People tend to lose their inhibitions when under the influence of alcohol. Maybe he does feel this way and the alcohol made him decide to tell you and now he feels silly, or maybe you just came across as really "beautiful" that time he was drunk so being drunk he felt the urge to tell you and of course he went and did it without inhibitions :P
For example, my brother was just here in my room. I already knew when he came knocking that he was gonna be drunk cause he only comes to talk when he's drunk and the other times he comes to complain, but there's nothing to complain about so I know he's drunk :P
The times he's not drunk, he's a total asshole, super mean, even physically (and domestically) violent. He has nothing good to say about anything or anyone when he's sober. But, he has all the nicest and kind things to say in the world when he's drunk. He even likes to compare my penis size to his cause I'm always naked and he's insecure that his is smaller (I know it is cause he's showed me, fucking gross!)
It took ecstasy to find out that I was bisexual cause I always loved girls, tits, ass, pussy, etc like any straight guy, but I also found guys attractive and never acted upon it. When I was under the influence I finally did and found out OH SHIT! I love penis too!
Hehe I hope this helps!
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Yes and No, the compliment itself is most likely true. BUT that is not your real question. You want to know if he said it because he has emotions for you? That I can not be sure. It could of been anything from him being horny to being nice to having feelings for you. Honestly we really can not know.
Sometimes, perhaps often, alcohol is liquid courage. It gives us the ability to say what is on our minds with little inhibition. I hope in your case this is what was happening and that it works out. Maybe he was looking for a little sign of approval from you. Maybe he wasn't drunk, but used that as an excuse to sort of test the waters with you.
It could be that he had liquid courage. meaning he said something he couldn't say sober. Or perhaps he gets extra flirtatious when he's drunk but either way you're beautiful who needs a drunk guy to tell you you're beautiful, if he doesn't see it or say it when he's sober then it's not worth saying atall😘
if they say "I always thought u were beautiful" or "I wanted to talk to you for so long" then he's telling the truth about things he thought when he was sober but if he just saw u that night and was wasted and complements you he might be just trying to get in your pants or might just have beer goggles
Well since he admitted he didn't mean it.. then there's your answer!
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Simply put since some men are very insecure and "another word" for anxiety related statuses.
If he knows you crush on him, 72% chance he's telling the truth.
if he doesn't know , 20% chance he's lying.
if he doesn't know 8 % chance he just wants to bang you and be off.
drinks are a temporary courage dispenser. ( they give some of us balls. )
xoxo. the % are just scaled ( meaning I made them up ) you should get the gist of it though, your a woman
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Ahh the old drunk and I am sorry didn't mean it routine...
Notoriously a guy thing. My guess is he meant what he said because he had a cup o courage, but just got nervous when confronted.
Did you thank him for the comment or just ask him what was that about? Sometimes it is all about the approach!
U can't fully trust a person when they are drunk , for me I'm not scared to tell the truth bc I get more confident and I'll say whatever the fucks on my mind but also if ur that drunk u do things that u wouldn't do if u were sober so there ate probably things that u think are different when ur drunk like I could think a guy is so hot when drunk but not when I'm sober so u really don't truly know, just to be safe don't take it TOO seriously unless u know for sure they ment it
Lol people say drunks aren't to be trusted, but in reality alcohol is a total lubricant that makes us tell the truth. ... but it also should be said we do get beer goggles if we are horny. But it doesn't seem like the case here. More likely he just doesn't want to deal with the after math of telling you he finds you attractive and whatnot for whatever reason
In my opinion, there's really no way to tell in the moment. I would wait until he's sobered up, then ask him as if he'd never mentioned it. If he doesn't remember, you'll get an honest answer. Otherwise he might lie... or he might've been telling the truth all along.
It is just that feelings are heightened and people feel less inhibition to speak up. They regret afterwards for what they had said because they weren't thinking straight. If alcohol was truth drug, why would people use it as excuse for wrong things they do?
It's more likely to be true if he's drunk. Being drunk lessens one's inhibitions, so one won't stress over the what we want to say. People speak their minds they don't care about lying as much and don't worry about the normal ramifications of telling the truth. But beautiful could mean a lot - it could mean little, at least in that moment he wasn't thinking that you're kind of pretty that's about all you can be sure of.
When people are drunk, in that perspective, it could mean too things: 1) They are the type of drunk person that lets out all their secrets and all their feelings about people, which in this case he let out how he feels about you. 2) They are the type of drunk person that says anything that pops into their head, not meaning half of it... If he told you that he only said it because he was drunk, he's most likely #2.
I tend not to pay any attention to the shit people say when they are sozzled, it's mostly bullshit. Some say alcohol is a truth serum, that's true to some extent but if you think about the stupid lack of judgement people exhibit in their actions when they're wasted, you can tell they aren't exactly thinking clearly.
more than half the people claiming to be drunk on Facebook aren't, they just say they are in case if you found it creepy or inapropiate they can blame it on the alcohol (poor alcohol). But who knows, maybe he was drunk. In the end, us men think with the penis while drunk, so i wouldn't take it as a compliment if he wasn't sober, it was just a way to get into your pants.
I think it depends on the person lol sadly enough that's probably what you want to hear but when I'm intoxicated, I find myself to hit that truth serum level. I started complimenting a woman that I found attractive and struck up a conversation with her. But don't take my complete word for it. someone else could be flat out lying lol
The phrase
"Beer Goggles"
exists for a reason.
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Drunk = horny = say a lot of shit to try and get you interested.
It doesn't mean he doesn't think that, just that the alcohol has caused him to lower his inhibitions. Saying he didn't mean it is an asshole move though, means either he is a lying shit when he's drunk and will say anything to anyone or he really did think it but is scared of embarrassing himself and being rejected. I'd guess at the second with a sprinkle of the first due to alcohol making people into morons.
I'm an alcoholic teetotaller (i. e. I abstain from alcohol to avoid relapsing into alcohol addiction). When drunk, I would black out so there would be no telling what I said or meant. I'm sharing this only to say that alcohol affects different people differentky. If you don't know how it affects a particular person, then I would err on the side of caution and ignore it.
Just cause someone is drunk doesn't mean they don't say what they mean. When your drunk your central nervous system is effected and your parietal part of your brain that is the part of your brain where you are able to judge. When your drunk your true personality comes out cause you don't think about the consequences you just do what ever you feel like doing. So yes he meant it
I don't know some people say that a drunk person tells the truth but it probably depends on the person/how much you've had to drink. But hey at least when he is probably incapable of walking he still thought of talking to you
well let me tell you, if a drunk girl compliments another girl in the bathroom at a party or bar or whatever when you are washing your hands that shit is the PURE TRUTH. I don't know about guys though.
Alcohol isn't a truth serum but it reduces inhibition. Makes it easier for a peson to do whatever. Lie be honest dance :p they just feel more domFortable. That can elicit truth doesn't mean it will buT it can.
That was a shitty thing to say. I think he does find you attractive but he doesn't want to give you a chance to reject him. He doesn't sound like much of a catch to me. People who excuse themselves due to drunkenness are best avoided.
Don't count on it. They you will hear the truth from kids and drunk people, but I often tell people I hate, that I love them with all my heart when Im drunk. Not much honesty in that. Being drunk can give you courage to admit how you feel, but often what comes out is either puke or bullshit, so.
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