What to do, when his girlfriend makes him block me?

[Anonymous]

Hey,
We've been in love. Planning to have a relationship, but then I found out he had a girlfriend. He said he didn't want to lose me, so he cheated on her with me and lied to her, because he didn't want to upset her.
Yesterday we had a talk about our feelings. I suggested him to rethink them and we could remain friends... He told the truth about us, his girlfriend got mad and told him to block me. We talked, he told me he didn't want to even the friendship, that I was the one pushing him to me and his girlfriend was listening. He blocked me.
After that he contacted from another account and suggested we could write from here. We've been really in love, I felt it fully and we were ready to remain friends, just for the sake of contacting but I was out of control, asked him why did he made his girlfriend think that I was the seducer, he also promised me in the past that he would never leave me. I was in tears and he was silent, he lied to me too and I decided to tell the truth to his girlfriend, what we were hiding from her.
Then he blocked me entirely.
Now what?
I feel bad, because lost the closest person on earth, who made my life better. I needed him the most. I feel bad of the revenge, that I told everything to his girlfriend, I ruined the trust between us.
Did I something wrong?
How can I recover from this?
Is there any hope?
I'm not going to contact him, at least now.
When should I? What do you think...
He has my books tho... I can use them to talk with him, but when... Is there any hope, again?
Please share your thoughts

[SnapTsch]

Yes you did one thing wrong
You let a cheater in your life and you encouraged him instead of getting rid of him.

You can recover by talking about it with someone who has death with this, or has helped people with the same.

There is hope to get you back on your feet.

You shouldn't contact him, ever.

You are just going to hurt yourself and you are going to be letting yourself be used for sex

[SnapTsch]

You loved him, he didn't, he was just playing you, you entire relationship is based on a lie.

I'm sorry you have to go through this, but please dont go back to him and hurt yourself

[yuy47]

Whoop her ass💪

[Kodvik]

What a sad situation... But hey... Don't feel bad... If you didn't know he was already in a relationship the only thing that you did wrong was not just totally shutting off the conversation with him...
A man that does things like that doesn't deserve you feeling sad/bad for him... I know it's hard cuz you clearly like him but... You should move on

[kenzielarson]

Throw him in the trash where he belongs. He does not give a rats ass about you. He blamed everything on you and took absolutely no responsibility. Remember, if he's willing to cheat with you, he will be willing to cheat on you.

[reptocarl]

He’s a proven liar and cheater. Are you really so stupid you think he’d never do the same to you? Really? Don’t stupids like you ever think of these things?

[deveshraunak]

He used you as side chick. He played the victim when he confessed. And now he dumps you fearing that truth might come out.

[Lok183]

It's clear that guy was only loving you for his own shit you know what I mean

[Asker]

Maybe he was there for just sex,
But we had a deep friendship, I'm sad because of the friendship... he also was the only person who supported me daily, made me feel good about myself... Well, I loved him for his personality

[Lok183]

If he don't regret the decision than why you're regrating it you should move on there are so many people in these earth who would love you more than anything.

[Lok183]

I can support you daily that's not a big deal. you'll only get yourself depressed by thinking it over

[Lok183]

If u are really so upset than u can chat with me maybe you will feel little better and I'll be glad to help you

[DarkDantee]

You are better off without him

[Anonymous]

So you were the homewrecker