Is it weird to have never had a boyfriend at 21? (Page 2)

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So ya I've never had a boyfriend, I worked as a model in my teens as to save enough money for college. So I never had time for a boyfriend, nor was I interested, nor had I any offer realy.
 And actually being in college I went on a lot of dates the past few years, tried online dating too but I just didn't find anyone I like. The ones i did like, didn't like me, so ok.

And now I have to get work placement next year, which is important and I've been working on building some muscle in the gym, and not be "just thin" anymore and I don't really feel like dating at the moment. I guess if I would just have a boyfriend I'd be happy but that's not how it works, so I want to focus on myself for a while. Is that weird?

I'm afraid it is, because I'll be 22 next year and when then hopefully find someone I love and vice versa I'm afraid he'll thin it's weird that I'm that old and never been in a relationship?

brainy21 · Answer

No. Its completely normal that u never had a boyfriend n ur 21, coz I'm 21 aswell n I've never had a boyfriend. Moreover or future guy would feel himself lucky that he is the only guy that ever became or boyfriend. Good luck :-)

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it is weird yet considering your reasons but typically that is weird to me because teens should date in high school or at least try. Entering college is the worst time to just start knowing what it is like to date most guys just wanna fuck in college high school too but relationships happen more and are fairly innocent then the random drunk hookups kids do these days in college.

sean1234 · Answer

HAH, call me in 11 years when your up to my single level. I'm at level 32, you're only at level 21. 8^P

Mysty211 · Answer

It's not weird I'm also 21 actually been doing the same thing except I haven't had any long term boyfriends just really short term no longer than a month or two. Also tried the online dating for a while same story. I've been focusing on myself in the gym trying to get abs too.
It's not a bad thing just focus on being happy focusing on yourself don't worry to much about finding a guy just go with the flow .

smalls1995 · Answer

If you don't want one right now, don't worry about it. The reason you're not in a relationship is because you don't want one and you're not in the right place for it yet. When you have time for one you'll be able to!

Ghost8729 · Answer

It's only weird if you're like me. I'm 23 and I've never had a girlfriend. Maybe it's because I didn't know anyone single. Maybe it's because I was looking for someone with core values the same as my own. Who knows?

noneoftheabove · Answer

Youve saved yourself from a lot of heartache. Its not a bad or weird thing at all. Fair play to you and it also means when you meet him thatll be you done for life.. just my opinion

orangeLotus · Answer

It is weird. .. in the BEST possible way. Don't worry at all. I'm sure most people will find it amazing. And mostly admire how hard you've worked to be successful.

kangy · Answer

nothing to feel weird about, there are other girls out there who are in same situation and these girls are attractive and are nice girls. it isn't easy to find someone whom u like and like u back, sometimes i believe in fate. or the timing.

Anonymous · Answer

Thank you. I thought I was weird for not having a bf at 16. Everyone in my family thought I should have one by now but since all these people who are older than me dont have one either I feel normal & less pressure.

njjuie · Answer

Damn feels. hahahahahaha. We are on the same boat :DD We'll just keep our fingers crossed! But in the mean time, let's enjoy the freedom of being single ;)

mnm4u922 · Answer

At first I thought it was weird that I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend, but honestly I don't think it's that big of a deal anymore. I'm super picky when it comes to guys and that's a good and bad thing. But if you think about it even at 21, you're in the prime of your life. Make the best of it and remember that you have your whole life to be with someone.

Strippeddown · Answer

im almostt up there and no offense but relief that i know someone on here with my same situation. not that im a model just feel happy with myself and dont really want a relationship yet:)

Dima92 · Answer

Mmm I had my 22 birthday last month and i have never been into real relationship.. which concerns me too..
but I don't find myself less than others in experience as my friends always say it's my advices that helps them out in most of problems they face with their mates..
so I found it brilliant ^_^ ..
My advice.. to enjoy every single minute of u being single.. he will come.. and never care about ur past..
with love.. Dima

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

If your description is accurate of yourself, you're probably hot, so a boyfriend will be no problem when you're ready.

ironeddie · Answer

No it's not weird. I had my first girlfriend at 23. The is no sense rushing into something "just because" You're young it'll happen. :-)

TheEnding · Answer

I would think it's probably a little rare, but not weird at all. Sounds like it's been working for you though. I envy that you don't feel like you need a boyfriend.

Ormazd · Answer

It's not as bad as u r saying it is & I'm sure You'll find the right man i say there's some one out there for every one

summerrose145 · Answer

NO... having a wrong boyfriend is better than not having one... focus on you and your career.. and let the right one come to you...

Seannn · Answer

Nothing wrong with that, guys will probaly love it, a 21 year old girls with 10 past relations whould be a lot worse :)

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