Did I miss out in my 20s if I never had a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I lived my 20s to the fullest travelling and getting my degree but I sat down last night feeling sad that I never had a guy that wanted anything more.

[jshm2]

Yes.

You're sitting on a pile of memories, but missed out the most crucial thing. Which is friends and a partner to share them with.

Suppose you're just going to have to be a spinster cat lady now.

[Anonymous]

If you had sex that's enough, there's plenty of time to settle down later.

[Asker]

Yeah had sex only had 2 friends with benefits guys but never had a guy into for anything more :(

[Opinion Owner]

That's ok just have as much sex as you want and when a good one comes along think about having him as your boyfriend.

[Asker]

I met a nice guy w few weeks didn't want to go on a date lol

[Asker]

A few weeks qgo**

[Opinion Owner]

He didn't want to go on a date with you?

[Asker]

Yeah I heard the usual "your attractive and nice but I don't see you anything more than a friend"

[Opinion Owner]

In that case ask your guy friends about it. They will know for sure.

[Asker]

They just say your attractive but not enough to be a girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

Ask them what particularly. Ask for their help to get to where a guy would want to be your boyfriend. Someone you trust to help.

[Asker]

I mean I've had guys years ago they confessed to me recently that they liked me why doesn't any guy ask me out

[Anonymous]

Probably. I was in a similar boat; now I am almost 40 and still no girlfriends.

[boggboss]

Thats upto you to decide to be honest