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I would not want to be in a relationship with someone who prefers a woman who he will never meet or form any connection with. A man preferring porn as opposed to women in relationships probably could not form healthy relationship so if they dont have that capacity they should just stick to porn i suppose.
It's not 'preferring porn' over women. It's them seem women as not an option. Porn is just something to kill the beast real quick and move on with the day.
I doubt the girls care about these guys at all. Guys give up because they don't want to change anything. Girls never truly give up because they don't have to change anything.
Interessstingg
why are you so full of shit?
To me they don’t reflect reality. All of my male friends are happier in relationships, and personally I think most normal people face up to challenges and overcome them. That goes for women too, we’ve all been hurt and had to face something or other through life. THte difference is in how you deal with it. I think a lot of people here need help tbh.
Im 32 and never had a girlfriend beyond 6 months. I have also trouble getting and keeping jobs. I gave up on women 3 months ago. At my age its creepy to be single and all the good ones are married or in a relationship at my age so there's no pt anymore. My younger brother is engaged and im still single and have no options.
Those guys are annoying and pathetic. I hate people with victim mentalities
Relationship status: Single.
So it's ok for women to do it?
Another stereotype... explain me why would that be true
What if you are a victim, though?
It is annoying!
You must hate feminists too.
@Nuqood @CorruptedDocument @manos @evenlift Anyone who plays the victim card in this case is an illogical mouth breather no matter the gender.
Why?
All people with that personality suck
standing up for your rights is a victim mentality? - You seem to have your wires permanently crossed. Men aren't the ones doing 'slut walks' about rape hysteria and expecting the police to arrest their partners on accusation alone.
Clap, clap, clap
Rape and not getting laid are too different things. Also men get raped too they just don't do slut walks because of the horrible stigma that is attached to a man being raped.
Hyped_up_on_coffee its comments like yours is the primary reason why men will give up... And women like you will be the first one to call a decent guy weak when thats not the case at... Have you ever thought that men want to protect themselves too?
@CorruptedDocument Can you guys seriously just shut the fuck up. Im so damn tired of seeing you guys give the girls shit for spewing facts. She's right, and you're being an asshole as if she's the one in the wrong.
I wouldn't say I've given up on relationships or dating, but at the same time relying on dating sites and tinder can be tiring. I mean sure I've gotten a lot of dates and a few hookups from them, but nothing stable or long term. It's like there's plenty of options but at the same time, you're competing with way more men than meeting someone in real life. Unfortunately, I haven't had the opportunity to meet any women in real life that piqued my interest.
Women are essential!
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LMFAO! Kk this is funny
I think it all comes to why you want to give up. A bad experience in a recent relationship. You have done your part of looking for someone and there has not been any luck. Both guys and girls give up sometimes. It's normal. It does not mean you are a victim or you are a failure at finding someone. Because you are not. My best advice would be to find your inner self. Spend some time on you. Stay positive. Sometimes when you are not looking for someone love happens.
Honestly, the reason why I am considering giving up, is the bad press I have heard about relationships.
I have heard constant stories from men whose lives have been devastated by divorce, men whose education ended by an early and unplanned pregnancy, men who have been cheated on and men who have spent large sums of money, time and energy to satisfy ridiculously demanding women.
I've almost given up hope that I'll ever meet someone worth the wait.
My takek on it is that I still believe in love however currently there is a cohabitation rights bill awaiting royal assent in the UK that makes living with a woman the same as marrying one. So now, not only do I not believe in marriage but I don't believe in cohabitation either. If women choose to ignore men who defend their rights then you're wasting your time with her and if she chooses to go get a guy who does that's her business. Frankly I coudlnt' respect someone who doesn't respect themselves. So while I agree that it's a hard pill to swallow the red pill is about your own self respect and you sound like someone who has tons of it. That's not something to be ashamed of, it's something to be proud of. So by all means keep dating (carefully), build your own career, health and life and have fun!. I've seen many divorced friends and it's not worth it - believe me, their lives are totally destroyed but just because most women hate strong men these days doesn't men you can't be one.
I don't know about relationships or dating all i know is the relationships i did have in this life i was the one who was always shorted; I don't know why but I'm having doubts that i ever find someone to make it work with, looking for a different astral plane cause love don't live here.
It doesn't bother me that's one less man wasting a woman's time that believes in love, has not given up, and wants to be in a relationship.
Alternatively that's one less option for women.
And one less woman bothering me with a selfish feminist attitude.
@BelfastBoy so true
You guys need to fuck off. Creole_Flavor is 100% true, people like YOU GUYS are too weak and give up easily on love just because you got your heart broken a few times. Good fucking luck. Also she's not giving a feminist attitude, she's speaking truth. Stop being weak and work on your SHITTY fucking attitude if you want a relationship. Otherwise you're probably salty because all you want is sex and most girls won't date you for that reason.
