lol :)

[kheserthorpe]

Your hips are a plus factor in your appearance.

[Willow4]

Thank you :) perhaps it's my insecurities that are more unattractive :/

[kheserthorpe]

Confidence in women doesn't have the same impact as it does on men. When a man is insecure, women seem to find it unattractive. Men tend NOT to think the same way, so... don't feel insecure ABOUT being insecure. Guys tend to find it charming.

However, insecurity can still be a BARRIER to you. That's different. If you are hiding your body, avoiding giving any indication you're interested, or holding back out of insecurity, then those can be an issue. But as long as you put yourself out there, you can look shy doing it, and guys will like it.

[Willow4]

You described me down to a T in your second paragraph lol I'm always covering up and hiding myself. You're so right in what you said, once insecurities start holding you back and jeopardizing relationships then it's a problem.

[kheserthorpe]

Well for men, it's worse then that, not only do you have to put yourself out there, you have to act confident while doing so. So you'll get no sympathy from us young lady, where you can put yourself out there like a nervous stumbling newborn fawn and have men come swooping in delightedly :p

In any case, perhaps tying this to your original question here - your hips are fucking hot, and showing off your hip/waist/thighs will generate more male attention. Perhaps more sexual then you want, but they are very attractive.

[Willow4]

Ok ok you get the sympathy vote :P although you're a good looking guy, you seem confident...I don't see you tripping at the first hurdle somehow ;)

*nervous stumbling newborn* <--quite literally with me!

Thank you so much for being kind :) I don't intend on showing off very much though lol if I can avoid attention like that then I will lol not that I can hide my hips very well!

[kheserthorpe]

Well, thank you. I haven't actually been single in a looong time. I wasn't the way I am now, when I was. I think it would be quite different for me if I were single again, compared to when I was young.

[Willow4]

The grass is always greener lol ;)

[Willow4]

Thank you! :)

[yeagmeister]

girl you look good!
men like a little curve on women...no one wants to grab a bony ass lol

[Willow4]

lol! Thank you so much :)

[melissa2]

For some men yes, but most no. You seem to be very curvy and guys love that.

[Willow4]

Thank you :) but it can be a fine line between looking too big I find, or at least in comparison to some other women I feel that way.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

No wide hips isn't a turn off you be surprise what guys see of a girl turns him on least for me it does it

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

No matter what all guys like something to grab, hold on to , we like some ass and some tits pull close to us lol

[Willow4]

There could be too much to hold onto though! lol

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

No, you just don't drive our mind crazy Lol awww XD

[ledfoot64]

some girl are big boned I went with a girl like that years ago and I loved her hips makes a lot better to hold when she was on top riding me like a horse

[genericname85]

i thought it was a well known fact, that men do usually like wide hips? fat makes you look too big, not wide hips.

[Willow4]

But can they give the illusion that you're big with a short torso? Perhaps I'm over thinking because I'm so self conscious of them.

[genericname85]

no, they don´t. there are a lot of other indicators of being "fat" ;) wide hips are just wide hips. believe me, we can distinguish when we check out girls ;)

[Willow4]

lol should I not underestimate men's fat detecting ability? ;)

[binny91]

wide hips>small hips for girls

It more curvy and lady like

[Anonymous]

If that's you in the picture, then you're worrying about nothing, you look good.

[Willow4]

Thank you very much :)

[Blondiee2014]

No that's kinda hot I think.

[Willow4]

Thank you! :)

[Blondiee2014]

I have wide hips as well, if you did want to lose them they are actually the hardest body part to shrink :p
I wouldn't worry though it's fine on girls.

[Willow4]

I know I feel like just getting a hack saw and getting rid of them! lol

Hips on guys are nice cos it usually means nice butts lol :)

[Blondiee2014]

Nah my butt sucks :)))

[Blondiee2014]

Omg I didn't realize you had a actual picture of you with your hips showing,, yea they're actually really sexy don't worry about it sweety seriously they're lovely:p

[Willow4]

Thank you very much :) I can't do much about them, I need to learn to just deal with it lol

[Blondiee2014]

Yup:)
U don't want to do anything about them anyway they're nice.

[WonderingManII]

I love wide hips. <3

[Anonymous]

not wider than my tv