GUYS!! Do you gossip about girls with your guy friends?

[Anonymous]

1. Would you tell your friends good things about a girl if you didn't have a crush on her?
2. Do you ever gossip about other girls with your guy friends?

I was talking to this guy in my class one day, and out of nowhere, he said my name. So I asked him how he knew me, and he told me that my crush talked about me. He said my crush said good things about me, and told him I am really good at this sport I do. Then, he told me some other things his friends said about me. They actually knew a lot of stuff about me that I didn't even tell them! I didn't even know this guy knew my crush! What does it mean?

[bdr8046]

Gossip? No. Friends ask things like "Have you had sex with her yet?" and we answer. Friend talks about a girl he's interested in, and if we don't know her, or approve, we say so. Otherwise we warn him about negative things we know of her. That's about it.

[Asker]

So if you had a crush on a girl, would you tell your friends good things about her?

[bdr8046]

That would depend on how well I knew her. I wouldn't make things up or fantasize about what she is like with them. If I knew her well enough, I might describe the good qualities she has if the conversation gets there. I wouldn't go out of my way to just interject her into a conversation if she was nothing more than a crush

[Asker]

Thanks! I didn't know that, and that helps me lots :)

[Danny_dan92]

I don't think gossip is the right word for it. More like briefly describe how dates go and that's it.

I don't like disclosing how good the sex is or any personal details about her for several reasons

[Asker]

As a teen, did you ever talk to your bros about a crush and introduce them to her? (ex. getting them to hangout with you and her so they know her?)

[Danny_dan92]

If she was a crush, no

[Asker]

Why not?

[Danny_dan92]

Because the only time you introduce a girl to your boys or your family is when you have already established a committed relationship with her

[Asker]

I'm not in a relationship with him. He isn't allowed to date (Family rule) until this upcoming September, but he has already asked me to hang out with him and his friends. Did he friendzone me?

[Danny_dan92]

Idk? This guy is young, so I don't know what he is thinking

[Asker]

That's okay, you were probably the most help, so thanks! :)

[Danny_dan92]

What I can say is this though

[Danny_dan92]

When guys are younger they are more timid and tend to do things like talk about girls they like to their friends and try to relay messages to the girls they like. But with age comes confidence so eventually they have the balls to go up the girl and tell them

"hey listen, I think you're really hot. And I'm wondering if you would be down to go out with me."

[Asker]

Haha, I'll be sure to remember that for the future. And I get it, as people age, they will react to situations differently. We are only 15 turning 16, so I'm sure it's going to be different later on.

[Danny_dan92]

I will, I'm someone from the past visiting your present lmao

[Asker]

Lol :) I wish I could travel through time

[Danny_dan92]

No you don't 😐

[Asker]

Omg, you make me laugh

[Danny_dan92]

I make many many people laugh

[Danny_dan92]

Trust me 😆

[Asker]

Then we must have a lot in common :)

[Danny_dan92]

That's cool 😊

[Anonymous]

Yes, according to my observations they do. They mostly talk about the girl's appearance.

[Asker]

I never heard him say anything about my appearance. I heard that he likes my accent, and that I'm good at the sport I play. But that's good to know :)

[Anonymous]

A hell of a lot. Most of my bro groups involve this.
In fact one of best friends calls me at weird hours to talk about girls he likes and what she's did and if it means anything basically like a typical girl.
It's mostly good things than what confuses him and then what his tactics will be.

[Asker]

Haha, that's great! Girls are like that too! omg! Do you ever keep your crushes secret though?

[Opinion Owner]

Funnily enough I've caught my friends secretly being interested in girls we know but they might not say.
Like one of my boys always looks at one of our friends in that loving way. But I don't say anything because he's shy in general.
For me i only hide it if i know she's not universally attractive. If she looks weird to others but i like her i don't mention it.

[Asker]

Oh, Okay :)

[Anonymous]

Yes, every guy has one or two friends that they talk to about girls regularly.

[Asker]

Do you ever say good things about girls you see as friends, or do you only say good things regularly about your crush?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, we talk about girls we see as friends

[Asker]

Okay

[StickStickity13]

Not anymore

[Asker]

Why? Is it because you are more mature now than you were when you were younger?

[StickStickity13]

Pretty much >:)

[Asker]

Okay, good to know! :)

[Bernie2020]

Nope it's private

[Asker]

So you don't talk about her at all? What if your friends were causally talking about your crush? Would you say something nice?

[Bernie2020]

I would say something nice but I wouldn't say she's my crush.

[Asker]

Oh! I thought girls were the only ones who kept this stuff secret. Wow, I really don't know much about guys...

[Bernie2020]

I'm a private person until I can trust you well, even then I'm weary.

[Asker]

Good to know :)

[Bernie2020]

Do you have any social medias?

[Asker]

No, I don't I deleted them cause they get too addictive and get in the way of schoolwork. I was that girl who always obsessed over having the perfect instagram theme, and getting a certain amount of likes, or I'd delete the photo. It was too much work. :( hbu?

[Bernie2020]

I have many including Instagram, if you ever wanted to talk outside of GaG, I can give you my username. I have a Snapchat as well.

[Asker]

I will think about it, but I wanna stay off of it for the next few months, or at least until summer break.

[Bernie2020]

Alright

[she40841]

I pissed myself when I read this... i think no

[Asker]

Why?

[Anonymous]

Not since I was 17

[Asker]

Okay. Did you talk about girls you saw as friends, or mainly your crushes?

[Opinion Owner]

Mostly all the girls I has sex with

[Asker]

Oh. Okay

[Nahid1234]

I think no

[Asker]

Why?

[Nahid1234]

i mean they could but i don't ☺️

Want me to explain more?😊

[Asker]

Sure

[Nahid1234]

if i tell people about a girl, it is that i care about her and i think she is special 😊

i don't want to explain the first part 😂

[Asker]

So you would only tell your bros if she is special?

[Nahid1234]

Which i have before, now she isn't talking to me much.. 🤦‍♂️

Everyone mentions her to me sometimes 😂

She probably has no clue about that because she is wasting her time with other guys 🤷‍♂️

My family knows who she is a little bit too 😊

Made the brown boy mistake my telling my family 🙍‍♂️😂

Only told about one girl ☺️

The other girls i talk to aren't as special and incredible as she is 💜

That is why i don't tell anybody about them. They need to put more effort haha, i only know like four girls 😂

[Asker]

Great answer :)

[Nahid1234]

Thank ya☺️