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Why don't men understand that no means no? (Page 2)
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Some get their heart set on a woman, and when they're really excited about her, some people can't believe that she would say no to them.
WTF! Wait a second!!! Don't you mean "Why don't ugly/friend guys I'm not interested in EVER pounding the hell out of me know that No means NO?"
I'm sure that when gritty handsome badboy slams you up against the wall No means "OMG YESSSS!!!"
No, women don't want to be raped, even by handsome bad boys. Sorry to burst your bubble.
LMFAO!!! OK, ugly SJW, with the cucked boyfriend and low self esteem... the why did Fifty Shades of Grey sell over 100 MILLION copies? hmm? it's a complete piece of shit, reads like it was written by a 4th grader but it sold 100 MILLION... holy shit!!! could you be more delusion? unfortunately for you that's a hundred million women who HATE people like you for ruining their sex life with all this "everything's rape" BS..
Not to mention the thousands of women and men (yes and men!!!) who are actually brutally raped every year and are minimalized because idiots like you think that when a guy trips and bums you, that that's rape. You're such a soulless waste.
Because people tend to hear what they want to hear. So they see a no as 'try harder'.
Because so many think that they'll be rewarded if they're persistent, plus they value their own wants over that of the women.
I suppose the sexual urge for satisfaction is so great that for some men, they tune out a woman saying no.
dude dont justify rape.
Ahh I guess that makes it okay. As long as he gets his satisfaction and all.
@IndianGirl01 @Lipsticksmearer
Dude, where did I say in my comment that rape was okay? The question "Why don't men understand that no means no?". I answered. You both read into my comment and accuse me of justifying rape. Shame on you both.
at least now you understand one component of why rape happens, if not for the sexual urge, someone's need to dominate a woman, someone's sick fantasy of cruelty to a woman, to inflict pain. You think I can justify rape?
becoz thats a most common excuse given for a rape. that she was so bful, so sluttily dress, so smiling that he just cudnt control his sexual urges and raped her.
listen u r a guy so u must be knowing better that A HUMAN BEING can't TUNE OUT NO IN TERMS OF SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS. only an animalistic mind can. now are u saying men are animals who can't control their sexual urges?
@IndianGirl01
You are freaking out and taking my comment out of context. Please, relax. I am not justifying rape. I just commented what was on my mind and you are going hog wild blowing this comment out of proportion.
dude as a girl, i have to face such comments on a day to day basis. while guys dont have to. ypu dont know such accusations and justifications of rape are so real that they make you question ur own little actions.
so maybe i am not overreacting. YOU need to be more sensitive in ur comments.
@IndianGirl01
I am going to be brutally honest in my comments. Don't you dare try to guilt trip me! I am sorry if you have dealt with personal experiences related to this topic, BUT I AM NOT ONE OF THOSE GUYS who forces himself on women, especially to have the sexual restraint I have been using since 2014 being celibate when God knows I long for sex. Chill out!
Except you are justifying rape. You haven't condemned the actions at all. Thus, you're condoning it.
@Astoriana
How the hell am I justifying rape? The question for this post is, "Why don't men understand that no means no?", my response was "I suppose the sexual urge for satisfaction is so great that for some men, they tune out a woman saying no."
This is a fair assumption behind why a man would not recognize or deliberately ignore a woman saying no to his sexual advances. I do not, in any way, elaborate in my response that this action is okay! So will you PLEASE, stop reading into my comment! I didn't realize this post was bait for women to attack men on this subject when I certainly haven't done anything to disrespect women of this kind of nature.
It's not clear. All you have said is that men who rape tune women out. You never clearly stated in your opinion that you thought it was wrong. When you are silent on an issue, you give the predators permission to keep being predators.
@Astoriana
Quoting you, "It's not clear. All you have said is that men who rape tune women out. You never clearly stated in your opinion that you thought it was wrong. When you are silent on an issue, you give the predators permission to keep being predators."
The question for this post, quote, "Why don't men understand that no means no?", my response was, quote, "I suppose the sexual urge for satisfaction is so great that for some men, they tune out a woman saying no."
Your response, quote, "All you have said is that men who rape tune women out. You never clearly stated in your opinion that you thought it was wrong."
