I have been frustrated by this fact before as well. But then I thought about it and I realized that it’s kind of the equivalent of women who will only date (or mostly go for) rich men or successful men, even when they’re not attractive, or even on their death bed! 😂 After realizing this, it occurred to me that it really IS biological. Men look for an attractive, thin woman because I think for them that biologically it shows she can “take care of herself” and is healthy and therefore she’ll be good at taking care of him, children etc. And women biologically go for men who can “provide” and “protect”. Of course there are exceptions and definitely in this modern age a lot more people are redefining gender roles etc. But on the most basic level of how we’re made as men and women... I think that’s just how our brains tick.
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The main thing that seperates a friendship from a romantic relationship is physical intimacy. So we wanna make sure we're going to be enjoying that.
If a girl has a nice personality but is ugly then she's a prime candidate for the friendzone.
I'm going to point out that a lot of women date for status and money, so I kinda doubt your friends are in it for "personality the most" just because they're with fatties.
If they're with fat poor guys then I'd suggest they're stupid, and ask "why not just keep those guys around as friends and date all the good looking or wealthy dudes?
As a person who has only dated women who look "plain" or even ugly "they were beautiful to me" and overweight women, I'm done with that. I thought they would be kinder and even smarter and less shallow. I was wrong. I might as well go for slim beautiful women now.
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Look$ are not what mo$t women look for in a $pouse. There are $ome other thing$ they value more. OF cour$e they want him to be $ucce$$ful. How he treat$ a woman i$ important-he mu$t make her feel $pecial. Neb focu$ on look$ becau$e it is an indicator of reproductive health.
because guy's can't get turned on by something they're not sexually attracted to, but looks can only get you so far. If you don't have a personality guys will see right through that and use a girl as a fuck n chuck or pump n dump and not consider her relationship material because she has no substance to offer.
It's just that initial attraction like looks is necessary thing for relationship in our human society type thinking which both gender some people blindly follow.
Do you really believe that men are different to women in that? Maybe they are more openly talking about it and admitting it in front of others, but als women deserve and want a good looking guy.
“So” focused is very abstract and cannot be measured. Girls also very much judge a mans looks dont even play that card
It's biological, but a lot of guys prioritize personality.
It's not men, it's you who think that.
I rejected the hotest girls due to having horrible attitudes.
Perhaps they thought as you do.Because this gives the potential offspring a higher chance of finding a potential mate in the future. No one wants and ugly fat chick because we have eyes.
Just the way guys are. Why are women so focused on the guys income?
Men are visual creatures only a lot of times and he fails to see that women are good in other areas too.
Looks are typically the first thing that attracts you.
everyone is focused on looks. What else can you focus on when you don't know the other person?
I give following weightage Choosing a girl freind.
Personality 40
Looks 40
Values 20Men are focused on looks? That's a first.
What do women have to offer other than looks and sex?
I don't really care about looks.
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