How do I tell my girlfriend to shave her mustache and arms?

[Anonymous]

I like her but it doesn't turn me on when I see her hair like that. She shaves her legs tho.

[rivka]

wow...is she THAT hairy? I would think she would wax or cream her upper lip ANYWAY without being told. Hmmm. That's a tough one.

Does she not think she has a moustache?

I would tickle the hairs on her face with your finger when you kiss her and say gently "mmmm...hey babe...you've got a few hairs here still...i know you'd want to catch them next time" or something sensitive that tells her you are OK with it, but brings it to her attention.

If she acts like she has no idea what you're talking about, or says that she likes the hair on her face, you can compliment her by saying...you have such pretty lips...i'm sure they would stand out a bit more when you remove the hairs...I wouldn't use the term "mustache"...it's kinda masculine...and might make her feel insecure.

About the arm hair, I'd wait to see her reaction to the face hair first. If that goes well, you can rub her arms and say something sweet about them...but listen, she might have some suggestions for you too...so maybe you can say, "do you like the way I shave"? and give her a chance to critique you so she doesn't feel like you're finding fault with her.

We girls are a bit insecure about that stuff so trying to make her feel pretty at the same time is your job.

good luck!

[Anonymous]

she will undoubtedly be offended and embarrassed by that. 99% of people own mirrors and look at themselves at least once a day, she obviously knows it's there so I think you would be doing more harm than good by pointing it out. didn't you know she had a mustache and hairy arms when you got with her?

[Anonymous]

eww facial hair. on the other hand I have sort of hairy arms that I'm self-conscious about, but I'm not gonna shave em and I'm sorry, but if a guy I was seeing asked me to do that, I'll be telling him to hit the road.

[bobair]

Yup. Women are fairly malleable, and luckily they're less superficial then us guys.

Try being subtle, like telling her about how your friend's girlfriend got her arms/face waxed at a local salon and how huge the difference was for him. Maybe she'll get the hint. If she doesn't... well too bad for you. Choose better next time.

~ Robby

[MegasXLR]

Yeah.. this is pretty awkward.. maybe she doesn't do anything about it because she can't afford it? What about giving her a gift voucher for a spa (that does waxing, manicures, massages etc) and maybe she might choose to have a wax. Hopefully.

[Anonymous]

Some girls/woman have a facial hairgrowth disorder which makes there there hair grow super fast so she might be shaving. but if you must ask I would ask one of her friends or something becuse no matter how you say it the girl will be offended.