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He has a girlfriend. If he's being anything more than platonic and friendly, he's a slimeball. Dont be a home wrecker. Stay away.
He sounds like a creep in all honesty... that is one thing for a middle schooler to flirt like that but not a grown man
So any advice? And maybe a reason he acts this way?
Well I can't tell you who to like but if he is willing to flirt with you while in a relationship then he would be willing to flirt with other women while with you, I would recommend seeking out a man who is more worthy of your love. As for why he acts this way... no idea, he may have a mental illness and can't help it, maybe he was raised like that or maybe he just doesn't care. I can't tell you why he would act that way though, I can only give you my non professional opinion.
Of course that is my opinion, ultimately it is up to you, you know him better than I do
It certainly sounds a bit stalkerish and unhealthy.
but there are many options. maybe they're in an open relationship with his girlfriend. Or he just doesn't want to be with her, adequately or infatuated by you, and cannot braven up to do it the proper way so he wants to pull the old trick of post-factum substitution. or he's just a dude who does not think consequence and does what he wants. you should probably just confront and ask him about his obvious interest in you and his girlfriend in contrast. it isn't something bad to ask this, especially while it became so obvious already
It sounds more like you are trying to find a way to get this guy off of your back rather than anything else?
I have the biggest crush ever on him;if i would have a checklist of all the things i would want in a guy personality and lookwise he would check all the boxes. Only thing is is that he has a girlfriend and i respect that And i also know that if he would cheat on her wit me or break up easily with her to pursue me then what stops him from doing the same to the next girl who starts working at the office or a girl at the gym while he is in a relationship with me
Well I'm definitely not going to suggest getting with a guy/girl who's taken. If he really is interested in you then clearly all is not well with his relationship and that will soon expire. We all have had a friend that we have had a crush on at some point. Carry on and if he becomes single then persue it further. For now... be grateful to have a good friend 😊
Because he has a girlfriend there's a chance he's just a flirty playful type of guy. But if I were you, I'd move on, even if he is flirting with you.
He is either going to dump his girlfriend and ask you out soon, or he is maneuvering you into being his mistress.
Omg no that coworker again
Girl ask him if he s gonna leave his girl
Before he does don't even think about bedding him cause then he just wants to score you and move on.
I think he's trying to flirt with you. Do you like him?
I have the biggest crush ever on him;if i would have a checklist of all the things i would want in a guy personality and lookwise he would check all the boxes. Only thing is is that he has a girlfriend and i respect that And i also know that if he would cheat on her wit me or break up easily with her to pursue me then what stops him from doing the same to the next girl who starts working at the office or a girl at the gym while he is in a relationship with me
I totally agree. Maybe they'll break up.
He REALLY likes you.
Then why is he still with the gf?
Maybe he doesn't realize how much you like him back. Try kissing him and see what happens. Usually I don't advocate breaking up a couple, but in this case it's clear he really likes you.
You know i keep thinking that he may not like me that much but then i add up all of this And i think; yeah thats how someone with a crush acts.
How do i give him more hints then? Our convos always have a rather Playfull/flirty undertone and i touch him aswell (mostly a playfull push when he teases me) and in general showing my interest in him by asking him about stuff he told before do its shows i remeber. Its tricky because i dont wanna flirt too obvious because he got a girlfriend and i dont wanna homewreck anything you know. But then again maybe if i pursue him a bit more obvious he might catch it and then we can see what the situation is going to turn into. But i Just want it to be clean with no cheating And broken hearts
Be a little more obvious in pursuing him and see what happens. Follow your heart, and if your heart is drawn to him, you should go for it.
He doesn’t love or have any feelings for you. He is a douche. He sounds like a bully.
How do you figure?
If he is calling you names, and being mean to you. Playing jokes, and pranks on you. Plus messing with your head. He is bullying you.
Your in friend zone
He isn't being mean its something we do to lighten the mood at work.
But the friendzone, really?