Fucking pathetic. And I AM A GUY, and I'm not a weak little cry baby who bitches on GAG and gives every girl on here shit when talking about relationships because they're bitter as fuck. You don't want a relationship, cool, that's your life. If you do, then fucking find your values, work on yourself, and fucking work for it if you want a good girl to notice you, because you're scaring away your opportunities everytime you act all bitter and have a shitty fucking attitude. You're weak.
I think they're just looking to vent some anger and misguided frustration towards their lack of social and dating skills. Misery loves company.
I'm sensing a troll but I must ask, do you believe women do nothing wrong to them, it's all justified?
Ikr, girls are so frivolous
I think BOTH men and women can be obnoxious, rude, arrogant, or in general not a nice person. But I'm not going to blame the lack of anything in my life on anybody but me. Men and women who are happy and have good self esteem don't need to bitch or complain about what others do and how it effects them in their social lives, they simply don't associate with negative ideology.
Case in point I have some friends that used to sit around and bitch about their husbands. I didn't get it and I won't do it. They are no longer in my social group.
@corrupteddocument
@CorruptedDocument my reply
this is not karate kid. love is not about skills, manipulations and tricks.
Stopped caring, the sheer amount of ignorance is depressing.
Women do play a big role in rejecting men and causing a lot of men's confidence to wither. Thats a crappy thing to do to men.
@smartman12 The way your acting is why you get rejected. Women don't like people like you.
FACTS!
@CorruptedDocument Says the guy who is giving almost every single girl on this post shit for no reason, acting like they know better, being condecending, being closeminded, being immature and clearly salty that girls don't like them because they're bitter.
i know guys like that who are forever chasing the wrong type of women - typically hot, model like, with perfect make up skills and dresses up from head to toe in branded stuff - of course these women won't go for men like them unless they're rich
the more down to earth girls are always overlooked and i tried to matchmake my friends a few times before but the guys don't even wanna consider
Excuse me but I model, I am considered by society as good looking and I married a jeans and t-shirt, average income guy! I married him because he was the one guy who didn't want me just for arm candy to show off. He was the nice guy that was shy so I pursued him! Just because a woman is good looking and takes pride in her appearance does not mean she is shallow and vain. I will ask you not to judge as I don't judge all men just by the way they dress, their income or their looks!
The more down-to-Earth girls also tend to... let's just say, NEED to be down-to-Earth.
@AshleyKat
Based on some of your other commentary, you could be a top model and you're still no catch.
I married douchebag so go fuck yourself.
I don't know there's times where I want to give up on trying ha not easy finding dates when your short shy and ugly buut nobody like a quiter I just stay positive keep my head up and live my life it'll happen one day hopefully
You ain't even ugly tho
Thanks :)
If a man gives up on women completely, honestly I wouldn't blame him. He must have had some crappy experiences with women to swear them all off.
Yea but not ALL women are like the crappy women he had. I dislike men who are like this.
the nawalt argument no longer cuts it @love2run13
But the majority are @love2run13 good women are a rarity now. Some men just don't want to bother.
@love2run13
Yeah, NAWALT is irrelevant, Enough women are like that.
the NAWLT argument is the ONLY thing that cuts it lol
Why are so many stupid opinions at female comment section?
I don't care about these guys and I would say nothing about it. I'm indifferent about it.
and I don't care about women who think men's rights aren't worth spit - good riddens to you as well.
Some do, yes. They're often tired of the stuff women pull. I'm inclined to agree with them.
I think the majority of them are throwing a hissy fit like the boys they are.
Yes because they know it's easier to give up then to approach a girl
Oh god... why people havd do many stereotyped in their head
@manos because she doesn't have enough braincells to understand.
@NessMess Or you're too immature and closeminded to understand, but maybe have low braincells as well. Or both.
It just depends on the relationship. But no, if the reason for "giving up" is stupid , such as "she won't give me sex" etc, he's rather stupid. If the reason is rather understandable , then yes, but let her down easy... Please.
Why is "not getting sex" a stupid reason to dump her?
@CorruptedDocument , because it is. 😂 & it was just an example. THANKS THO
No it isn't.
You're 19 years old. You don't know crap.
@CorruptedDocument
All things being equal if there are women available, most men will walk away from women who withhold sex because it's usually a sign of a woman who will use sex as barter to get what they want from men after marriage.
@CorruptedDocument Wow, you actually think "not getting sex" isn't a stupid reason to dump her? Unbelievable... YES THATS A DUMBASS REASON TO DUMB SOMEONE IF YOU LOVE THEM, OTHERWISE YOU ARE USING THEM FOR SEX. And you wonder why you can't find a good girlfriend, and so you resort to going onto GAG and talking shit to girls on this post because you're bitter that your unreasonable thinking won't get you a meaningful girlfriend. Good luck man, I feel sorry for whatever girl had to deal with you.
