Why do people always assume that I'm taken?

[dopechick483]

Why do guys I have no interest in approach me like all the time? Even though they assume I'm taken? I know I'm not ugly but the ugly guys seems to be drawn to me and I'm thinking I must be doing something that make them feel like they have a chance but I don't know what that is... I mean all I do is go my way and ignore everyone unless I know the person I say hi but then those guys... this is pointless I'm done lol

[Onethatsbeenaround]

I've found that when I treat everyone the same, not singling any out for special attention, but all out for just being a person, no one gets the wrong idea, favorably or unfavorably. It is kinda, my defense mechanism. It's not that any are ugly, but that they are just not my type. Treating everyone as special until I find that special someone I want to treat really really special. My love for people makes noone feel ugly, just human. This was not pointless Gal, just a little frustrating sometimes. You are not done, you are just getting started.

[Anonymous]

You're probably good looking and good looking girls are usually expected to be taken already. Who would want problems with the boyfriend they guess you have?
But reading your text, you're quite picky (or superficial).

I wouldn't approach you either.

[dopechick483]

lmao I wish these guys felt the same way and left me alone and still there are guys who still want a relationship even if I'm taken

[Opinion Owner]

I have never approached a girl I supposed taken.

[Opinion Owner]

"but the ugly guys seems to be drawn to me "

THAT is your problem.

[dopechick483]

Lol sometimes the ones you assume are aren't though

[dopechick483]

what are you even referring to?

[Opinion Owner]

Another point: your screen name. I will steer clear (even for asking my way in the streets or for asking how late it is) of anyone I associate with drugs.

[dopechick483]

I don't do drugs that's the problem with people they assume too fucking much

[Opinion Owner]

People are prudent.
Steer clear of those who are not.

[Anonymous]

If people assume you're " taken" then it's a compliment, because most people expect attractive people to be in a relationship. Usually because they can have their" pick" of any guy. There's no shortage of admirers

The guys who are approaching you must have a lot of confidence and self- esteem. 😊

[Anonymous]

"Ugly guys assume I'm taken but think they have a chance even though I'm single". Could you please sound more conceited about yourself.

[dopechick483]

I'll try to give a fuck soon okay

[Opinion Owner]

Oh you clearly give a fuck or you wouldn't be on here fishing for compliments and replying to me, someone you don't give a fuck about.

[dopechick483]

bitch I'm bored I give attention to attention whores

[MissGeorgia]

They don't assume you're taken. If you're purposefully ignoring them, your telling them that you don't want them to approach you

[thenamesdesiree]

If you're a pretty girl, guys will think that you already have a boyfriend because if it.

[NajemEddine]

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[dopechick483]

👀👀👀👀👀👀 wahhhhhh?

[NajemEddine]

i thought u mean kidnapped

[Anonymous]

You come off as pretty conceited here. Even if they're ugly they're still looking for a possible relationship (or even friendship) with someone. Also most girls complain about ugly guys all the time approaching them but they never approach people themselves so maybe you should start pursuing the guys you want if you haven't done that already.

[GraveTruth]

Women prime from 14 and it sometimes starts to weaken even as young as 20.

Maybe they assume that you are only going to be good looking for a few more years.
OR maybe they think you are an interesting person. Stupid them huh.

[Chico_brah]

You're attracted to 14 year old girls? Lmao

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah No... It's just the way the human body works.

[Chico_brah]

Is prime is correlated to the context of the question? I was going by that logic. By that logic, you would be insinuating that 14 years old is a woman's prime ripe age of attractiveness. You don't have to direct say that, but the job is already done and you've already insinuated it.

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah Is this too difficult for you?
Let me dummy it down for you. Between the age of 14-20 women are in their prime. This means they are the most attractive and their body functions best during this time.
The reproduction organs are the most effective, immunity is the fastest, and YES, they look the best looking.
Do you need eyes
Boys
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girls
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[Chico_brah]

You don't have to 'dummy' it down. If you've seen me debate on this website, or have seen my opinions, then you would know I completely deviate away from being political correct. I'm an engineer and my mind is very logically driven.

Right now utilizing what's called the logic of probabilistic reasoning. Your picture displays you in a dark photo with a smirk on your face that gives me the vibe in which I would not want you around a group of children. To 'dummy' it down. Your face expression looks dull and I think you look like a pedophile.

Your name is the grave truth so you are putting an over emphasis into your logically driven opinions. Someone who has solidifying opinions that would fall into the realm of 'grave truth' wouldn't feel the need to put it out there like that. They would just let their opinions speak for themselves. You're putting emphasis into a character rather than yourself. Why do you feel the need to compensate the how your voice?

[Chico_brah]

You are single and 36 years of age. You most likely have a resentment towards women in general. The way you speak is almost identical to those on redditos on red pill. Most of those views are a bit on the radical side and strays away from what would be considered rational thought. Your condescending followup evidently shows that you have narcissistic personality traits. Your intelligence does not exceed everyone else's.

I'm not arbitrary taking shots on you on the grounds of being dumbfounded or politically correct. I have come to my own conclusion through basic observation. I'm entitled to that. You have actually managed to rationalize the fact that you are attracted to 14 year old girls. By DSM standards this would be considered into the realm of Hebephilia. 14 years of age falls within that. 15-19 is considered to be ephebophilia.

[Chico_brah]

You also didn't need to mention the
"and YES, they look the best looking. " I already came this conclusion. This is why I stated "Is prime is correlated to the context of the question? I was going by that logic. By that logic, you would be insinuating that 14 years old is a woman's prime ripe age of attractiveness. "

I might look like a steroid using meathead, but I might just be a little more perceptive than you think.

