Do boys prefer girls that wear revealing clothing or modest clothing?

Question

Would you choose a girl that dresses slutty in public or modest?

unbothered · Accepted Answer

Hello! A Woman speaking here:) LOL Men tend to be visually stimulated creatures, which is why the whole "wandering eye" thing is a "thing" in the first place. With that being said, if you are dressing SOLELY for a man and not your own comfort then look at this way: Revealing clothing will draw attention to your body, not YOU and will make men think of sex with you... it will cause immediate attention and stimulation in them, whether it be temporary or not. Wearing regular or non-revealing clothing will make them wonder what you would look like in more revealing clothing, it leaves something to the imagination, which may in essence, make you seem like more of a mystery to be discovered. Think of it this way, would you buy a candy bar from a store that has already been unwrapped? LOL probably not... part of the joy is unwrapping it right? Just as we open gifts on Christmas... when the presents are wrapped we can't wait to open them! there's nothing wrong with slipping into a "Freakum Dress" every now and then but you must always be conscious of the reasons behind why you are wearing what you're wearing in the first place. You should dress in things that accentuate your best features, not just to impress a guy. Some guys may want you in something revealing while others may not but what do YOU think? what makes YOU feel good about you? thats most important. The greatest thing that you can ever wear is CONFIDENCE and that does not require a slutty dress. xoxo

Marylissette · Accepted Answer

All guys on here prefer modest ohh reveling clothes is for hoe yeah ok but u guys are more attract to hoes to date to hook up evrything don't be an ass hole on here how about summer time? So u guys will never date girls because they are showing off their breast , but , belly it really can't understand men I dress the way I want to I'm the only one I wake up to impress everyday not you not her not him but myself u like me ok u don't idgaf girls need to know how to be independent u wait 18 years or 21 to not be controlled by ur parents anymore so don't let any men to tell u what's wrong what's right We know better the. They do.

jasminB · Accepted Answer

What why! I seriously hate this question. Firstly why does it matter what a guy likes to see me in people should wear what they feel comfortable and good in, and that's the best look for everyone! That being said if I want to wear a turtle neck to a bar because I feel good in it I'm not a prude and I'm not innocent and if I want to wear short shorts and a cropped tank top I'm not a slut! Showing skin is completely up to you and generally a girl shouldn't seek validation and approval from guys for everything she does! Do your own thing feel comfortable in your own skin whether you show it or not and do it for you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A few prefer modest clothes and even fewer preferrevealing clothes but that's just more "advertised"
But most guys would prefer a girl dresses to show their best qualities and in doing so doesn't show their worst qualities
I know saying this is alittle unfair but its true, sorry
But really anything is fine as long as it isn't sweatpants and a sweatshirt everyday
So change it up
But guys like clothes like leggings or skinny jeans or crop tops or maybe even a kinda tight t shir (not too tight though)
Whatever you think looks good guys will like too
But make sure to show your best superficial qualities
But instead of modest or revealing clothes try some thing that would seem "cute"
What you would consider cute a guy would like
So basically I agree with
"Neither. I want a girl who knows how to dress for her best asset, then covers the rest" this guy
With a few tweaks

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Neither. I want a girl who knows how to dress for her best asset, then covers the rest

Theguyoverthere · Answer

As a guy I personally would find modest clothing preferred if I wanted to seriously date her. Revealing clothing would be great if I only wanted to hook up with her. So it really depends.

TheDevilInside · Answer

Guys on here would say "modest clothing". But in real life, girls that wear less clothes and show more body parts gets more attention and gets gawked ad and talked about more (by guys). And would get more compliments than girls who covers up.

