Boyfriend keeps threatening to block me?

[Anonymous]

the guy i have been with constantly blocks me when i do nothing wrong i send one message being kind saying i miss him and hope his day goes well and luv him then he gets angry this is only my second message today for instance and its late afternoon, why when i am always nice and caring does he tend to be mean like this he would block me then unblock me later wtf, i keep allowing this like he controlls me and like it doesn't hurt my feelings when it really does, why does he always do this to me?

[dee1790]

Things to ask yourself about the relationship:
- Has his actions always been like this?
- Is he a good boyfriend in other ways?
- How are you as a girlfriend?
- Is there open communication?
- Do you hesitate to say what's on your mind?

I am unable to give you the direct answer, but maybe this can help you understand your relationship and why this is happening. What led to it, was it gradual, are there pet-peeves, personal life issues, brushing things off when it should be addressed immediately... there are so many factors

[lateapple]

I'd say there's a few reasons why this might be happening. if you are perhaps hiding something from him and you don't think he knows. He might... Another one would be is perhaps with someone else? if you spend a lot of time with him in person then it's unlikely. It depends on the situation. if you two have had an argument or he's insecure about something. that might be the cause. Everything is better discussed in person

[Asker]

he starts arguments he did Tuesday then had me blocked once again untill this morning and now wants to block me again why keep doing this if he cares? i hardly get to see him he lives a few minutes away from me but works from early the morning till past midnight everyday till about 3am or a bit earlier, i usually see him once a week or once every 2weeks , he says he works all the time so dont know if he is with some one else, what could he be insecure about or is he looking for attention?

[lateapple]

I get where you are coming from and agree with you. if he cared then he shouldn't/wouldn't do that. You'd deserve better because at the end of the day, if he's happy doing it, then it's only affecting you which will hurt you emotionally. if you could. it might be worth giving him a taste of his own medicine? not necessarily block him but not speak to him for a few days in the hope he begins to realise that he can't throw you around and you won't stand there and accept it. How long have you known one another?

[Asker]

thank you , yah it has effected me and then the worst part is he tells me he does it for , e to lesrn my lesson and to punish me when i did nothing wrong, he is treating me like his puppet and property like i have no feelings, then meanwhile while im blocked he is upto other shit like he isn't even botherd he always tells me you can wait till i unblock you so deal with it, i will take ur advice and do that his last message to me was him threatening to block me so i didn't reply will keep quiet on my end and see if he reaches out, won't he not care though and like the fsct that i gone quiet? thank you

[Asker]

thank you , yah it has effected me and then the worst part is he tells me he does it for , e to lesrn my lesson and to punish me when i did nothing wrong, he is treating me like his puppet and property like i have no feelings, then meanwhile while im blocked he is upto other shit like he isn't even botherd he always tells me you can wait till i unblock you so deal with it, i will take ur advice and do that his last message to me was him threatening to block me so i didn't reply will keep quiet on my end and see if he reaches out, won't he not care though and like the fsct that i gone quiet?

[Asker]

u , yah it has effected me and then the worst part is he tells me he does it for me to learn my lesson and to punish me when i did nothing wrong, he is treating me like his puppet and property like i have no feelings, then meanwhile while im blocked he is upto other shit like he isn't even botherd he always tells me you can wait till i unblock you so deal with it, i will take ur advice and do that his last message to me was him threatening to block me so i didn't reply will keep quiet on my end and see if he reaches out, won't he not care though and like the fact that i gone quiet? sorry the same msgs just sent

[Asker]

sorry msgs got stuck there

[lateapple]

Sounds like he's bit of a dominant... if he does the care he will message you. You should be treated properly in a relationship and not like an object. if he likes the fact you have gone quiet. Take that as a reason to leave. It'll seem harsh but you are better off caring for someone that cares about you otherwise it's just wasted. He should want to talk to you not like the fact you have gone quiet!

[bri_1299]

leave him cause he playing and being mad for no reason not unless you're sending him a lot of messages at one time then waiting and sending him a lot more but if not find someone else

[Asker]

no i never do snd this was only me second reply today so i dont knoe ehst his issue is you dont do thst to some one you care about, he keeps doing it because he can see i deal with it it really hurts

[Asker]

no i never do and this was only my second reply today so i dont know what his issue is you dont do that to some one you say you care about, he keeps doing it because he can see i deal with it

[bri_1299]

leave him then find someone else who likes your messages

[LostGirl08]

I suggest that you do not tolerate that kind of behavior. It's best you tell him how you feel or maybe ask him about it. Maybe try not messaging him and let him come to you...

[Pybrid]

that's not what is supposed to happen in a relationship. I'd get out before he becomes more aggressive

[Aassem]

Because he's immature.
how serious is this, are you willing to break up with him?

[Browneye57]

Too many games. NEXT!

[cutemz]

I'll block him