Is it weird to have never had a boyfriend at 21? (Page 2)

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So ya I've never had a boyfriend, I worked as a model in my teens as to save enough money for college. So I never had time for a boyfriend, nor was I interested, nor had I any offer realy.
 And actually being in college I went on a lot of dates the past few years, tried online dating too but I just didn't find anyone I like. The ones i did like, didn't like me, so ok.

And now I have to get work placement next year, which is important and I've been working on building some muscle in the gym, and not be "just thin" anymore and I don't really feel like dating at the moment. I guess if I would just have a boyfriend I'd be happy but that's not how it works, so I want to focus on myself for a while. Is that weird?

I'm afraid it is, because I'll be 22 next year and when then hopefully find someone I love and vice versa I'm afraid he'll thin it's weird that I'm that old and never been in a relationship?

nickstaa · Answer

Most people by 21 would have had a Partner, but it's not weird not to. Maybe 85- 15 % have had a gf/bf by that stage.

Belliebella · Answer

I would say no, I'm 19 and I have never had a boyfriend

rUinSAYAN · Answer

this is not wierd. you listed good reasons to not have one. better none then crap

Triple · Answer

I'm 18 and I still have never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy fml

kartoos · Answer

No it is not weird!! There are all sorts of people in the world nothing weird about it.

medical2523 · Answer

I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend but you sound like a sweet girl do you have a Facebook?

ihatethiswebsite · Answer

i personally would find that normal but I'm also 21 and never had a girlfriend. I've also never went on any dates whatsoever though

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 26 and have never had a boyfriend. Your life is not as pathetic as you think. Mine is.

BellendBob · Answer

You're like every guys dream, assuming you aren't banging guys whilst being single.

sublime93 · Answer

well im 20 and haven't had a girlfriend all year xP.. i just haven't found the right one i guess..

Anonymous · Answer

My cousin didn't date in high school, he's married. My dad didn't meet my mom until he was 28 and she was 29. Trust me, you're fine... it'll come

goldrush420 · Answer

A little bit butt its a good thing... makes you more desirable

Anonymous · Answer

i had my first girlfriend when i was 27, not bad and you got lots of time

mho5345 · Answer

No, it is not. Better to be with someone you like. Just be happy and enjoy your life and do not worry about this. You will find someone soon.

Anonymous · Answer

you are still a very young, it's common if know of other girls who didn't get a boyfriend until their mid to late 20's

Anonymous · Answer

No, it isn't weird. That's actually the right thing to do, waiting for the one<3 I salute you! :)

Klaatu51 · Answer

no i'm 23 and i never had a gf either

jesuisinclassable · Answer

trust me, it's slim pickins out there.

toutatis · Answer

It is good to be different. Herd mentality sucks.

harrison102 · Answer

i have never had a gf

Aidan · Answer

No, I wouldn't judge you for it.

infamousbps · Answer

Not at all, You Go girl. Live ur life :)

Longshloonng · Answer

Well at least u have never been hurt

yawheehee · Answer

I have never had too, let's meet :)

Anonymous · Answer

no.. I'm 23 almost 24 and never had a bf

ArabianPwincess197 · Answer

no its not weird

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't have a gf till I was 24

Anonymous · Answer

It's fine. No big deal.

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