Anonymous · Answer

reavealing clothing always has a immediate effect over more modest clothing but I myself am slow so I tend to notice faces after that and a pretty face has a stronger effect for me then a lack of clothing over the long-term at least. In the case of what your looking for wear revealing clothing if you want attention and men to come up to you, and modest clothing if not. In the case of modest clothing when a man comes up to you it's more likely by that point he's thinking about getting to know you more then about sex

submissivegirl · Answer

I wear low waist jeans or skirts. I dress for both my comfort and guys attention. I just don't get why everything has to be good vs bad and moral vs immoral. Besides it doesn't matter what we wear, guys always strip us in their minds and see what they want to see.

Thrifty · Answer

I prefer my girlfriend, wife, mother, or daughter to wear modest clothing. I prefer and expect girls who are strippers, models, actresses, or the latter to wear super revealing clothing.

Furthermore, girls you lust after you want them to take off their clothes, but girls that you love, you want to buy more clothes, like this mink, for them to put on.

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The paradox is that the better a man dresses, the more money he potentially makes; however, the less clothing a girl wears the more she makes.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

there is a way to wear non-revealing clothes and still be sexy
i love girls that know how to wear clothes, it shows elegance and class, i would never date a girl that wears revealing clothing again, usually they want attention and don't care where it comes from, and whether its positive or negative

xanderlane · Answer

Well, here's the thing: (and this is just for me)
I see a girl in passing, I like to see a lot of skin. It turns me on and I start thinking of nice things. But at that point I've lost all respect for that girl because the only thing I know about her at this point is that she likes attention. Which sounds really shallow, right?
If it's a girl that I know, I don't like to see it because I'm a particularly protective guy.
If it's a girl that I'm dating, I'll be really annoyed by it because then I know she's trying to get attention from other guys or girls that aren't me. Then I feel incompetent because, I mean, is my attention not enough for her. You know?

But again, that's just me.

dartmaul15 · Answer

KEEP THE CLOTHES ON!!! Dressing revealing will only attract guys looking to exploit you! Sure, it's attention, but not all attention is good. Keep that in mind.

2Spooky4U · Answer

I would never in my life date a girl who wore revealing clothing, you have no idea what it makes you look like. Stupid, insecure, attention seeking, desperate, lonely, stupid again.

And I'm only 19. I just can't respect someone who feels the need to reveal themselves like that.

familyguy5 · Answer

Most guys will like girls who dress more revealing because most guys like to look and check out women.
However if it is someone that they are interested in or are in a relationship modesty is what you will want because it shows that they have a sexy side but is mature enough to be modest. At least that's the kind of guy you would want to end up with anyways. Also dress you ascents your best feature to. So you can try and play with t abit see what suits you.

BigFoot6969 · Answer

I think a woman should dress to be comfortable with her self. Not someone else standards. If woman comfortable being casual dresses let it be. If she like being the more dress up type let it be. I like it more when a woman smell good and keeps her self up. It doesn't matter what she wears as long as she comfortable with her self.

WhoisJohnGalt · Answer

A loaded question. I'm 23, and have started to realize that while someone might be nice to look at, I just don't have the patience to deal with drama. And a girl that dresses in revealing clothing is going to get many people chasing her, and I'm just not into that whole chasing game. I'm more into courtship, and building relations with people.

Also, guy who dates a girl who dresses revealing is ALWAYS going to be protective, and afraid she will cheat. Trust issues aplenty

jebsb · Answer

A girl that dresses appropriate for the occasion and setting is best. There are times and places to dress fully modest. There are times and places to dress in revealing clothing. I like a girl who dresses modest when modesty is best and I like a girl who dresses slutty when dressing such a way can be acceptable. I would not really want a girl who dressed modest a hundred percent of the time and I would not want a girl who dresses in revealing clothes a hundred percent of the time.

Walhart · Answer

Nothing beats a classy and elegant woman. A girl with revealing clothing might catch my attention, but only for a 1 second. I think that during that second she entertains my neanderthal subconscious. In the next second, my modern age man personality kicks in and demises her. Femininity is in the way a woman carries herself. Not in bare skin.

