How do you get into a guarded man's heart? (Page 2)

Question

He's got a very tough wall up how do you get past it?

Yumenai · Answer

Make him feel comfortable around you. By comfortable I meant feel like he can trust you and can be himself. Make him laugh. Make him food as well. 😜

JacobAS · Answer

Some people might just not want to put the wall down. You might be assuming he has a really emotional side when he doesn't as well. Look for a different guy.

rgb008 · Answer

tbh…I wouldn't even waste my time. "Guarded" is code for emotionally unavailable and/or commitment issues. They're not ready for a relationship. Find someone else who is open to dating.

Streamhopper · Answer

Gonna have to be patient and keep trying. It ain't gonna be easy. But if you want it bad enough, you'll see it through.

Tdieseler · Answer

"The fastest way to a mans heart is through his stomach... no darling... its a little bit further south"---Jeff Foxworthy

Analinda1999 · Answer

if he's truly guarded then he does not reveal his true self, in which case how do you even know you like him?

houseitgoinbros · Answer

become their best friend get to know him until he's comfortable with everything about you

LovingNerd · Answer

For me personally be my friend first let me become comfortable with you I will open up.

Nyx_85 · Answer

Are you dating this guy? Are you a couple? Or are you just going out or hooking up?

lEat70sBush · Answer

You don't. Guys tend to only want sex anyway. Or are simply heartless like myself. The ones that are hellbent on staying single you might as well forget it and find someone else.

asapter61 · Answer

if you really like them you continue and try to gain trust. that person probably been through hell and back, its going to take time but at the end it may be worth the effort.

karahiri · Answer

i wouldn't try to. i think it's just better to be comfortable with another. just hang out. have fun. over time, he'll learn to trust you.

Kreneman · Answer

You have to be like Water, go with his flow, show love, physical affection towards his feelings and thoughts plus be patient and I am very confident that he will trusts you.

tinkerbell95 · Answer

It takes time. Bake him a cake just for fun. Do silly stuff to show you care and they wallet should go down.

krash2002 · Answer

Time and effort. Just be willing to be trustworthy, open, honest, and willing to put in the time to allow him to lower his guard.

Mandude · Answer

just be close to him. hang out frequently, and eventually his wall won't be there anymore.  he'll catch on to your intentions, and you'll sence if he accepts that kind of relationship or not.

Vanjasper · Answer

As difficult as it is for you to break it down, it's harder for him to open a crack and let you in. Gentle, very gentle persistence will do it, but even then you'll never break it down completely.

MisterCake · Answer

Learn whatever you can about him. Understand him five times as well as you think you need to.

PropagandaMinister · Answer

dont stay in the internet and ask "what can i do?", stay close to him and if you think he need it ask him the same question.

yeahokaysure · Answer

Be a good conversationalist and open up about your own experiences and let him respond. Maybe he responds at first, maybe he doesn't

Zac15 · Answer

Try to be his non judgmental friend... don't laugh at his past and at him... be calm and try to accept who he is... then he will come with roses on your door step

Unit1 · Answer

For me it suffices if i know, that you are on my side and have my trust, support me and DO NOT BETRAY me. Also if you open up a bit to Me, then that's a good sign.

DonJohrian · Answer

Use Batman's grappling hook to climb the wall and pass it, then I suggest you get the help of a cardiac surgeon for the heart part.

BrunetteNYC · Answer

Not up to you to do the work, it's on HIM to open up. Don't waste your time and energy.

muzixiz4me · Answer

u don't. u can't. its up to them to tear down the walls they build!!

JC103 · Answer

You slowly chip away at it. No one can just trust someone in a instant but with time you can move mountains

Yupthatsme0514 · Answer

freak in the bedroom and food. but you have to cook it!!

Kampaii_Vic · Answer

Start with food.  Climax with a good time. End with sex. Start again.. With Love.

jnett · Answer

Don't bother, if he's that guarded now, just imagine your future. Sounds like a nightmare.

razeoes · Answer

oxy-acetylene gas axe and a delicate sprinkling of thermite

slutsdontgetoral · Answer

Show signs of stability. Have a good track record with career, budgeting money, and not sleeping around.

serious · Answer

It's going to be tough, unless he softens up a little it's not going to be possible for you.

SSSasuke_ · Answer

tough walls hide very soft interiors its the small things that these guys notice

aboringuy · Answer

Show him your affection by explicitely treating him differently than others (in a good way). Little attentions repeatively should slowly make him think you care about him.

pari22 · Answer

Please tell me too once you find an answer cuz I'm in the same situation right now

babygirl6 · Answer

Just be there for him and you have to be patient with him.. I guess..

a_username2 · Answer

Make him feel comfortable around you.
Open up to him and discuss some things with him that you wouldn't just discuss with everyone.
If you think you can do it in a constructive manner, you could also ask.

lala_ray · Answer

make him trust you... then he will open up and throw everything inside over you

realperson02 · Answer

is this question a joke? by the way does he have a shy bad boy vibe or a shy nice guy vibe?

subject42 · Answer

just talk to him when he doesn't answer you can safely assume that he doesn't want anything from you

CreamLight · Answer

with trust, and try being not only his partner but also a good friend

Anonymous · Answer

Hang around him for long enough, if he drops his guard and shares something you presume is personal... you should confess? If he declines you either force yourself on him or you can leave him be...

blueeyedchick023 · Answer

just be there for him and hell slowly understand hw can trust u

imbored2252 · Answer

what does that picture have to do with what you are asking lol

Peachman · Answer

Slowly and steady ally he will let you in on his own but you have to earn his trust

Christopherthrob · Answer

You can get to his ❤️ heart threw his stomach that means food another substance we can't live without!!!

aryansky · Answer

make your appearance in such a way that it has to be catching his attention towards you. and you should wait till the time he communicates with you.

Fuentes · Answer

He needs to be able to trust you, once he does he'll come to you, any sign of rejection and hell back off and avoid you

Anonymous · Answer

Don't bother. it's too much work. You'll thank me later.

OmgItsJoe123 · Answer

Removing that cigarette is a good choice 😏. In other words, almost impossible.

JhonnyMA · Answer

intimacy , if you're intimate enough, you'll get into it, but it'll take time...

firaresta · Answer

it's so easy . imagine u climb a wall of white house. I wanna steal something. so steal it.. don't show up u what i wanna do. crash hi life try to change it to better. surprise him in his birth d. he will give u his heart and his soul and genitals 😂

lexie345 · Answer

just be friendly, if he's guarded what he needs is a friend

Regular1 · Answer

As the old saying goes: "The way to a man's heart is through his penis."

plantstrees · Answer

men have trust issues too, but mainly he wants you to make the move

johnmichaei · Answer

just be around to let him know you're there if he needs you he will break down for you

sufiannaeem · Answer

I'm one of them.. It took her more then 2 years.. Lot of hurt/pain.. Torture nd stuff. The last part depends on the man himself.. I changed my mind. And gave her something out of my life at last! I still do guard myself even from her sumtimez.

Browneye57 · Answer

Sex Food Love/affection/respect. No different than any other MAN. :)

12mayanks · Answer

the path to a man's heart is through his stomach.  one of the paths.  through his mom, is the road less taken that u could choose.

legalboxers · Answer

Time for most.. for me, I dont know. I been screwed over by everyone and everybody. I dont trust anyone

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