[Chico_brah]

To conclude. I think you are very creepy and have reached a point of insanity if you've managed to rationalize being attracted to 14 year old girls.

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah Blah blah, you are just throwing random offensive things because you know it's the internet. Everyone is a tough guy on the internet when they can't get knocked out.

[Chico_brah]

They aren't random at all. Everything I've said has been evidently displayed here and all in relevance to the contextual surroundings of this conversation. It's all laid out. By no means are any of my comments of the arbitrary foundational lines of "oh your beard is ugly because I don't like you." Had your beard been relevant to the conversation, then I might of mentioned it. Everything of what I said is based of on the logic of probilistic reasoning. I came to my conclusion based on the information I saw fit. I'm entitled to that.

Speaking if relevance, have no idea how you managed to correlate me being a tough guy with anything of what I just said. Knocking me out? I don't need to resort to physical violence to handle my issues. Most the time I can handle my issues by using my words.

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah ALright. Whatever. Go away or do whatever the hell you do.

[Chico_brah]

Strong response dude. Will do.

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah I guess I'm not as awesome as Arguing on the E-net as you.

[Chico_brah]

Oh I've debated at the collegiate level as well... at my old community college before I transferred to university, but none the less I've debated in a competitive and professional setting. Not only on the internet. Very good at arguing with people in general tbh. I can out wit most people. The dynamic is different in real life though. Half of the time it's 90% voice and body language and 10% of what you are saying in daily life. In a lecture hall, you actually have to know your shit.

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah That's cute. You think college and university is a high level intelligent setting. Thosands of kids paying thousands of dollars to sit around and study on crap for years instead of just learning it in a month.

[Chico_brah]

Well I'm studying engineering and already have a job lined up for me. I should be making good money very soon. Engineering isn't a self taught skill acquired within a month. If that were the case, then everyone would be an engineer because it pays so well.

I'm not exactly a kid either. I'm paying my own way through school. I enlisted in the military after high school. Now I'm utilizing my benefits and driving for uber on the weekends just so I can pay for my basic necessities. I've been independent since I left high school. Just because you're older doesn't mean you are more of a 'man' than me. You can think that in your head, sure. That's your judgement and your judgement only though. I would say it's not very rational, but hey, I'm entitled my judgement as well.

[GraveTruth]

@Chico_brah It's really hard to take any guy seriously who waxes his body.

[Chico_brah]

Oh I shave my upper half in the shower. Trim my lower half with a buzzer. Tattoos don't look that great with body hair. On top of that, body hair hides muscle definition. Either way people tend to take me seriously. My girlfriend says I'm hot so I guess it's working for me. Anything else?

[Laker67]

Most guys dont know what you think of them or how you would act when getting hit on. Id say dont be to quick to juge unless your just looking for a hot hook up for the night. Also you need to be in the right place not someplace where losers hit on you.

[dopechick483]

I'm a visual person. .. I can be friends with anyone but I can't just date some random guy that I don't at least like his appearance I may be shallow but who gives a fuck

[Laker67]

Maybe if you see a guy you like make eye contact and a smile thats the come hit on me signale for us guys.

[MazeOfLove]

From a relationship coaches perspective, 'ugly' guys don't have anything to lose in a lot of cases--so they'll take a chance.

[Chico_brah]

You're 24 years old. Most women have boyfriends at 24.

[singlebee]

You are definitely ugly from the inside... And also a bit from outside

[dopechick483]

Yeah probably but I'm alright with myself

[singlebee]

By the way is that the pic of Nicky minaj in your photo?

[Anonymous]

Is your question why guys think you're already in a relationship, or why "ugly" guys hit on you?

[dopechick483]

both...

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, well ugly guys hit on you because you don't get to choose who hits on you. It's as simple as that. As for the question in the title, can't help you with that.

[cjp94]

I don't have a girlfriend, I'm 22, ugly and socially awkward and will never get a girlfriend. You on the other hand will find someone.

[dopechick483]

Lol never say never

[SuitAndTie]

These ugly guys you speak of are the confident ones

[realworld2017]

Maybe you are very pretty? Dirtbags seem to be the only ones that approach pretty women these days.

[Pilulu]

Ugly guys suck they need to leave you alone. Call 911 That's sexual assault

[Bmlawt80]

I will hello I'm not afraid to say it you are beautiful

[catelyntje]

Oh girl troll harder

[dopechick483]

bitch please

[catelyntje]

Why?

[catelyntje]

There is no need in calling me a b! txh?

[Chico_brah]

@dopechick483 you seem pretty low class just by reading the comments. It might do you some good to put things into rational perspective here. It's not very rational to say that every guy in the world is the issue and not you. Just throwing that out there.

[dopechick483]

where have I said every guy is the issue? how the fuck can every guy be the fucking issue when I don't fucking know every fucking guy?

[Chico_brah]

Well fuck me. I guess what the fuck I'm trying to say is that if every fucking guy that approaches you is fucking ugly then you might not be fucking presenting yourself in the best fucking way. Maybe you are not as fucking attractive as you think you are. Maybe the fucking issue is you. Fuck that might be an eyeopening. #FuckYeah

[dopechick483]

lmao

[Chico_brah]

ayyy well at least you got a sense of humor.

[catelyntje]

@Chico_brah lmaooo

[Anonymous]

You kinda look like Nicki Minaj, that kinda answer why...

[CT_CD]

I don't think you're pretty

[mrsarcasticbong]

same problem girls assume I'm taken

[Anonymous]

Feel bad for whatever guy you end up with

[mandyoi]

No clue.

[dopechick483]

Yeah I wasn't really expecting answers from people I was sorta venting lol I have some theories as to why

[Anonymous]

trolling