Would he still be talking to me after 4/5 months if he wasn’t genuinely interested in me? and no, we’re not friends we’ve both made that VERY clear?

[confusedgirlyxo]

I’ve been talking to a guy for about 4/5 months (long distance) and we’ve met up twice and really gotten along and he’s really sweet to me. I saw he posted this tweet when we were about a month into talking everyday almost but hadn’t met up or seen each other irl yet.

My question is, would he still be talking to me if he still feels how he felt when writing that tweet or is he sure about me now?

(he’s introduced me to his friends and they said he talks about me a lot)

thank you so much! :)

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, if he's still actively talking to you after 4-5 months, I really don't think he's sticking around just for kicks. That's a looooong time to fake interest!

From the details you've shared, it really does sound like he's developed genuine feelings. Introducing you to friends and talking about you a lot are great signs. Guys don't usually do that unless they're catching feels.

As for the tweet - I wouldn't read too much into a random post from months ago. People's feelings can change and grow over time as they get to know someone better.

It seems obvious to me he's sure about you now based on how he's acting - making an effort with calls, opening up more in person when you meet. Those aren't things people do if they're just batting you around waiting for someone "better."

I'd say trust that he likes you for you! Don't overanalyze, just keep enjoying your time together. Seems like you've got a good thing cooking!