I have gave up on all relationships and love life. Too many times I've got rejected, ignored and insulted by women. It's simply not worth it.
Id like to meet a girl that didn't spend 3 hours googling me AFTER agreeing to a date. At least give a guy the benefit of the doubt.
my own personal motto is NEVER GIVE UP !!! You will find the right one for you and trust me you will know it !
My personal motto is make lots of money! you will enjoy it
@mickylad I feel that is a huge driver for this too. Many guys are asking themselves where they could’ve been if they hadn’t invested time, money and emotions on women. The majority of women today can’t cook, won’t clean and still expect you to make more money than you may need in order to provide for them. If sex is the only thing I can’t provide myself, is placing, my home, finances and sanity in upheaval worth that one missing aspect? Not to mention the promiscuity, lies and fake affection that is the current hook up culture.
Yeah, I think I'm getting close to that point.
Why should women even care?
cuz we're the ones who have to walk through life trying to find a nice guy who wants to settle down with her and every other guy is a player who waz hurt in the past an gives up on all other women out there just cuz on one bitch and then causes hell and misery for all the other girls he crosses paths with lol THATS why it matters.
A lot of good men opt out. That's why. A lot of women struggle to find a good guy.
@love2run13 @terrell456 and that's their problem if they don't want to date.
" is a player who waz hurt in the past "
And that's why he's given up on women, because they've made him a player. So the blame goes to...
@love2run13
He's a player cuz he chooses to let the actions of a few bad women get to him that much to become a loser who doesn't respect women. A real man brushes that shit off eventually and realizes that not all women are like that.
@love2run13
It's not "a few bad women." Open your eyes. Good guys are getting their hearts gouged out in droves. The only men who get any traction are the players. Women choose the players every time -- that's why men are players. When a "nice guy" as you put it, sees that being a "nice guy" means a lifetime of solitude and simping yourself out in hopes of getting an ounce of personal validation, men have a choice to make: Be a player or opt out. Lots of good men won't compromise their value system, so they opt out.
@love2run13 How much is a few, please tell me? is there a specific number of women a man must be with before he can quit? if so can you PLEASE, using your *Ohh so great mind* tell us, how many women must a man fail with before quitting completely?
Jesus fucking christ, people like you are so full of shit.
Damn g@g got issues
bahahaa!
Are you surprised by the negative reaction from guys?
Well it is the internet. All kinds of lame-os complain about this stuff and blow it up. It doesn't really mattter.
At the risk of you calling me a lame-o, I do worry that I can't meet women's standards and maybe I' better off giving up on it. So I can kind of see their point.
Dude did you post that other question?
Yep.
It was kind of a follow up to this one as I was surprised by how negative some of the guy's answers were.
Yeah its bascially guys who only see marriage as a way for women to take your money or something. Marriage is for people who see the sentiment in it and just want to make their relationship exclusive to the max. Yes there are benefits which are a very gr8 thing. But marriage is the ultimate sign that you truly love that person
Also they are bitter from bad experience. Noy everyone woman or most women are fire breathing monsters
I'd love to get married. I've honestly dreamed of it. It just seems like people these days aren't in it for the long haul and will bail as soon as things get rough.
Thanks by the way. :)
You'll be alright dude :) and no problem
Yep they sure do. I like vaginas though.
I doubt these guys are gay.
Yeah some people just give up way too easily
Sadly the desire does not go away
Yes, it's about managing that desire, not eliminating it. When no woman can hurt you, suddenly, I've found, they're very interested in you.
It is silly to give up on women.
thats what i love to hear from men :D
@love2run13
I bet you do. Would you still like to hear it if it meant much higher expectations of behavior and contribution from women, as well as accountability?
Would you still like it if it meant you had to make the first move from time to time; to pay for a date every now and then; to reject men you're not interested in with compassion and tact; to be thrown in jail if you ever hit your man; to accept the fact this his relationship with his children is as sacrosanct as yours?
I want to have sex so bad.
Please, why are guys on here so melodramatic? Girls have to deal with JUST as much bullshit as men in the dating world and in relationships. There are no higher expectations from men than women, the expectations should be the same. I've made the first move before too on many occasions and I've paid for a date before. No one should be hitting anyone. Don't always turn women into the bad guy here cuz there are only two types of people in the dating world and they come in both genders: the ones who are willing to put in the time and effort and the ones who simply aren't.
@love2run13 but you're factually wrong, the demands for guys are way higher in the dating world than it is for girls. Girls always overestimate their own value and in addition to that their hypergamous instincts makes them look for men that are above themselves in value.
Single is the way to be.
I'm fine with it. Whatever makes them happy.
I'm bad at women.
I'm the General Patton, in the "War on Women"...
I don't like them.
Why?
No reason.