Why do my guy friends forget I'm a girl?

[Always_Honest]

My friend and his brother recently got there own apartment(finally!) I'm over there all the time since we've all been friends since junior high. It's great and I always have fun especially when our other friend is over but sometimes I feel out off place or awkward. They include me in everything because we all like doing the same things. Playing video games, basketball, stuff like that. I don't know why but lately I hate the way they act or the things they say around me. They talk about girls they like or girls they would have sex with or the ones they have had sex with like I'm not in the room (some are or were my friends). They show me text messages or pictures of girls like I'm supposed to get excited or be like she's so sexy. One showed me a video of his ex-girlfriend playing with her self, I still can't look at her the same.

I like guys and 50 percent of the time I dress like a woman. They call me there sister but I feel like think I'm there brother. I'm a girl how can they forget that?

[oldanddecrepid]

I guess they feel like your just one of the guys... like one of their buddies. Even still... some of the behaviour is pretty rude, considering you are a girl.

I would draw the line with them when it comes to certain things... the boys should show a little more class.

[CHARismatic110]

Because if they don't look at you romantically then most times you are "just one of the guys" to them. Especially if this is how it's been for awhile. If you're not comfortable with it anymore than say something about it. They won't know otherwise.

[snuggle_bunny88]

My guy friends use to do that too. I just turned the tables on them. We have an understanding now: They don't talk about it around me, I don't talk about it around them. Though sometimes I will ask for their advice.

[Anonymous]

They are constable with you, they can be themselves without hiding anything