The question for this post, quote, "The question for this post, quote, "Why don't men understand that no means no?".
I will now clarify, I DO NOT CONDONE RAPE, the very notion of a girl getting raped disturbs me and fills me with rage to kill the one raping.
Any more doubts in your mind or are we going to keep playing this game of comment tag?
it matters why you think rape happens. becoz the question here of " no means no" is durectly linked to the issue of rape.
your comment is hinting that u think rape happens becoz some men can't control their sexual urges. hence all these dislikes and opposition that u r facing. we are not overreacting. u kindly pls think before commenting such stuff. it can send the wrong msgs to other people.
@IndianGirl01
Do you think your repeated thumbs down bother me when the two of you are overreacting to a comment I made that was taken HORRIBLY out of context? Even my attempts to correct any mistake in my following comments have not satisfied the two of you! So, forget you both!
I don't support rape and I will now defend my original comment once more. I ANSWERED THE QUESTION OF THIS POST with a supposition! You both took it upon yourselves to twist my comment in order to attack me with it. Shame on the two of you. This has nothing to do with rape nor women saying no, it's about the two of you finding a need to attack me for whatever the reason is.
oh wow. how logical your comment is. two strangers who dont know you, probably are not even in the same country as you, would be " attacking " you for some " supposed" reasons. 😂😂👏 very logical..
or probably the argument that you made needs to be refined. and YOU must think before you say things and know what they mean.
let it be. you just won't get it.
all the best. peace out ✌
because she'll always say no for the first time. Later it can turn to YES lol!
Because men think with their dicks most of the time
Only if provoked
And how would you know that? Because you're a man and you're talking from personal experience?
I've heard men say it about men soooooo lol why so offended 😂
Where did I say I was offended? And tbh, some men might. But just because they're stupid and lack self control doesn't mean men in general are that way.
I assume you're offended because you asked me if I was a male and if I have personal experience when it's obvious I'm a girl.
Nah, lost in textlation. I mean I do think it's funny that girls apparently know how a guy's mind works, but I'm not going to cry about it lol.
Uhh ok
Why don't people understand that not every individual in the same gender are the same? Most of us know what no means, we aren't savages.
In all honesty the only people I know that doesn't get no means no is my family who just keeps insisting on something or ignoring my wishes. And my ex who just needed to be right.
What are we talking about here, asking for someone's number/asking for a date? Or sexual stuff? Two different answers based on two different questions.
Whatchu talkin bout Willis?
We often do understand! It's people like you who keep thinking we don't. Just don't come back when you realize how awesome we actually are.
Saying that men don't understand that no means no implies that all men don't understand that simple thing. That's quite the sexist statement 😡
Plenty of women can't take no for an answer, it's not just a male issue.
That passes blame it doesn't answer a question now does it?
@Lipsticksmearer the question is biased
Because thats not true. Three no's mean no. One or two no mean "come on give it to me baby. Im playing hard to get"
Because no means yes sometimes.
If women were consistent then there would be no confusion in my opinion
Because we are addicts and the blood loss of a huge boner impairs our hearing and judgment.
unless you're being raped 24/7 i dont think your question makes sense
I should probably add that rape is wrong even if once every 24/7 its still bad
also a lot of women say no but act "yes", take my friend this girl said she does not want to have anything sexual atm while lying next to him on the bed, and a couple seconds later she was topless giving him a handy... yes girls do that.
I thought no meant dinner at 5. Huh. Learn something new every day.
Why don't you share your Pizza and say No. I have heard that girls mean the opposite of what they say
Because when most women say "no," they really mean "keep trying." And they immediately lose all attraction to any guy who takes no for an answer.
depends on what ur refering to... If a girl says No dont get me a present u better get her a present in that situation NO does not mean NO
cuz the ones who don't understand that "no means no" usually have no respect and are total fuckboys
Because most of the time women send mixed signals. Why don't women understand that money doesn't grow on trees
Why don't you understand she's not interested if she says no.
I dont know what the fuck women mean when they talk. I had a girl once tell me yes, then turned around and said no
We're allowed to change our minds.
So are men
Yeah and what's you're point? We're talking about women changing their minds, not men.
