To give some background information on the person: he's a sociopath with narcissistic traits. I've known him for four years, and I've had an on and off relationship with him. We've been talking for two months; however, he blocked me after I confronted him. He didn't respond—he just ghosted me and avoided any attempts of me contacting him. I'm really hurting, and I keep trying to figure out why. I would really appreciate another perspective on this.
To give some context about the confrontation—I've caught him in many lies. He lied about having a girlfriend, and cheated on her with me. He also hid me from other people. He didn't let me around his friends, and he refused to follow me on social media unless I had a male profile picture. When I changed my profile picture to a female, he unfollowed me. When I confronted him, he said he lied to his friends and told them that my account was his. When I asked why, he said he "didn't have time for this" and ignored me for the day. I sent paragraphs, telling him how this was ruining my trust for him and tearing us apart. He sent two texts, the first was a question mark, and the second was "not following on Instagram = detrimental."
Then I sent more paragraphs, trying to make sense of why he unfollowed me and why he's hiding me from other people. I told him that I wouldn't be able to move on until he provided a reason. I also exposed him on another lie, and sent a screenshot. He proceeded to block me without saying a word, and he ignored any attempts of mine to contact him. It's been three days now, and I'm really craving closure. I really want to know why he blocked me everywhere. I also don't know if I'm in the wrong, like if I was being too paranoid or dramatic.
On a side note, I'm scared to tell his girlfriend. He has my nudes, and he threatened to leak them before. I wouldn't put it past him to use revenge porn in order to silence me.
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