I met this guy. We had sex first time we hang out. I didn't expect him to stick around but he did text me the next day saying that he's had a great time and we should do it again. We started kinda seeing each other. Mostly hanging out over by his place. And we did have sex every time. He wasn't the type who would text every day saying hello and checking on me plus sometimes it would take him forever to respond so I thought that the only thing he wanted with me was sex. I decided to keep it this way and see where it goes. I started falling for him but I didn't feel like he wanted any relationships. I didn't want to scare him away and said once that I liked him and I was afraid of this feeling coz I didn't want any relations. Also I have told him that I was very attracted to him physically and loved having sex with him, that he was driving me crazy in bed. In a mean while he saw me couple time out with some other guy (friends not sure what he thought about it) once he even came up to me to say hello. One night after party I ended up at his place I've had a bit more to drink then I should have. He said that he wanted just to relax but I pushed him into having sex, told him again how hot he was and how I always wanted him. Next day I texted him saying sorry for misbehaving, he didn't reply. I left him alone for a while. A week later he texted first. I couldn't get together that night but I did say that I wanted to see him. We couldn't catch up for like a week. And I was the one who was texting first and was always busy. Then thet one night I texted again, first he said that he was busy but then couple hrs later said that wanted to hang out. I ended up at his place again. He opened the door wearing only his boxers and was busy with his phone for a while. Then we had a short conversation, he said that he was busy at work and stressed. I tried to make a move but he said that he was tired and wanted to relax. I asked him if he wanted me to leave, he just pulled my head to his chest
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And so we cuddled and I just slept over. The Next day I texted he replayed. Then I texted today and here comes nothing. by the way he is a very smart man and got a good job with a lot of responsibilities
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Is it a good idea to text him saying that I'd love to spend some time with him instead of asking him what's he is up to tonight... But the whole past week I was the one who contacted him first!
I think you guys definitely have chemistry but not every guy all the time wants sex, like sure the offer would be there and it would've been great for both of you but I think he also wants you to know he appreciates the person that you are and he doesn't have to always have to have sex with you to make your time together worth it.
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He wants somebody to hold at night, rather than just a fuck buddy. His job is stressful and tiring, so he doesn't want to do anything that requires much effort, which sex generally does. He just wants someone to hold onto in the dark.
(Not saying he doesn't want sex at all, just in cases like these.)
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Men aren't sex robots? Who knew?
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