Why won't he have sex with me?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I have been talking for a bit. We basically agreed that we would only hookup as I have dated his brother before which he thinks will ruin things if we do anything more. I just want to hook up as well. He basically talks dirty with me and says he wants to have sex , he says he wants me really bad , he says im hot and everything but then he doesn't do it. He just makes an excuse but then says I want you so bad dont think otherwise. Im pretty sure he's a virgin because he didn't tell me he's ever had sex before and he's always very nervous around me. He asks me what I like in bed and he told me to wait a bit. Im just curious as to what he is doing right now while im “waiting”…… is he somehow preparing? or like nervous? Whats going on?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is nervous and his thing probably won't work right!

My wife had an ex like this really wanted sex but never delivered and it was cause he had a tiny dick and could not get hard!

He is loving the attention but probably won't be that friends with benefits you want!

[Asker]

So he's afraid he's small/ can't get it up?😭😭😭😭😭😭

[Asker]

can i take it as a compliment lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Take what as a compliment?
Honestly probably and he is nervous his brother might find out and get mad!
Just all of it he does not seem like he really wants sex! Just a sexy time texting you

[Asker]

First he wouldn’t talk to me but then he started to and he said his brother doesn’t care. So I guess he got the approval? We basically go to the same gym and I can see he's hard when we talk , then we have a sexual convo but he always backs out idfk why

[Asker]

His friend also passed a few days ago so he said he feels shameful doing anything… not sure id thats just an excuse

[Opinion Owner]

Probably just an excuse but if he gets hard so why not? Must be something else?
Well I'd go for you and you sound amazing girl! My wife would get along so well with you! We are an open couple and she loves telling hot sexy stories that we have done!
Would you ever join in with an open couple?

Sounds like you need some release and I'm sorry he is not giving it to you!
I'd take it as a compliment

[Asker]

Take what as a compliment? and thank you!!! :) and yes

[Opinion Owner]

Take him wanting you as a compliment even if he won't follow through!
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[Asker]

I dont know how to follow on this :(

[Opinion Owner]

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[spartan55]

Who says he's nervous or a virgin? Na, you're way off. He doesn't want his brother's sloppy seconds.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Small dick or performance issues. Would be my honest guess

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Tell him you prefer small penises and see if that changes his mind

[LetsBeNice57]

My guess is he wants you , but he's actually a decent person and thinks the brother thing makes it not a good thing to do , but he can't help the messages.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Did you hook up with his brother? If you did that's why he probably won't hook up with you

[In_Trance]

he doesn't like you

[Asker]

damn thanks 😭