So who was the last word. ‘hisgf’.
His girlfriend without a space so IT reads hisgf
I know that. What Im saying is. Is he calling you his girlfriend or someone else.
He is calling his girlfriend his girlfriend
Than if you want to know. Be bold, and ask.
You may or may not like his answer.
He's going in to the creepy obsessive 3rd grader phase and if I was you I'd stay away
But i have a big crush onhim?
I had a big crush on Miley Cyrus too but I grew out of it, just give it time to see how fucked up everything he does is there's like no point in dating him atm you can get a little obsessive kid and itd be the same
How do you conxlude that he is obssed? wouldn't he be texting me non stop then and move his scheduele to match mine?
He definitely thinks you're attractive, but he could be a cheater or player.
How can you tell?
Which part?
Both: where can you tell his attraction and where can you sense the player
For the attraction, I can't see a motive for why anyone would tease you that bad other than thinking you're cute. Regarding him being a player, he's obviously flirting with someone (you) who isn't his girlfriend, so he has his mind on more than one girl.
Yeah well he still has the girlfriend. But he told me today that he is slightly bipolar... thats a heavy bomb. Not something you Just. Blatter to any coworker i think. Does that mean he sees me in a certain trustworthy what or try to manipulate me?
I'm not so sure about that. I'd lean towards him thinking you're trustworthy.
So what should i do now?
Regarding him being bipolar?
The whole thing; all his Actions
Maybe you could see how serious he is about his girlfriend. But since he is still with her, you know you couldn't trust him to be faithful very much.
He just seems to want Ur attention. For what purpose, u need to ask him.
Be extremely careful. If he told you he is bipolar and he wasn't joking about it, be on Ur guard.
Yeah he want joking; he told me about the highs and lows he has and how he just had a"low" period but is now entering a "high" one. Its not something you Just Blatter to any coworker, so did je tell me this do i would feel sympathy for him so he van manipulate me this way or is he Just that comfortable around me and trusts me?
Looks like he trusts u. It's difficult to express to anyone about bipolar disorders. It's not easily understood. But the high and low are difficult to deal with as you don't know which one happens when.
I know. My friend said;maybe he wants you to know all his heavy shit first to see of you can handle that and then break up with the gf? In case in word be repulsed by the thought of him having problems
Ur friend is right. But it's tough for anyone who has to deal with it along with him.
I know its a load to deal with.
My crush now wants to commit to a week of veganism because i converted him or something since i am that persuassive. Is that also him flirting or something?
So Ur a vegan huh. Is it something you have recently become or always been a vegan? Just curious. What Ur witnessing now is his high side. A lot of fun in him. I'm glad he wants to try it out. Hope he enjoys it. Hope u enjoy it with him. But just be aware that this side can shift without warning. Enjoy this side as long as it lasts. All the best. And I don't think he is flirting with u anymore. He may be starting to want you at a deeper level but he is aware too that his high side wants u, his low side will keep u away ( it's like Jekyl n Hyde).
I became a vegan about Six months ago when i had major health issues and was in and out the hospitalisatie for about 15 months but the doctors couldnt fond a cause. So with the little appetitie i had and kots of hope i ate vegan food. 6 weeks later i i was feeling well again for the first time and a month after that i started to work full time; at the company wich i met my crush aswell. So since vegan food really was a form of salvation for me i stayed vegan. Its not a Holly all cute thing but it worked for me so im happy.
About the high and low thing; the past fee weeks he had a low period. Very unmotivated and unfocussed and depressive behavior. Wich whenever we had to work he try to flip it around and say stuff; its not your fault in this down but you make it managble.
He says he is into a high period right now; starts to work out again (we are both gym rats that usally work out 6x a week), is foccused, parties less and wants to try veganism. Because i converted him or something
Good you r into veganism. Well enjoy the highs, manage the lows and hope you both find a way to remain together and be happy.
So do you think he is planning on leaving his girlfriend for me then?
