Why does my boyfriend act like a dick?

[Anonymous]

Okay so im bi-racial black and white, and he's white, and he acts like he hates black people, he makes racsist comments and crap im sick of it, once he was like "Black people act like thugs". And that was just rude he made appearance jokes as well. And then he acts black, u know the stereotypical he tries to talk like them, like once he said "And i was like dat nigga be fucking my biach, nd he shut da fuck up hahahaha" He tries to dress like them, has many black friends, so why does he act like he hates them as well? he's such a fuckup, sorry about the rascist comments made by my boyfriend, i feel like they're rude as well.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

He probably has a small dick and is insecure. He has something that he is angry about and compensating for. He obviously is pressed because (1) he is dating a mixed girl. If he is so pro-white why can't he find a white girl? (2) why is he make so many comments about black people? If he is so superior you would think he'd just enjoy being white instead of being obsessed with black folks so much

he seems like the typical lame ass white boy who acts like a thug and tries to be cool and impress black guys, but behind their backs lashes out at them out of jealousy and insecurity. he's lame as fuck but what are you for dating him knowing he's like that? this man makes jokes about your fucking FATHER for crying out loud, but you willingly lay down with this man and let him fuck and call him your boyfriend? where is YOUR pride? that is so sad and embarrassing for you. im just saying you need to do better.

[Asker]

Exactly so true, even his neighbours call him a crazy ass white boy. Im just so stupid I tried leaving him once but he pulled me back he started crying and drinking then he texted me and said that he'd suicide if i left him and he was about to shoot himself, he has a gun and I always get worried about him and go back, partly because we've been together for so long, he wasn't like this until a long time. The dick part i think he's pretty big. He's just jealous, he talks about white girls as well he hates blondes for some reason, and russians he dated some of those girls, before and he thinks indian girls are whores for some reason he's a wierdo. He's a good guy but he's a racsist loser, and yes he makes jokes about my dad because he was adopted he never had real parents so he doesn't know stuff. He told me that "Im all he has so he wants to get married to me when I'm ready" but the things he does just I don't know if i can be with him. Thanks for the advice, ik I'm acting stupid as well.

[TashaJJ]

He just a prick. But it could be that he gets this from his parents but honestly don't put up with it. Maybe he joking I know I said a stupid joke to my mixed boyfriend (I'm mixed too) and he got really pissed but he told me and I stopped. But I think what your boyfriend is doing is that he really means what he says.

[Rcjh1987]

rain him in that it's offensive to you, that him talking like that makes him sound dumb, not every black guy talks like that, if he didn't quit I'd drop him.

[zorro8888]

Immaturity and Ignorance at its finest.
What do you find appealing about a guy who acts like that?

[Asker]

Yup true, well we've been together for 3 years now, met him when i was 17 and he was 19. He was actually so caring did sports and stuff, i didn't know so much about him until i moved in with him like a year ago, and he's caring he loves me but he acts like a dick sometimes its pretty offensive to me, and he makes jokes about my dad. Overall we do like spending time and all together, he doesn't joke around like this all the time probably just sometimes, but its annoying.

[zorro8888]

Someone who cares for you doesn't find ways to offend you.
People always try to focus on the good in relationships, but relationships are just about the good times.
It's about how you overcome the bad ones... and in case you didn't notice you guys are still in a bad one.

[Chick180]

How old is he?

[Asker]

Im 19 my age here says 17 cause i was using my phone for that, and he's turning 22.

[Chick180]

Oh. He's an immature idiot. Have you tried talking to him about it?

[Asker]

Yeah i joked about it once, he told me a mean joke and i was like "But u act like a wannabe" and he went quiet didn't talk about that again.

[Chick180]

If it really bothers you, you should speak to him about it and if he doesn't respect that, he's not worth your time.

[Kshppatel]

Lol you picked him. Only you know the answer

[Cowboy6666]

He has dickhead...
Still a child he is.

[apexalpha]

your BF is an immature wannabe thats why

[SurströmmingLover]

Because he has one

[Asker]

Lol, so that means all girls would be a pussy? Because of ur theory that having a dick means that ur a dick.

[SurströmmingLover]

exactly. Oh you're reading my mind so well

[baepink]

he's a jerk.

[TonyRyan]

Lol #teenagers

[Asker]

Im 19, it says 17 here lol, but that was funny.

[Tokana]

Your boyfriend.