Should I be mad he canceled our date after we had a petty argument?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I got into a petty argument, which involved his words not matching to my tangible proof so i called him a master liar. Instrad of clarifying things to me he blamed me and that angered me, after a few hours i asked him if we are still going on the date he said "i need some time alone to reinvent myself" and now im very confused and kind of mad. Am i wrong?

[Soldier_946]

I used to be like that.

Your boyfriend is not use to having debate and loosing. I guess one of his parents is like that as well. It hits him right in its pride.

You have to work on him while he is calm and tell him he needs to improve.

It took me 2 years to stop being like that thanks to my bestfriend. The only thing is that he has to have the will to change otherwise he will never be normal.

So, yes you should be mad.

[hellacray]

Well without knowing what the argument was about it's hard to say how pretty it really was.

So... I don't know maybe he was really frustrated. And if you're not in the mood you can't force yourself to do it.

Same thing when guys ask for sex and the girl isn't feeling it that night.

[KitKnickKat]

I find lots of men like this. My boyfriend is the same, if we get into some sort of stupid disagreement that actually gets him fired up, he won’t want to hang out for a bit either. I mean, if they are mad then why forcefully get together and fight more right? Might as well let things cool down before you hang out again. But this too makes me so mad lol.

[Asker]

I am so mad right now lol 🙄 Thanks for answering.

[Anonymous]

i mean with his petty answer to your question, yea id be mad. wait for him to come around. he canceled the date, let him be the one to reschedule a date

[Asker]

So annoying🙄! Thanks for answering

[OddBeMe]

Weird comment but some people need time alone after a fight. He’s prob thinking about what you said.