I'm not sure it will happen yet. He is definitely testing the waters with you. He wants to ensure you are both sides n are able to handle it consistently. Only when he is sure you can or feels comfortable you can, will he ever leave his girlfriend. If he feels something with you that he no longer or doesn't feel for his girlfriend, only then will he leave her. That's what I see happening.
either he's flirting with you cause he's genuinely interested in you or he's flirting with you to get in your pants
He likes you. Not just as a hookup, but I think he likes you for you.
So he is crushing on me/has romantic feelings for me?
Even though he has a gf?
Most likely. His girlfriend might be mean to him, so he is trying to hint to you that he likes you.
@WarriorWolf It has nothing to do with his girlfriend. If his girlfriend really was mean or bad or a jerk or whatever he'll say to get you to date him- then WHY would he keep dating her? Honestly... if he was a GOOD guy, he'd either 1) break up with his girlfriend THEN go for @Leanandgreen or 2) ignore his feelings, let them pass and stay committed to his girlfriend. This isn't like being on a diet where he stays out of obligation but eats a slice of cake off to the side. People have feelings. Imagine if this guy were YOUR boyfriend!
He isn't a real man if he keeps his girlfriend and still flirts with other women.
Well, I can't really tell what his girlfriend is like. I can only make assumptions.
why is you questions involve guys that are still in elementary school. What grown up still teases and takes things and calls girl names. You need to rethink who you crush on.
dude sounds like a rapist.
That wouldn't surprise me. He sounds like your average sociopath.
He wants you, but he isn't loyal, so keep that in mind
If he was interested and wasn't loyal wouldn't he made his move already?
He is already making moves. He is just playing safe
So what can i expect? and what should i do?
Well i dont know if he would stick around after having sex, if i had to bet on it, i would say he probably wouldn't.
Its upto you to decide to have sex with him, im sure if you even give him the slightest green light, he would go for it.
But think about his wife. And how she would feel about it. That should make you reconsider it
It sounds like he likes you to me. Or he is at least interested in you in some fashion. Some people are just naturally flirty people, but it's pretty messed up to do this while you're committed to someone else.
Didn't bother to read this past: he has a girlfriend. Back off.
He definitely seems to have a crush on you, he might not take it much further as he is in a relationship or maybe he will, I don't know.
First off you don't want to date somebody where you're working everybody knows that
He likes you. Even if he got a girlfriend you are kind of the ideal women to him.
But you rather not choose him. He sounds like a very compromise and weak man. Is highly unlikely to keep you happy.
His girlfriend is a curvy/chubby/normal sized girl with an average to short height. She had long red straight Hair. I dont know much about her personality. I am 6'1/185cm and below 110lbs/50kg with thick wavy collarbone lenght blonde Hair. Plus people tend to say that i overflow with confidence, charisma, sarcasm and wit. So i guess that he likes that?
So what do you think i can expect from him? That he is gonna try something like kissing me when we are exiting the office? Or that he is gonna text me a lot? We dont really text right now but when we do he responds like within 30 seconds to me
He is in to you but lack confidence. So he is not likely to try to kiss you.
So Will it be Just drifting around eachother untill something happends? Because if he didn't have a girlfriend i would have asked him out weeks ago. Now i am afraid to confess my feelings or something because he has a girlfriend and i dont wanna homewreck anything
What you afraid of his girl friend? If you you want to ask him out just ask him out. Don't play safe.
He definitely likes you. Take distance, you don't want a 2-timer
He likes you but the fact he practically stalks you AND has a girlfriend is clearly bad. Just avoid him or report him if needed.
If he would be stalking wouldn't he blow up my phone or something?
He's pretty much just trying to get attention from anywhere possible, but I say he's being too drama queen for you, try to treat him or interact less and less
It sounds like harrassment, he already got a partner let her deal with him don't get entangled, if you feet theaten goto HR
He ain't harassing me, already had that aswell once at the office
harrassment can come in many form... basically if he bugging you and he has a girlfriend then stay away
or just call him an have some wild sex but dont expect him to look at you in the eye the next day
Wasted 10 mins of my life😓
He have a girlfriend 🙄
Either he just wants to be friends or he is trying to cheat.
