first and foremost, yes. it's like a sieve. you have to meet the initial attractiveness criteria before they want to put the effort into actually getting to know you.
It's the first thing you see in a person, of course there are gonna be some first impressions. Most guys I know, myself included, are getting pretty sick and tired of this stereotype, especially since this "shallow behaviour" goes both ways
first u can't say ALL men we r not all the same there are also a lot of women care only about appearances and money and stuff I'd say both genders got a bunch who cares about only these silly things
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"All men" that's so not true... Don't generalize based on your past experiences. I've met quite a few guys who wanted meaningful relationships, and I personally don't care about a girl's looks as long as she doesn't look like a troll. Looks fade over time; personality doesn't.
they do think of inner beauty but now day you can see everywhere people prefer relationship like 'the note book and 50 shades of grey'. i think if it comes to long relationship they go for inner beauty.
I don't, I care as much if not more about the girls personality than looks. I can't date a girl, or it wouldn't last long, if she just had a pretty face.
humans, in general, think of physical first because at one time men chose women based on looks and fornicate to populate. Women looked at men the same way. its in our DNA and can't be taken out.
Not at all. But that is pretty much always the FIRST thing they notice. There are unattractive girls with bad personalities too, and in order to get to know someone you have to want to spend time with them.
I'm sorry but you don't know me from adam, and if that's the way you view men, then I'm afraid I'm passing go and collecting my $200. Looking it all wrong. I don't do that behavior, I find it repulsive
Depends on the guy. Personally I value personality (the right personality for me) , interests and have a lot of respect for intelligence. I do value looks everyone dose but not just looks
This actually works to the advantage of most women. The only way to know anything about a girl's personality before meeting them is based on rumor. And girls rarely spread good rumors about each other.
No. Just no. I'm not primitive. I want her to be happy, that makes me happy. Therefore I care about her character as well. I want to be sure I can make her happy and thus be happy myself.
no. all guys aren't same. but yeah most guys just care about looks. but there are many guys who care about girls feelings. who care girls heart. who love deeply with girls.
Any guy who says they dont care about looks is lying. But it doesn't mean that a guy can't fall for an ugly girl because that also happens. But looks are the first thing guys see in girls.
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first and foremost, yes. it's like a sieve. you have to meet the initial attractiveness criteria before they want to put the effort into actually getting to know you.
It's the first thing you see in a person, of course there are gonna be some first impressions. Most guys I know, myself included, are getting pretty sick and tired of this stereotype, especially since this "shallow behaviour" goes both ways
No but having good looks will get them to pursue you initially.
Also, maybe you're projecting that you care about your appearance a little too much? You might want to examine what you're projecting.
first u can't say ALL men we r not all the same there are also a lot of women care only about appearances and money and stuff I'd say both genders got a bunch who cares about only these silly things
"All men" that's so not true... Don't generalize based on your past experiences. I've met quite a few guys who wanted meaningful relationships, and I personally don't care about a girl's looks as long as she doesn't look like a troll. Looks fade over time; personality doesn't.
great rant but completely wrong in content. not all men are that shallow but i think you are still young so confusing men with boys
they do think of inner beauty but now day you can see everywhere people prefer relationship like 'the note book and 50 shades of grey'.
i think if it comes to long relationship they go for inner beauty.
I don't, I care as much if not more about the girls personality than looks. I can't date a girl, or it wouldn't last long, if she just had a pretty face.
humans, in general, think of physical first because at one time men chose women based on looks and fornicate to populate. Women looked at men the same way. its in our DNA and can't be taken out.
Not at all. But that is pretty much always the FIRST thing they notice. There are unattractive girls with bad personalities too, and in order to get to know someone you have to want to spend time with them.
I'm sorry but you don't know me from adam, and if that's the way you view men, then I'm afraid I'm passing go and collecting my $200. Looking it all wrong. I don't do that behavior, I find it repulsive
You should reveal yourself
Depends on the guy.
Personally I value personality (the right personality for me) , interests and have a lot of respect for intelligence.
I do value looks everyone dose but not just looks
This actually works to the advantage of most women. The only way to know anything about a girl's personality before meeting them is based on rumor. And girls rarely spread good rumors about each other.
Yes, the fuck boys though but still there are lot of nice guys who care personalities than good looks.
Yes in my opinion a guy can't truly fall for a ugly girl. As a physically ugly girl I happen to know this..
Please don't assume it applies to all guys. The guys you describe are those who are looking for sex only.
Not this one. For me, looks get me to "knock on the door / enter the room", and it's everything else that get's me to "stay a spell."
No. Just no. I'm not primitive. I want her to be happy, that makes me happy. Therefore I care about her character as well. I want to be sure I can make her happy and thus be happy myself.
no. all guys aren't same.
but yeah most guys just care about looks.
but there are many guys who care about girls feelings.
who care girls heart. who love deeply with girls.
Any guy who says they dont care about looks is lying. But it doesn't mean that a guy can't fall for an ugly girl because that also happens. But looks are the first thing guys see in girls.