Crazyced · Answer

The Devils in the details. No one would like an extra large hoody with jeans that would make a rapper jealous. But women that have a feel for this manage to cover themselves decency while accentuating their curves and feminity, without being half naked.

Also the tendency nowadays is the wear cloths that covers everything but are skin tight. Those also don't leave much to the imagination. I'd lie if I said I didn't like it though.

DodgersGM · Answer

I like a girl who is more modest in public, more revealing in private.

Anonymous · Answer

It all depends on the occasion and the girl, and how she pulls it off. I've seen a girl wear some fairly revealing clothing but in a tasteful manner that I just find it really sexy and cute rather than slutty. Of course that was for a more "night out" occasion and not that formal. I also saw her wear a properly covered outfit for a more formal occasion. And when it was just a casual trip out she wore simple shirt and jeans.

latina28 · Answer

With all due respect, I honestly don't care what guys prefer. I like modesty and I will remain modest. If I need to show men more than they need to see to gain their attention, they're not worth my time. It's very simple. :)

Anonymous · Answer

This question hints at a false dichotomy prevalent in our culture: That it's either one extreme or the other, revealing or modest. The ideal is a woman who knows how to dress sexy and embrace her femininity and sexuality, but without looking like a street girl.

slsmith0 · Answer

I like to want to wonder a little bit about what a girl has to offer me. But since I'm married now a get to look but not touch and that is fine by me. I don't need to see boobs sticking out to know you have them. But also don't hide your figure behind baggy cloths ether.

Anonymous · Answer

what a crock of shit i think people might have answered modest because they see you are under 18 and think of you as a young girl or even as their daughters but in all honesty boys like women who show more and every boy at your school if given twins one dressed modestly and one dressed in booty shorts he will choose the booty shorts no doubt.

Somehockeykid · Answer

I'd choose a girl that wears modest clothing because that tells me she has respect for herself and isn't just being a slut looking for her next victim ;) lol

TheGoodTheBadTheHOT · Answer

Personally i prefer a mix of the two, 'classy' if you will. Relatively tight fitting clothes that show off the figure to an extent but they dont show off the skin, i think thats quite an important societal barrier between stages.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, the butt/thigh/leg/body proportions are important these days as a proper shape indicates that the girl is physically active, not only starving herself and spends the day seated down or in bed. Therefore, some guys will think overly covered girls are trying to hide something.

Hades77 · Answer

I hate it when girls goes "all out" to make herself noticeable. They fine already, and they look great. I always tell then that. But I really don't care, just clothes covering the right parts of your body, you know?

RandomStudent · Answer

It depends, if I'm just checking out a chick and desire her sexually I would prefer her to where revealing clothes. I tend to get crushes on chicks who don't wear revealing clothes, and consider them more relationship material.

hominid98 · Answer

Id actually go for modest but I dont dont mean you fully cover yourself from head to toe. You should dress according to the occasion. Anything that suits you. Its actually a balance between modest and revealing that one should maintain

TheWiseOwl · Answer

Modest all the way. A woman doesn't have to reveal her body to look attractive.

meyouryou · Answer

I really think a girl should dress how she wants but people out there thinks its not prophet some girl's can go over the top but its their life let them live it

BackAgain · Answer

Young ones like revealing for one thing only Mature ones want a modest girl who's relationship material You choose what type of guy you wanna attract ;)

Prof_Don · Answer

I say revealing clothes... let her flaunt her sexiness a bit!

Most of the dudes here say "modest clothing" because their egos hurt when they see other guys giving their female companion sexual attention. :-P

Amagi82 · Answer

Doesn't matter either way. Wear something that accents your personality. Makes you unique. Don't dress for what you think other people want of you- wear what YOU want, what makes YOU feel special.