He's got a girlfriend... respect her enough to leave well alone. .. the world is full of cheaters and having been cheated on its the worst feeling 😔
Again, communicate. If it goes well who cares about the girlfriend. If he's better off if with you hell do something about it. If he's not then oh well
I can see he is into you but he got stuck inside his current relantionship commitment's... its on his hand to take a step up or step down.
I thought/kinda hoped his relationship went donwhill but today he said he blew off the "babe" coworker (She is a very curvy hourglass girl with lots of make up and tigts clothes) when She approached him threw text and at work and now its awkward between Them because he told her he has a girlfriend.
Me and him text sometimes; nothing really flirty but he responds within like 30 seconds with 5 messages to one of mine (they are not short, i Just type one long text vs many little ones) and States like; yeah i should go back to study (he does a masters degree next to work) but i wanted to talk to you
Could he be saying this about the other coworker to test me?
Well.. best to remain friends.. Even if you like him too... Its probably best for you Leanandgreen.
If he's current relantionship goes down... Well it a try..
Woah he might be into you with all the flirting, but he could be a fuckboy. Who knows if he has done this to other girls and even when he has a girlfriend wow!
He likes you. But since he's already got a girlfriend I don't find it very good.
So he's either an expert on flirting. Or he really likes you but trapped on his commitment to his girlfriend. You should be very cautious that if you we're in the shoes of the girlfriend then he is a total jerk.
I think you should wait and not get serious with him just yet and tease him if you can but if he puts you down verbally even more cock block the fuck out of him
He doesn't put me down he teases me to light the mood. Do you think he likes me romanticly or lustfully or just friendly?
Romantically but since he teases you, tease him back for a couple days and see how he reacts and if he reacts how you want him to then either you go in for the kill or try and get him to
How should i teases him back?
What are some ways he teases you?
Just one more thing if you tell him your feelings. tell him to make up his mind about who he is going to date, bc I'm pretty sure you don't want to be the side ho right and vice versa for the other lady she doesn't want to be the side ho so get him to make up his mind and if he can't. tell the other chick bc some dudes are ass holes like that even though they are very sweet
Like stated above he calls me diabolical etc and that i am pure evil etc and makes slightly childish Jokes etc. Also how i am really skinny and can't really lift weights and how i am a super chaotic. Usally i make a witty comment back and teases him back in the same way
Oh my god, seriously? Stop it, really. He is trying to get with you while he is with his girlfriend right? Ok so, when you get with him then you're just a number, a notch on his belt. If you plan on it getting serious, stop fooling yourself, if you become his girlfriend who is going to try to get with then since he has you? If you like free love and sharing your "man" with others then go for it, if you want sex to stay between you and him then I recommend falling asleep, because the only place that'll happen is in your dreams. Seriously, open your eyes and stop falling for the dumb shit, you're smarter than that, wake up and see the situation for the nightmare it is.
@Mikeredskin so im Just being groomed to be a Sidechick?
Honey, you were a sidechick the moment he opened his mouth and you flashed him that pretty smile. He isn't loyal to his girl, he won't be loyal to you. Next time he speaks to you I would just do non verbal communication, a simple nod of the head. You women want the pretty popular guys but don't understand most of them are shit, meanwhile there's guys like me who like spending time with you and want to get to know as much about you as possible. But, no, we are too clingy and don't even get the time of day from you. If you want someone who truly cares about you, forget that fuckboy who thinks you look better with your pants off, instead go for the guy who always looks at you and waves and tries to talk to you as much as possible.
