he's not texting me back and I want revenge?

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this guy ignored me all weekend and i think its lame of him after he asked me on a date for almost a year. i wasn't ready cause i went through a break up and i didn't feel ready but we spoke on whatsapp and he turned out to be a sweetheart. so then i decided to go on a date and he was really nice and we went on a secon date and i still thought he was nice. but now he's ignoring me all weekend and this is really pissing me off. i want revenge he knows how sore my heart was went on 2 dates and ran away. seriously this is a shitty way of doing things. like dont tell me uou like me after the dates then run away. what the hell do you need extra attention or whats the problem?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't worry girl! I saw the comment here making you seem crazy whatever... you are just frustrated and guess what you are right!!! I suggest you take revenge by silence too , follow his shadow do what he does
If it takes him 3 hours to text you back then you text after 3 hours... and so on
Problem is make sure you don't feel hurt.. it's you who matters. However if you like him it's better to be honest but if he is reacting weird than it's better to step back and follow what he does. If he realizes he was wrong he already knows you and your number he will contact you if he doesn't then it's his loss.
And always always date other guys don't restrict yourself and don't hide because of heartbroken if you do you won't see your mr. right keep watching 😊

Decemberbaby86 · Accepted Answer

Guys pull away for a number of reasons. Could be that he really likes you and it scares him so he's trying to think about how he feels or he could be stressed about other things. Or it could be that he's just not interested which there is nothing you can do but move on. But getting angry and wanting revenge especially in the beginning is the worst thing you can do. Give him his space. Ever heard of the rubber band effect? It's natural for a guy to pull away sometimes. At least give the guy a chance to tell you why he's being distant boyfriend you freak out. You don't want to come across like you're needy. Just do your own thing and wait and see. It's only the weekend.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

He was pretty much playing chase with you for a full year, when he finally got the dates he's been wanting, he suddenly wasn't interested. He wasn't truly interested, he just wanted to prove to himself that he could get you. No man is going to waste that much time on one woman who's unavailable when there whole lot of women who are. Most guys move on and go to the next one. So please don't listen to the men who are calling you psycho just cause your angry this guy has now decided to leave you alone after a year and two dates.

kittikat92 · Accepted Answer

If he is ignoring you then ignore him back, especially when he finally gets a hold of you. I did this not to long ago and like I predicted he came back running. Although if that advice doesn't work out the. he just isn't into you for whatever reason. My take on revenge is, what's the point? If anything when you see him again in person act like nothing even happened, like you've never met him before. I do that constantly to those I'm pissed at, because I am killing them in silence and kindness.

AlphaGhost · Accepted Answer

I have absolutely confident that, your B. F was a very wise man that saw this real you under the tons of makeup and the fake personality you girls put up for dates. Your current behaviour reflect the problem that is reason for your breakup in the first place.

Hossammaximum · Accepted Answer

kill him

Barrabus_the_Free · Answer

Revenge? Because he hasn't texted back over a weekend, when he could be doing any one of a million things.

You're a psycho who should stay FAR away from any men so you don't end up ruining someone's life because you got bored or thought you needed more attention, so you made a false accusation.

Do the world a favour and check yourself into a mental hospital.

bethany24 · Answer

don't waste your time thinking of someone who doesn't have the decency to acknowledge you or at least say hey i'm not feeling it.. don't worry about revenge karma will get him ;)

Crapulux · Answer

> but now he's ignoring me all weekend and this is really pissing me off. i want revenge he knows how sore my heart was went on 2 dates and ran away. seriously this is a shitty way of doing things

Well, you had two dates during which this man came to the correct conclusion that you are a psycho bitch, therefore he kicked you out of his life. Who could blame him?

xav_mar · Answer

he probably did the right thing since you sound like a psycho.. calling for revenge just because he didn't text you back? are you 15? move on

Justinaveragedude · Answer

He was patient with you, you want try be patient with him. You are the only person involved, and the relationship is not just about you. There may well be a reason he reason he isn't getting back to you. You might want to talk to him face to face before going after revenge.

luna33 · Answer

Ignore him next time like he never existed lol and move on. His loss.

lMike · Answer

your crazy. you want revenge for him not texting you back after 2 dates? maybe on those 2 dates he decided that he actually doesn't like you.. and since ur acting like this over a WEEKEND... i can see why the change of heart. maybe he's lining women up and seeing what his favorite is. you'll have your results next week.

Maverick30 · Answer

karma will take its toll don't worry just keep moving forward to tell you the truth he's probably busy with another chick but you know what don't beat yourself up for it in the end it's his lost not yours there's pleanty more where he came from

Atlasass · Answer

Even though I am the 16 yo teenager here I can say that you are worse than any other 16 yo teenager. You sound like a psycho
I think he did the best thing
Like taking a revenge because he didn't respond you? pfft

Max_winner1 · Answer

Did you say something? Usually when I'm on a date I pay attention to what she says. Some might sound weird so maybe you scared him off. Anyways sorry lady the train has left the station. Move on.

reptocarl · Answer

He's changed his mind. He's decided you're not for him

Anonymous · Answer

Umm... you did you have sex with him? Other than that I guess he might have gotten your hopes up and gave you something to hold on to but If you didn't let get that close to you why do you want revenge? Sounds abit overkill.

vinki · Answer

don't worry you call him and say that you got New friend and he is cool... immediately he will come to you 😉it's more enough to take a revenge

meatballs21 · Answer

Run away? It's just the weekend, he's allowed to have a life beyond the girl he's gone on two whole dates with.

TheUglyMonk · Answer

People have better things to do on weekends, he waited a year, now you wait a week.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What's the point om getting revenge? Will it show you the path to long term happiness?

Lumberman53 · Answer

Just don't bother with him instead of getting revenge

Anonymous · Answer

Have you been diagnosed yet? Do they know where you are?

Smegskull · Answer

maybe he thinks you want to take it slow and not be pressed... wonder what could have possibly given him that idea, cough cough!

Pink2000 · Answer

Well you didn't wanna go out with him in the first place.

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