What does charming mean to a guy?

[Anonymous]

besides the actual definition of course..."pleasing, delightful"

What makes a girl charming in a real guy's perspective?

[pbima]

funny I've never thought to apply that term to a girl, I've always heard it being used to describe a guy. when I think of charming it's qualities/characteristics that a guy demonstrates to a girl to show that he cares for her/respects her. I guess a girl can be charming if she does things to show she cares. if I've already demonstrated my interest in a girl, game playing will not "make me want her more" it only kills the attraction until its gone. so if you feel the same way, be the one to initiate conversations with him sometimes. if in the odd chance he seems mad or upset about something, then ask him if he's OK (I say odd chance because normally he won't let you see). I really respect a girl who is honest about where she comes from, and it makes the attraction skyrocket instead of idling it with game playing. hope this helped

[Asker]

Haha good answer but where did the game playing comment come from?! lol it's a good side comment but I just thought it was kinda random.

[pbima]

Haha maybe a little random but I'm saying you can be charming by conveying interest back to someone, the opposite of charming would be to play games aka being distant and not conveying interest, which a lot of people do.

[Asker]

Oh OK, makes sense. BUT sometimes girls don't even know they're playing games ha. honestly, some, well most, girls are shy around guys they like so they play games not on purpose but because they're to shy to come out and display interest in you. Some girls, mostly shy girls, can't read guys as easily as others so one may look like she's playing games but she really has no idea what to do because she isn't able to read you!

Hopefully that makes sense! haha

[pbima]

It does but I feel I can spot the difference (at least I hope I can ;)

[Asker]

Haha hopefully you can! Just don't be too sure of yourself! lol make contact with a girl more than once if you think she's being a tease...just to make sure she knows you're interested and not just being friendly or something haha.

[pbima]

Oh I definitely do, thanks for looking out for me though it's nice ha ha :)

[Asker]

No problem! I'm a nice girl! lol good luck!

[pbima]

Lol good luck to you as well

[lelle]

i think its a good way to talk about the woman like what kim hyung joong said about lee hyori