He got mad when I cancelled our date due to sickness?

[Anonymous]

We were supposed to meet for the first time today, but unfortunately I woke up with fever and felt really ill. I told him, but he got mad and was like "fine, whatever, I don't care"

I think that was really rude of him, maybe he was only out for a hookup?

[That1tallguy]

Are girls really this oblivious smh girls are known to flake it's extremely common and even worse they don't see the problem with it. at least 8/10 times when a girl all the sudden conveniently get "sick" on the day of the date it's bullshit.
Every time I get flaked on they hit me with oh I'm not feeling well last minute. We had plans a week ahead time but when it's time to meet up your sick 🤔 I know there's a small chance they're telling the truth but most likely they just don't want to go and they don't have the balls to tell you. Sometimes I get upset but I never let then know they got the best of me so I just say ok.
The dating game could be very frustrating for a guy you put in all this effort and get nothing in return. I imagine he hasn't had the best luck when dating constantly being flaked on and is just sick of all the games. so he let he's emotions get the best of i do agree tho he could have handled it better.

[That1tallguy]

Not saying you weren't sick I'm just saying this is usually the case. When you get flaked on repeatedly you have trouble believing girls and can't help but think they're just trying to get out of a date.

[rkf_helps_247]

Hookup?
uhh... maybe.

or maybe... he must have planned something special for you and it took him a lot of hard work to do so. And when you called it off all of a sudden, his emotion turned into anger.

You see, most guys get angry coz their partner doesn't understand them Totally and starts judging them.

SOLUTION?

Talk to him. Thats the most effective way there is.
Share each other's thoughts and get an in depth understanding of each other

[BrittBratt2416]

You have to look at it his point of view, you made a a date then coincidentally you just happened to get sick on the very day you were suppose to go on the date. Does that not sound like some flaky last minute excuse to you so you didn't have to go? Yes things randomly happen at the wrong timing, but people know from personal experience or stories that people will use emergencies or other excuses to get out of a date. I would think the same way myself but at same time hope the person is being truthful, but when the person finds out it was a lie it makes it harder for them to trust the next person that's canceling on them personal reasons.

[InkBunBun]

I think he has gotten use to hearing that kind of talk before and thinks your just blowing him off? I'd wait a little while for him to cool off and explain that your just sick and would like to meet up soon after just let him know it wasn't something planed and u are still interested in him after, and then later if things are better get him to apologize for being a prick because your sick in a nice way~* PS: I hope you get better soon.

[luvstoned4him]

What the hell?
Honey, he dont care about you. Anyone who has ever been sick, knows that rest, fluids and getting better is imperative to have a great time. I never enjoy anything when I am sick, NOTHING.

[AlphaGhost]

He was thinking that you are making an excuse and its the new games. She would make plans and then dump it and we don't even know, You are not lying and if you are. Then you deserve much worse than this.

[Malaya]

Do not go out with him men who do this do not really care about you and only want your body as far as I learned but hopefully he was just having a bad day and hopefully he will apologized to

[Kaylyne]

Sweetheart, I certainly wouldn't waste my time with such a pathetic jerk, who has well and truly shown his true colours.
Just consider and look at it, that you've had a very narrow escape.

[taurus10j]

If a girl cancels first date i think she isn't interested unless she gives me an alternative date and time to meet again

[RJGraveyTrain]

He could assume you were lying and just trying to bail out last minute. Doesn't excuse the behaviour but that's what I'm assuming.

[Feurety]

He just thinks TGIF are thing to host on him if he can't handle you having a bad day it must not be worth it

[Feurety]

I have no idea how to delete this and it makes no sense... sigh

[Anonymous]

Or maybe girls have a habit of cancelling on him and he's getting frustrated.

It seems to be a new game for girls to make all sorts of plans and then ditch them at the last second now.
This may have happened to him a number of times in a row.

[Anonymous]

Stop with your bullshit games. He called you on your horse shit. You were too lazy and just didn't think he was good enough for you to put in all the work of getting dressed up. He called you on your shit. If it was a guy that you really wanted then with "fever" and all you would've put on your tallest stilettos and gotten the snot fucked out of you puss. And now you want cosigners. Your just a selfish snot rag and he called you on it.

[Feurety]

Or she was sick and instead of making him sick she, to save him from that also the second person to get the cold gets it worse.

[Opinion Owner]

@Feurety Bullshit. Guys enjoy sickness from a "new" sexual conquest.

[Feurety]

Doesn't mean she wants to have her first time with the guy while sick from experience it dampers the whole feeling.

[Opinion Owner]

@Feurety Well, she did a lot more to "damper" it instead.

[BrittBratt2416]

You just made a huge assumption based off anger.

[Opinion Owner]

@BrittBratt2416 I don't have a reason to be angry. She wasn't my date. I just call hog shit for what it is. Lets just be real - She doesn't give a fuck about this guy. If she did, she would have been there with stilettos and bells to match. He was giving her the attention she wanted but that's all she wanted from him - or she wouldn't have cancelled. He would've gone over and fed her soup for a date. Especially if she hot.

[Feurety]

That's not true at all I am not saying he is like this but there are a lot of guys who wouldn't do that maybe she can't invite anyone over I have 3 pitbulls so it makes it harder for me you don't know the whole story all you know is that this guy got his feelings hurt when she said she was to sick to go out

[Opinion Owner]

@Feurety @Feurety You're assuming he wouldn't. Sounds like he's pretty upset. So maybe he would. Also you can put the pits in other rooms. I don't know how you look. @BrittBratt2416 is pretty damn cute though. I would've fed some soup. Just sayin, these are all excuses. Not solutions.

[truthbeknown]

Maybe he has heard that "line" before and thinks you are dumping him before it even starts.

[pinkzoesbb]

He really likes you. Sounds like he was disappointed. Reschedule your date.

[false]

He obviously thinks that you're trying to make an excuse just to not meet with him and he's hurt.
Because those things actually happen.

[Anonymous]

sighs, if you got sick right before you are supposed to see him. It is not meant to be, yes it is a sign that he is just a fuck boy without compassion and understanding.

[cattertone]

He thinks you're making an excuse to avoid meeting him

[Anonymous]

That's rude. He should be worried about your health.
You dodged a bullet

[Richareens]

Honestly dump that jerk. He sounds self-absorbed.

[Anon85]

Dumping him over that would be self-absorbed.

[Richareens]

@Anon85 the fact that he doesn't give a shit about her being sick, only caring about the fact that he now has a cancelled plan is self absorbed. Bleh

[Anon85]

From his perspective it just sounds like she's blowing him off. He's giving her the benefit of the doubt (hence his reply of ''okay, fine, whatever'') but his frustration is going to come through. It's the oldest trick in the book and it's understandable that the thought went through his head. And dumping him over that would be far more self-absorbed than anything he's done so far. It's a display of that ''I deserve better'' nonsense that everyone throws around these days

[Richareens]

@Anon85 the least he could've done was to tell her to get well soon instead of being salty. OP is better off without him and yes I daresay.

[Pinay_ako]

yes, he wanted his d/ck wet. say NEXT!

[SAMI_DABBAB]

He must've put some effort in preparing for it.

[Browneye57]

There has to be more to this story. [shrug]

[Regular1]

Of course he just wanted to hook up

[Revolver_Ocelot]

ha lol, sucks for him

[1truekhaleesi]

That's a red flag.

[Anonymous]

he didn't believe you in my opinion

[jamieleerlk]

say bye bye