Because you're being a hypocrite
No im not, this question is about women who say no and men who can't take no for an answer. That's what we should discuss here.
Yes you are
Because they are poorly trained animals who don't fully understand human language.
Don't generalize it. Some stupid boys really don't know what "no" means. Instead, woman also says "no" to play a "game", to make things get a little bit harder (here in Brazil we call it "se fazer de dificil", "make yourself harder"), and it's nice too. At least I like to play that with the girls I want to kiss. Trust me, good boys know when girls are just playing and when girls really don't want nothing.
Take it there's a misunderstanding as to what people mean when women like a "persistent" man.
because women often don´t mean it. only logical that it confuses the fuck out of us.
Doesn't apply to me because "no" is the only word I know
Their pride will not accept the idea that any woman would reject them.
Because SOME men don't care. You shouldn't generalize a gender based, solely, on a few experiences.
This is why😂😂😂😂
Women just seem to have the same problem , imagine that !!
I'm always known this and respected that but some guys are just too pushy and like to think whatever makes them feel better
Because when women says no they are mean "please me"
For guys, it is always try and try until we get success, this rule applies everywhere.
They see it as you being hard to get, which is true in some cases
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@ToruMatsuda I'm a lesbian, sorry
Oh come on bby
I have encountered women who didn't understand that no means no.
That doesn't answer the question. Does it?
most men do. stop generalizing
If a girl says no than it gets complicated to understand
How so?
No is a negative response, if means we're not interested and we would like you to stop.
Does that clear it up for you?
The word NO , means just that. It's a rejection. But women don't like to hear the word NO from men. Their body , their choice. Our body , Our choice too. Your young , so just giving you a word up.
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Because some women are like that. No means more sometimes
Because you say Yes to assholes because they're f*ckers and crazy instead of good guys.
Because you don't tell it hard enough or loud enough.
The reasonable ones do understand.
because sometimes girls say no even if they want to say yes
SOME men don't. And those who don't are shit.
Oh, I always thought it meant yes...
*sarcasm*
Why don't no understand that yes means men?
I wonder if they're women who know what rejection is like.
Because they are fucking stupid
Why don't women say what they mean?
Because God damnit their the victims and nothing is the victims fault ever.
@Partywithtom "No" should be pretty self explanatory. If you are confused by the word "no", then at that point, you really can't blame women.
No, it's not. I've had women say no and want me to try harder as well as the opposite. Luckily I'm generally good enough to tell the difference. So instead of saying no to not feel slutty or whatever the reason say, I want to fuck you just not here or tell me to try harder. Don't speak in code. I can't blame the individual you're right I have to blame the entirety of you.
Its more like women who dont understand it.
How so?
@pretty-kitty they say no but mea. Yes and all the other mixed signals crap.
When women say no, just assume it's a no because most women actually mean no.
@pretty-kitty i do that.
Wish they did some men do other not
Bc they succcckkk fuck them
They very often DO understand
Cuz womens no doesn't mean no half the time
#RapeCulture
I don't know what that means
she's being an idiot
@troychapman u r being one
@IndianGirl01 ur being one
@IndianGirl01 lol nope blaming everything on an excuse is just... and say your being one is not even an argument it has no value
@troychapman oh it is. :) the sensible would get it. google rape culture once. study it. then you MIGHT get it. :)
@IndianGirl01 Well thats not accrurate to my opinion
there's no cure for stupidity especially when you talk about rape culture
@troychapman oh there is. google and study about "rape culture" and it will be cured :) all the best.
No such thing lady
There kinda is. It's not a spectrum or anything, more of a pyramid. In the US you might not see a lot of it, but the point of rape culture is... getting away with rape, essentially. It can affect ANYONE, including men. Example: Making rape jokes encourages said "culture". In other countries it's just more severe. I don't expect you to admit it, but just learn a little bit.
I make rape jokes all the time like when i play calle of duty and i get like tripple teamed or something ill be like "i just got raped" or whatever but that has no correlation to actual rape
I mean, to you it doesn't bother you. I've heard girls make rape jokes too, but it can make people uncomfortable. Ahh, I'm not scolding you, just saying.
They're idiots some of them
Of course we know that
Because they're morons that's why.
They don't understand.
because their dream is to be king, LOL