JoshyJames · Answer

Different occasions call for different dress code personally I like the girls in revealing clothes better if I am at a house party or a nightclub downtown but if I am church then a more modest look is what I look for

Ad90x · Answer

I misread this and thought you said do you like it when 'your girl' wears etc... I prefer modest clothing when I'm out and about as I get too frustrated / tongue-tied when I'm with a girl who is revealing 'too much'. Just my honest opinion

Zango91 · Answer

It has nothing to do with modest or revealing. Wear what suits your style. You know the positives and negatives of your body. Wear dresses that suit you. Don't wear something just because Kristen Stewart wore it in Twilight.

QuestionGuy221 · Answer

Honestly I don't like girls that wear revealing clothes cause it can tell who they really are and I don't mess with those type of girls and honestly I don't care bout girls that show their parts I like a girl who has self respect and first of all I don't like a girl by her body if I like a girl I take my time to meet them and I like them by who they are

ThisDudeHere · Answer

It's simple. If you're looking for a one night stand then revealing clothing in the club. If it's an relationship you want then modest clothing anywhere else.

texan30 · Answer

I like when a woman's clothes accentuate her features but it's still classy. The opposite for me means she's starving for attention.

Findingmyway · Answer

There are outfits that are both modest and sexy/revealing. Wearing clothing with some class. Show just a slight to look sexy but cover enough that it doesn't look trashy.

Attila · Answer

I like revealing clothing. Cleavage is cute...

Klaatu51 · Answer

sweaters and jeans will always be superior than dresses and skirts

blaster · Answer

If u reveal too much you probably think you are attracting attention, but you might b attracting eyes but not hearts

TejasJajas · Answer

I think it depends on the situation. You want to dress modestly if you're meeting family or attending a religious event. If it's summer though I think it should be okay to wear a tank and shorts. It's all situational in my opinion

Chapy · Answer

Honestly, just dress in whatever you feel comfortable in. Don't dress a certain way to try to impress people unless it's for a job.

ThirdEyeGaze · Answer

i would say relieving, but i dont like girls that do and act like there dressed like a nun. if you dress relieving then dont pretend i can't almost see ya boobies

Dionysos · Answer

Depends on the situation. There's a time for class and there's a time for being relaxed and intimate.

OpenHonestGuy · Answer

I prefer modest clothing. And modest clothing can be very attractive. Sometimes more attractive than minimal coverage.

Anonymous · Answer

Revealing if you just want to get off, or want someone to excite her.

Modest if you want a long-term partner or wife.

[Of course, when she's in bed, it's always the most revealing or suggestive clothing!]

godfatherfan · Answer

There is a saying that is true as true can be: "A man want's a woman that is a whore in the bedroom and a lady everyplace else".

KuddleKinz · Answer

Some things should be left for the imagination. There's some things I'd rather not see. So, I prefer modestly dressed girls.

Tdieseler · Answer

I'd prefer something to be left to the imagination lol.

capncool · Answer

I don't really mind, but the best looking girls always look good without having to reveal much. That being said, I do like it when girls wear skirts that are a bit higher than the knee.

Anonymous · Answer

There's gotta be a good balance you can't be practically naked but I want my girl to look like a girl who's wearing those nice clothes with like mid cut tops and short shorts stuff like that but not practically naked.

findsomethingnew · Answer

Revealing is the one night stand modest are the forever

Jakesusername · Answer

I like them classy.

Anonymous · Answer

Every man, nearly, wants a woman that is of modest nature in public but a pure slut in the bed. Classy in public with some sexiness but a slut with him alone..

xhobbesx · Answer

Seeing as how you're under 18... Modest. Don't be a hoe

Anonymous · Answer

Modest clothing for girls can look good on pretty women, like short floppy dresses and stuff. But some of us are guys and like when girls wear clothing that shows their asses and boobs and it's kinda sick

Your_boss960 · Answer

They want their wives to be modest, and sluts and girls they don't care about to be slutty

creative94 · Answer

Well one. I think that they want to see you wear your best clothing. Looking good for them. Not revealing because he doesn't want other boys trying to check you out.

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