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There is this guy I've been hooking up for almost a year and a half now. We have hooked up every time we have hung out and I ended up losing my virginity to him. He did not pressure me into this and said he wouldn't mind if I I didn't want to do this with him because we could always just "mess around" in other ways. I would not have a problem bringing it up to him that I have feelings for him, but the problem is I'm 17 and he's 21, which makes us illegal. I also don't want to make things weird between us or creep him out enough to where he will lose touch with me, especially since I Lost my virginity to him.
Do you think if he has been hooking up with me for about a year and a half that it is because he has feelings for me or what? I am almost sure that he is not hooking up with anyone else in the mean time. He has suggested to do things like threesomes with either male or female or a "couples" sex thing where it'd be me and him and a friend and their boyfriend/girlfriend saying we'd only trade partners if I wanted to making me feel like he's more just interested in the sex. We do not talk on the phone together, but it seems like he IMs me almost every time and seconds after he signs on, but our conversations usually end up about something sexual. He has also bought me a 40$ vibrator as a "birthday gift," which I thought if guys spend that much on a girl just because it may mean something, then again it had to do with something sexual again. He makes me promise to drive home safe like he cares about my safety but he has mentioned before that "he doesn't want to be liable if something bad happens to me" also considering that if something did and he got brought into this he could be thrown in jail because we are illegal so maybe he's more concerned about himself
He has also mentioned to me before that he hopes I still talk to him after I'm 18 so we wouldn't have to hide this from my family. He has also told me that he'd still be cool with hanging out with me without doing something sexual if I got a boyfriend. He's mentioned just "we have to actually just lay here and watch this movie together." I have also noticed little things like he put me as the first girl under his buddy list and he tells his friends about our hookups.
I could go on and on with examples for both sides, but I won't bore you anymore :)
I guess my main question is that if you were a guy would hooking up with a girl for over a year and a half mean you have feelings for the girl or not necessarily? Am I just being used as a sex partner?
There is this guy I've been hooking up for almost a year and a half now. We have hooked up every time we have hung out and I ended up losing my virginity to him. He did not pressure me into this and said he wouldn't mind if I I didn't want to do this with him because we could always just "mess around" in other ways. I would not have a problem bringing it up to him that I have feelings for him, but the problem is I'm 17 and he's 21, which makes us illegal. I also don't want to make things weird between us or creep him out enough to where he will lose touch with me, especially since I Lost my virginity to him.
Do you think if he has been hooking up with me for about a year and a half that it is because he has feelings for me or what? I am almost sure that he is not hooking up with anyone else in the mean time. He has suggested to do things like threesomes with either male or female or a "couples" sex thing where it'd be me and him and a friend and their boyfriend/girlfriend saying we'd only trade partners if I wanted to making me feel like he's more just interested in the sex. We do not talk on the phone together, but it seems like he IMs me almost every time and seconds after he signs on, but our conversations usually end up about something sexual. He has also bought me a 40$ vibrator as a "birthday gift," which I thought if guys spend that much on a girl just because it may mean something, then again it had to do with something sexual again. He makes me promise to drive home safe like he cares about my safety but he has mentioned before that "he doesn't want to be liable if something bad happens to me" also considering that if something did and he got brought into this he could be thrown in jail because we are illegal so maybe he's more concerned about himself
He has also mentioned to me before that he hopes I still talk to him after I'm 18 so we wouldn't have to hide this from my family. He has also told me that he'd still be cool with hanging out with me without doing something sexual if I got a boyfriend. He's mentioned just "we have to actually just lay here and watch this movie together." I have also noticed little things like he put me as the first girl under his buddy list and he tells his friends about our hookups.
I could go on and on with examples for both sides, but I won't bore you anymore :)
I guess my main question is that if you were a guy would hooking up with a girl for over a year and a half mean you have feelings for the girl or not necessarily? Am I just being used as a sex partner?
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