@Mikeredskin no Guy ever dares to talk to me so i always have to approach every single one of them. Even if its a new coworker they dont even dare to shake my hand. So he got some courage and a Nice energy wich i happen to like. The Guy that waves at me from a distance or tried to talk and learn anything about me never appearce so i take matters. in own hand and approach the guys myself. And my crush is approaching me and wants to know all about me and actully remebers anything wich never happend before so is it so wrong that i am intriguded while maybe the "Nice"(of you wanna call my crush a fuckboi go ahead then) guys never acted like i have anything interesting to say?
look, if you want in his pants and he wants in yours then go for it, some lessons can't be taught, only learned over time through experience. Of course the nice guy doesn't try anything with you, because he sees you're interested in another guy and feels he doesn't stand a chance with you so he decides not to get his heart broken by trying. If you want a man who has a girl but isn't satisfied with her then that's on you, who knows, maybe you'll be the satisfaction he's looking for... then again, you might just be the next piece of ass he's looking for. You're a grown woman, you're going to do what you want regardless. So take the chance or not, you'd be learning a lesson either way it goes.
@Mikeredskin i mean the boxer guys in general dont approach me; never happend. Not in high school, the gym, or college. And now at work no "Nice" Guy approaching me or seeing interested in me. Even if i try to talk to them as a friendly way of convo they are kinda taken of/umcomfortable by me talking to them so they dont respond and kinda ignore me so yeah
Or perhaps they are left breathless by the thought of you approaching and conversing with them. Maybe, like me, when a talking for a beautiful lady, they way overthink about how to respond. When talking to me, you may feel like I'm ignoring you but really I'm focused on thinking about things to say that might interest you or get you to feel about me as I do you. It's not that we're uncomfortable with you, it's that we are trying not to fuck up a conversation with a gorgeous lady so she will talk to us more often.
Mikeredskin is correct in many ways.
When he already has a girlfriend and has that kind of behaviour, he seems like a guy you would just get hurt by if you get involved with him
Clearly he likes you, but he has a girlfriend so I would avoid him. If he won't stop you may need to talk to human resources.
To many red flags esp he has a girlfriend, but ofc there is a possibility he's being friendly
I advise you dont let your guard down.
he already has a girlfriend. you should stay away from him. he's basically cheating on his girlfriend. and if he does this with her. he'll do it to you too.
Stay away, like others said he has a girlfriend, and no problem flirting with someone else. Someone i would def keep away. Something about this guy screams long distant friend to me.
Confront him clearly. Tell him that since he's already in a relationship, you don't want to ruin it. Just remember that if someone can breakup for you, they will breakup with you as well
*yawn, she's a bitch. and he should break up with her and live alone. better than being bullied by a so called friend.
Excuse me?
"He has a girlfriend, but does and says the following?"
"my coworker does/says;
*Teasing me (slamming my keyboard when in working, grabbing my phone and not giving it back untill i gotta grab his hand, calling me a evil bee/diabolic, teasing me with my former speech/stutter problem, making childish Jokes, teasing me about how my work performance is above average and when i have An average day that im the worst)
*Asking me wheter or not i kissed another coworker during a night of clubbing, how my past relationship went, if i hooked up with any guys at a party. He also openly expressed his opions about how relationships should work in further views ; also his view on kids etc and he told me about serveral of his past relationships; how he is into damaged chicks for the most part and that his current girlfriend isn't one"
It's soooo long, i don't want to read all this shit. Could somebody summarise it to me?
Sounds like he's into you (or wants to get into you ;) haha )
If he would want Just sex wouldn't he have made his move already (we are drifting around eachother like this for 2 months) and persue me more aggressive like texting me a lot or something?
And how do you sense he is into me and does not see me friendly basis?
I didn't mean just sex haha, it was just a bad joke.
I don't know, it's just that the way you described it sounds very similar to stuff I might do in his situation
But he still has a girlfriend. Do you think he is gonna dump het for me or something? With him all acting like this And opening up to me.. thats not something you Just say to a random coworker i think
I agree. It sound like he's still trying to decide what he wants. But I think he will probably end up breaking up with Her
Not that i wanna homewreck i Just want him for myself you know. Without a heartbreak and drama. Ans if he was single i would have asked him out weeks ago
Yeah I know what you mean, that's perfectly understandable :)
Well I think he hs interest in you but I would keep it friendly if possible definetly because of his girlfriend
If this guy breaks up with her girlfriend to be with you.. my advise is don't accept him because you are just gonna get played by him.
Please be careful because it took all go wrong for the both of yous romance in the work can mess with both heads so haves laugh or what ever but don't rush
So you like this guy? Are you single? If answer to both of these is yes then ask him out without further delay or you will be friendzoned
I really like him and i am really single but he has a very real gf!
They way you have put up everything states he is not interested in that relationship. He is into you... but you need to take a decision sooner than later dear
So i need to confront him next time we are alone?
I would say confess your feelings or do you want to test him?
He just wants to smash, its his way of trying to get under your skin, believe me, i used to do that.
Best thing about all of this, you two will have some steamy kinky one-time great sexy times..
Vertiually possess the best synchronized systems to hold each other's hand while you watch the world die.
Excuse me?
I'd ask him to tell you his intentions it sound like he likes you he might be using the other girl as the jealous factor so id ask him what's what
No the girlfriend is real and her Facebook is full of pics of the two of them. He rarely mentions her a lot of coworkers didn't know about it either
Hem then the best I can say is figure out if he's trying for something and then if so talk to the other girl and figure out what y'all want to do from there. Ps I'd be sure to discreetly record your encounter with him in case she doesn't believe you telling her if he is trying to double dip
I dont know her personaly
Even without knowing her you can message her on Facebook to let her know what's going on
One of the worst things a guy can do is try to get 2 girls at once it shows all he cares about is sex
I actully dont have Facebook, afriend of mine looked for him and then found her aswell.
He definitely likes you. You should confront him about it if you like him back and talk about his situation
I have the biggest crush ever on him;if i would have a checklist of all the things i would want in a guy personality and lookwise he would check all the boxes. Only thing is is that he has a girlfriend and i respect that And i also know that if he would cheat on her wit me or break up easily with her to pursue me then what stops him from doing the same to the next girl who starts working at the office or a girl at the gym while he is in a relationship with me
So what should i do? I wanna pursue it on friendly basis since he is great to. be around; sitting a lot of shifts together, geting to know eachother and have fun. We go to the same gym 6 Times a week but we never see eachother there so i said why dont you text me when you te going? Could be fun. That was a few weeks ago. Wich he said sure. But never did. Now he wants me to text him those recipes.
We have or own inside jokes now, remeber stuff about eachother from previous convos, talk about more serious stuff like Politics pshycology, religion, health while being goofy at the same time. Also we had to work An 8 hout shift together yesterday and he only left my side 2 Times when he had to go to the bathroom; even with that he waited till i had to go aswell. Also we had the same breaks and he stayed with me aswell. Not going to his other coworker Friends or something.
At the end of the night i said that i is always so Nice to work together wich he said ; yeah always so much fun
Talk to him. Maybe he likes you or maybe he's just friends with you. You really don't know until he says
Sounds like this guy has some issues with personal space, keep an eye on him
I ready the story two times, but, I didn't get what you really want to ask?
Sounds like he wants more drama in his life. Proceed with caution
He sounds like a total arsehole shutting on one girl while trying to manipulate another do yourself a favour ignore him or get better job xx
He's definitely interested but if you're interested too please wait until he's single.
He sounds like a pain in the butt. I would try to keep him at a distance.
Why was i asked to answer this question? What is the question? Are you on meth? I am. Its great.
Keep telling him that he's in a relationship already and should focus on that please don't try to b selfish here
If he's in a relationship you should tell him or remind him he is by asking is your girl gonna like this? He'll only do what ypu allow him to
If you need a better opinion, just be precise, a shorter story is beter